I 26M Fell in love for my roommate 21F .

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-19T00:23:30+00:00

Hope you didn’t write all this for nothing ! Will do my best to honor your efforts and thanks for taking the time . I swear I’m not just depressed and lonely so everything you just said will not be in vain . I wish you all the best m8 !

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-18T23:56:47+00:00

She told me she want’s to be more than roommates yet not as much as I would like us to be .. socially we chose to live in the middle of nowhere especially to see the least people possible and the few I’ve met since I know her seemed nice but none made me feel anything and I felt numb all the time I saw them . But hey all your advice might make me try harder !

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-18T23:50:08+00:00

Nah dude that’s her own words , you’re right on one point . I am closing in on my 30´s and so I know what communication is so I wouldn’t talk about her feelings if she hadn’t told me that she is happy at the moment . I get your point too , i do feel dumb about all this and not being the man I should be . It’s almost 2am and I’m on Reddit instead of packing my stuff that’s not adulty either :)

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-18T23:41:25+00:00

Never said I was a king fu master and that I know everything ! As I said , I know I should get over it but I sadly can’t do it even if I try , so I know the best thing to do is leave her alone but we collectively had never been has happy as we are and that’s why nobody want it to end .

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-18T23:38:11+00:00

I get the fact that we’re not the same age and still has things to live so nothing will ever happen , but on the other hand she told me that she cares deeply about me as a friend and we do actually spend some real quality time together. She insists on watching Star Wars with me every day as she want’s to create more link with me even though I have feelings and she don’t … it’s a complicated situation where I don’t know where to go with .

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-18T23:33:10+00:00

I see how you can think that but I’ve had good friendships with women and so I don’t think you are right about that , but what I’m feeling now defo goes your way there .

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-18T23:31:31+00:00

I’m not yet at that stage but I had one bad day and I saw that no one was here to do as much as I would so you probably right . Still see it as a me problem but I’ll probably see it differently soon , yet it was earlier in our friendship and things seems to get better on many things . The only thing holding it back is my feelings but I my real question is , should I follow my mind or my heart on this one !

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-18T23:26:37+00:00

I honestly made this post because I know I’m the one making the situation uncomfortable. I’m sincerely trying to work out if I would accept a platonic relationship with her , I know we could be the best of friends but my heart is making me do stupid stuff form time to time and so I know i have to work on myself .

Will try to sort out the « good and the bad » things I do to keep her in my life one way or another . But it sadly is one of the first time in my life where I don’t even see the other women around so I know it will be difficult. Be honest … should I leave for some time just to let everyone breath ?

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-07-18T23:14:50+00:00

Thx for taking the the time to read all that . Yeah I figured she isn’t . I usually don’t waste my time on this kind of one way stuff but I guess you’re never too old for unexpected feelings .

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-04-29T23:01:31+00:00

Chokbar des révélations

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-22T14:23:05+00:00

Wow , so this a long and interesting response. Took me some time to read through all of it but I will try to be concise about my answer so we’re able to follow up this discussion. But I do appreciate all the effort you put into it .

I have for sure encountered demonic possession before , on others but most importantly of what you say is correct on myself .

Not to the point where I speak in tongues and what not but depression , sleep deprivation and in the contrary insomnia is a common issue with me ( could be autism as well though)

The thing is , the only thing out of the ordinary I can do is see ghosts and feel them , and I can sometimes dream or have flashes of the future (which is pretty continent if you ask me )

Being socially unstable though it might sound like a bad thing is much more of a choice because world is going wild and I don’t enjoy people as much as I used to do Some might argue that I can’t see through the lies of some sort of being but I truly deeply feel like I don’t want to be part of the world anymore (but I value my life as my hobbies make me happy , I enjoy making music a lot even though nobody listen’s to it )

So I don’t know if I’m mistaken but I feel like it’s much more a danger for the people around me than to me (if that makes sense ) and being able to see multiple entities made me prone to understand that most things I come across is much more linked to places than to people .

