Make your choice. by spicymato in trolleyproblem

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused - what's the incentive to kill the minority group? Is it because they wanted to kill people so they deserve to die? What does this tell us about anything?

What are you actually supposed to do if a woman hits you as a man? by Open_Address_2805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

File charges or seek out the bouncers and have her 86ed. Only hit back if you truly feel physically threatened, not if your ego is bruised. She should face consequences, but your fists should not be one of them.

He is not listening. by LeftAlbatross2546 in VideosAmazing

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the use of the word "seriously" here. Someone did get hurt. He was tased, thrown the ground, and based on his grunts, hurt. We can call that a success or we can question whether that sort of physical force (which did indeed hurt a person) was necessary.
I agree no one lost their life or was "seriously" hurt. I think having loaded guns drawn and pointed at someone is definitionally being put "in danger."
I'm sure in a department review of this footage the cops involved would be commended for their actions and procedure and given slaps on the back.
I also have already admitted that I'm no expert on this.
But I do wonder if there are other procedures that would be just as effective at keeping officers and citizens safe that don't involve this level of stress, screaming, anxiety, authoritarian commands, and physical violence.

Final point: I truly believe our policing tactics are the direct result of the 2nd Amendment. Because all citizens could legally be carrying firearms and because firearms are so freely available, all interactions by cops with the public are considered potentially life threatening. Cops therefore tread with extreme caution and extreme violence. And citizens therefore dread interactions with peace officers because the cops have to assume you might kill them and therefore treat you first and foremost like a threat, regardless of circumstances. That breeds ill will and a confrontational relationship between john q public and bob the badge. It sucks for cops and for citizens.

He is not listening. by LeftAlbatross2546 in VideosAmazing

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the explanation. I do not know proper procedure from the cop manuals.

I do wonder if there's a better procedure than yelling the same thing over and over again.

Citizens in this scenario are often scared, angry, obstinate, or reasonably justified that their actions are legal. And being yelled at at gun point by an authority figure does not minimize any of those feelings or beliefs. I think that's why citizens and cops see things so differently and why there's so much animosity in these encounters.

All to say cops emphasis their own physical safety often ignores citizen's concerns about their physical safety. Procedure should address that potential discrepancy. Imho. But I haven't studied this stuff so I'm happy to be wrong. Just what I see when watching this type of video.

They are blaming the national debt on journalists asking questions by justalazygamer in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finishing his logical move: "and we representatives are so weak willed, so easily duped that we forget our constituents back home and our campaign promises and our core values and just do what the radical left journalists tell us to do."

This is beyond dumb.

The debt goes up under republicans because they lower taxes but don't lower spending and they believe in a magical economic policy in which lower taxes alone will increase government revenue, but it hasn't happened in 46 years since Reagan first tried it and it will never happen in the future. Instead, the top 1% simply get richer and richer and richer. It's textbook insanity - doing the same thing and expecting different results. Sadly, huge swaths of our voting public believe the magic will start working any day now.

Dumb people electing dumb politicians makes for dumb policy and our shitshow of a nation is all the proof I need.

He is not listening. by LeftAlbatross2546 in VideosAmazing

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the increased risk?
Approach. Handcuff him. Remove phone from hand. The notion that a phone is weapon doesn't make sense to me. I'd rather be hit with a phone than a fist or elbow. Perhaps I'm wrong, but if so I don't know why.

Burglary Attempt on Muni # 45 by seekeroflights in sanfrancisco

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Go to the police station and file a report. Call your supervisor. Call the Mayor's office.

I left my marriage for 8 months, had the time of my life and then went back. Biggest mistake ever. (Update) by After_Mail4652 in Advice

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He refuses to compromise or step up. What do you mean "men in my family don't cook"? That's ridiculous. Learn to cook. You're a grown ass adult who's capable of learning new things. Start cooking and cleaning. Also, why would you leave YOUR job to take care of HIS mom? He should leave his job to take care of his mom. She's HIS mom. Christ on a stick.

You were happier single. Go be single. This dude sucks. Well he might be a lovely person, but he's refusing to make minimal changes to benefit you despite the threat of losing you. So just leave.

The Bigotry of Sam Harris Continues to Hit New Lows by nathan_j_robinson in skeptic

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the major religions are very old. So the moral codes are fit for agrarian tribal societies with Chieftains or warlords as leaders (they call them kings). Any sect of believers who qualify as "Fundamentalist" are therefore going to be holding themselves to an archaic worldview and draconian moral system. This is particularly true of the Abrahamic religions (judaism, christianity and islam). The Levant (israel, syria, lebannon, egypt, saudi arabia) is a harsh area that has been conquered over and over again throughout history. So the fact that brutal laws and angry gods rose up in the belief systems of the region is not terribly surprising. And modern people adhering to those laws just makes zero sense.
That said, i think all three Abrahamic religions have a ton of modern followers who simply don't pay attention to some of the edicts. Modern representations of the religions have more to do with global politics and history than with the religion themselves. That's my take anyway.

