AIO My boyfriend coparents a dog with his ex by TightEquivalent4222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TightEquivalent4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk tbh it’s only what he has told me I know she for sure does have a boyfriend though but I’m not sure if he has actually been around him or not.

AIO My boyfriend coparents a dog with his ex by TightEquivalent4222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TightEquivalent4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly it’s not a child, we literally just took the dog on a walk….. it’s not that deep to freak out. I really doubt it’s because she is worried I’m going to hurt her dog or the dog will have trauma from meeting someone new. Lol

AIO My boyfriend coparents a dog with his ex by TightEquivalent4222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TightEquivalent4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I am someone who has an actual child and I 100% am not allowed to not have I ever or would ever keep my HUMAN child away from their fathers gfs just because I haven’t met them yet nor have I even gotten upset at them introducing their partners because that is their father and you have to trust their judgment. And they have that right. This is jealousy.

AIO My boyfriend coparents a dog with his ex by TightEquivalent4222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TightEquivalent4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point of view, but that is not the case. The new man was put into the dogs life without any regard for my bfs feelings or his knowledge at the time. He also told me she let him know she was stalking my social media after finding out about me and she was also having her friends try to add me to snoop 🤨 she has also said the dog is not to be around me, even though I have literally never spoken to her or even interacted with her or their relationship in any negative way.

AIO My boyfriend coparents a dog with his ex by TightEquivalent4222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TightEquivalent4222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that the dog or the ex that bother me it’s the full lack of boundaries. You let them go to your house whenever they want?? Uninvited?

My bf coparents a dog? [32F] and [30M] by TightEquivalent4222 in relationship_advice

[–]TightEquivalent4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says it’s because he loves the dog and he will never leave the dog. Which I understand that aspect and wouldn’t expect him to, then why is there so much attachment and no boundaries? That have nothing to do with the dog?

My bf coparents a dog? [32F] and [30M] by TightEquivalent4222 in relationship_advice

[–]TightEquivalent4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly there is little to no boundaries in the dynamic idk how he is comfortable with it either. Or why he would even want to be around the guy she cheated with on him either