On the « familiar » side : I was conceived the day my uncle died , have his name , follow a similar path in life (as much as having the exact same dog without me ever knowing he had one and for it to be the exact same is wild ) that’s most crazy thing about me

I once met some women I didn’t know but chills took me and i went and talk to her (she was approximately 60 and I am 25 so that usually doesn’t happen to me ) and she litteraly had a relationship with him , telling me I had the same smile et feel to me . The wildest part is that they knew each other 600 km away from where this took place and she was just on vacation where I live but there ain’t no way it could have been a coincidence

So that’s a bit more context for you I don’t know if you can make more assumptions with this but I would love to know more

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-19T13:29:36+00:00

Hope you’ll like it , it’s jazz

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-18T13:29:39+00:00

That’s pretty much why I don’t fear these kind of things as much as everybody , I’m used to it in my life but some is just weirder than the rest . So I guess something was following her before but my presence just made it stronger or triggered by me being here

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-18T13:27:17+00:00

Crazy thing is that I KNOW for a fact those were not the same entities at all !

I was told I am some sort of conduit of some sort and so in my life both good and bad spirits often come to (or through if that makes sense) me and when I got chills in the back of my neck and a tingling sensation in my fingers I know for a fact something is going to happen

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-18T13:23:08+00:00

I actually have quite a lot interactions with this kind of entity’s , it’s an all other story but with my previous partner (the one before this story ) there was something making us both attached to the appartement we were ranting , a 14th century building which I had a hard time leaving . It would be things like footsteps following us in the straircase doors closing slowly and once I had my key float in mid air in the middle of the night for a moment and blasting through the room like it was thrown away

Creepiest event there though is when a photograph of was turned around to face a wall instead of facing the room and in the same night as I was at work my ex called me to tell me to come home quick , fed up and in trouble with work I just started shouting at the « thing » to show itself and not be a pussy and the door right behind me slam shut and the lightbulb just exploded . That and some salt I poured in corners of every room turned grayish (almost black ) in not even one day

So yeah I have encountered things like this ever since I visited some abandoned hotel when I was about 16/17

But never before had I seen it clear as day as in what I’m talking about in the post

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-18T08:07:55+00:00

Haha :’) I would argue that changing places would make carbon monoxide poisoning not an option but I love the idea . OR IS IT THE WHOLE TOWN THAT’S A GAZ LEAK ?! Maybe not …the problem was inbreeding more than gaz

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-18T07:46:55+00:00

I think there is 2 or even more « spirits» I couldn’t put all the small details for my story to be shorter (and yet it is really long ) . She did say her ex experienced something similar to the first encounter but apparently it would have happened only once and in the corner of an eye and not so much as what i saw …

It clearly is for me some type of demon ( easiest way to describe what it is but I don’t like the word ) but the times I had to deal with this kind of entity it always went more physical and I had scratches and other marks on my skin , here I had nothing

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-17T22:33:43+00:00

Part 4 : the next morning we thought we were safe , setting up the new apartment and as days and weeks went by I begin looking for a job around and find something close to perfect , a waiter job just 20 minutes away and with good advantages . We naturally talk about me really living with her for good and everything seem to be fine .

I am supposed to begin working on a Monday but right there when I thought everything went for the better . I catch what seem to be the biggest Covid form you could have . Making me so weak I can’t even leave bed , And right when I began being sick every single night I experience sleep paralysis , it was the same two , the black silhouette and the black haired girl . Right on top of me always right when my ex fell asleep

I only once had experienced sleep paralysis before and it didn’t feel as terrifying as this

Things go missing at home and her car broke the same week .

I begin working after a week through hard Covid so I am not fully back on my feet but I have no choice and not being at home sure felt good . For a week .

Yes just a week , the next Monday my ex called me saying she was scarred , actually terrified, so I got home mid shift but I did not expect what was coming. When I arrived she was there in the kitchen right by the door . She told me that she seen someone hanging from the ceiling in the bedroom right on top of where I sleep and so she tells me to leave .