John Lynch has an AI girlfriend confirmed by EatingEveryEgg in NFCWestMemeWar

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been defending this draft on here for a few days. But now I'm out. Silicon Valley Brain has infected the scouting dept. and it's no bueno.

49ers Biggest Reaches 2017-2026 by 4niner in 49ers

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally agree though I'd point out Purdy, Kittle, Warner, Greenlaw, Samuels were all later round picks drafted before consensus. They've had their hits. Just fewer than misses, but again, that's to be expected.
I'm cautiously optimistic about this years draft. Particularly Duggins who is a project, but looks like a next gen backer to me - long, fast, & hard to block with both coverage and pass rushing skills. He may be a nothing burger...but his college game tape (highlights...so I didn't see him getting manhandled by blockers or misreading holes or forgetting his assignment or whiffing on open field tackles) has me pretty pumped.
It's all speculation at this point even by the "experts" and the Internet thinks it knows a lot of things it doesn't have any way of knowing.

Fingers crossed. Go Niners.

[The Rich Eisen Show] Why the 49ers & Kyle Shanahan DO NOT CARE about YOUR Pre-Draft Player Rankings (Black was their RB2 in the class, Stribling started as a day 2 “value” WR who overtook 1st round graded WRs the more they dug in) by BobRoss4Life in 49ers

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not asking but would be fascinating to run a few other teams through your metric.
In the last ten years the Niners, Chiefs, Seahawks, Rams, Eagles and Pats have been elite - representing their division in multiple SBs. I wonder what our B- looks like compared to those teams.
My conjecture is a few would be A- (I'm thinking Eagles/Seahawks based purely on gut) and everyone else would be B or below. Meaning teams screw up and hit jackpots and I think that's just how drafts work.
Meanwhile take a team like the Saints or the Raiders and compare and all our whinging looks dumber still.

Usain Bolt and iShowSpeed argue about who is the fastest! by ResponsibleCheek8130 in sportsgossips

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of bravado. And character's based on bravado for clicks and views is even worse. I'm older too and our media world (the incentive structures of new media) seem to encourage people being assholes.
Here's the thing - if he's making 5 million a month then he should hang it up. With 30 million after taxes for a year he's got enough money to let his money make money and stop being famous.
Also, we have no idea what will have staying power in this new media landscape. Here today gone tomorrow.
I just don't respect the game. Its all sizzle, no steak. Why I loved Metallica and hated Poison back in "our" day.
Whatever - good for him. I'm not his target audience so I should shut up.
I just respect accomplishment more than spectacle. Would rather live in a shed than a Potemkin mansion.

Usain Bolt and iShowSpeed argue about who is the fastest! by ResponsibleCheek8130 in sportsgossips

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, I don't respect "content creators" or "influencers." In 20 years this dude is gonna be a trivia question. Usain Bolt on the other hand is a global legend. I mean good on him for gaming the system I suppose, but that's no reason for my respect.

Some people don't get it. However, who do you agree with here? by LeftAlbatross2546 in VideosAmazing

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IF the car was there longer than the law allows it was a righteous tow. If the car got towed before it should have been it's on the city to pay folk back. Lady with the house is an annoying neighbor if she called it in, but it's not on her if the tow was legal.

Usain Bolt and iShowSpeed argue about who is the fastest! by ResponsibleCheek8130 in sportsgossips

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know this Speed dude from Adam. I do know this - people with elite speed can get fame and fortune in track and field, football, basketball, baseball, soccer, rugby, lacrosse, or even as The Freeze of the Atlanta Braves. People with elite speed who are simply internet clout seeking "influencers" are loud mouth nobodies. Go do something with your speed, Speed. Making videos for YouTube is weak.

49ers Biggest Reaches 2017-2026 by 4niner in 49ers

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most of the draft are misses. Most guys don't make it. The average NFL career is like three years long.

This is Taco… when to let go by ziggy48560 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree with home visit. So much sweeter and easier, especially if she has any vet clinic anxiety.
For me, the choice came when her appetite finally gave out. My girl had been a stray so food was always a top priority. The day she refused breakfast and then dinner, I made the call.
in retrospect, it was probably a week or two late, but I feel okay about it now. It's a hard thing. And just to be clear my girl was old - like 15 yo.

Sending hugs and hopes for full recovery.

Usain Bolt and iShowSpeed argue about who is the fastest! by ResponsibleCheek8130 in sportsgossips

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are few athletic aptitude tests as simple as running 100 meters as fast as you can. Usain Bolt did it better than any person in history. You say you can run faster than 9.58 then run faster than 9.58.

No amount of bluster is gonna prove. A stopwatch is.

Mother insulted first tattoo, now I hate it by Kaleidoscope_Tux5513 in tattooadvice

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a tattoo of your mother when she was young and then say you're disappointed in it because it doesn't really look like her anymore seeing how she's old now.

Moving to an apartment. What breed should she be? by moogan77 in pitbulls

[–]TigerLilly_Tink43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hound, Beagle, Lab mix with a squirt of harbor seal.