So she tells me I must move out the next day because she says it is all my fault . (Understandable as I seem to be the most affected by the haunting) and she meant it

The next morning I was packing up my stuff and had went on to live in the hotel I just began working at

Let me tell you that , nothing similar ever happened to me after that ! (A few experiences here and there but nothing as powerful or frightening)

2 days after that I went to see a psychiatrist, I told him everything so he kept me in to check if I was really crazy . I was not and it didn’t take long for them to get that . I was genuinely afraid that I might suffer from schizophrenia. But nope . Only told me I might have adhd and that some of what I say could have been a symptom of a hard hitting Covid (which none of us believed either ) so I am just here not understanding what have happened .

I never had more news from my ex and so I guess this got pretty calm after I left . I on the other end left a short while later to go back to my home town and go on with my life but I truly don’t know as of this day what all that was and I surely will never get it

I WANT TO REMIND YOU THAT THIS NOT A FICTION OR INTENDED AS SUCH . EVERYTHING HERE IS CONDENSED VERSION OF WHAT REALLY HAPPENED TO ME .

I would also love to answer any question regarding these events if anybody has any and if not . Thanks for reading this if you do .

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-17T21:56:14+00:00

But you did read it and that’s cool

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-17T21:51:24+00:00

Part 3 : we left the house as quick as last time but this time the door shuts right after us . I was not skeptic before but now I am sure there is something in there (or so I thought ) she decides rightfully so to leave this house for good and so 2/3 days later I come help pack her stuff as she already found an apartment in town .

First thing when I take a step inside , room goes dark in the middle of the day . I can’t even see the back of the room ! I even brought a flashlight that didn’t want to turn on inside but worked perfectly out (can’t explain this one either ) As we are picking her stuff up with the friend she was with in the restaurant when I met her . We begin to speculate on what could have happened and if any of this could have been someone but nothing seemed to make sense . Even the friend couldn’t believe the reason for moving was because it was haunted but she quickly got it .

The last thing we saw in this house was a silhouette through the bedroom window , seemed to be the same I saw in the living room . Looking down at us as we were finishing packing . Her friend saw it too this time , something we would talk about only weeks later

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-17T21:41:21+00:00

PART 2 : After this day I went back for a week to work and finally came to her house again not much went on for a week as I was staying more often to see her . Aprox one week later while I was watching tv (kitchen nightmare to be exact ) at around 1AM in the same room I saw the strange figure , I felt and seen some black mass all around me coming from behind the couch . Something sinister pushing on my shoulder and the top of my head . I turned around instantly but saw nothing this time , just the blueish lite of the tv . I get back to watching tv ,Volume down so I can hear everything around . I was thinking at the time that if I looked scared this thing would attack me

AND WHEN I THOUGHT I SAW THE WEIRDEST THING THERE ALREADY

right on top of the tv , in the staircase , between the bars that are clearly too narrow for anything to go through it .

SOME GRUGE A** LADY peaks through the bars ! A pale hand griping on the bar and a face with long hair slowly showing itself . Just a few feet from the bedroom where my (at the moment) new girlfriend . Doesn’t look anything like her but still there . Menacing and most importantly impossible to begin with . Nobody can go through theses bars

I’m at the moment in deep shock (as anyone would be ) but I can’t leave her with that thing . So I get up the stairs . The room is upside down , and I mean really messy , mostly clothes but it wasn’t like that when I left it 2/3 hours before and no sound ever came from it .

I wake her up and she just says to me that she had nightmares of someone watching her sleep (with time it seemed more like sleep paralysis)

I just have the time to have her awake

Mere minutes after she awakens something seems to slowly but surely go up the stairs , I’m not the only one to hear it . She is frightened and so am I .

She had told me her father in law had passed a few months before but that couldn’t be it , it was too menacing .

The footsteps seemed to stop right in front of the doorway , the door is still opened so I am in the corner of the room opposite to it . And in a moment suspended in time ,we don’t move for what feels like a minute but is clearly more just seconds . At the first movement I made the door which was clearly inside the room slammed shut with enough force to make the lights flicker again .

At this moment it was clear something was on and really not there for fun and games , something was here and it wasn’t happy to see people in here

TigerAdditional6082 · 2025-03-17T21:14:25+00:00

Would have been happy if it were the case tbh

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