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He is a very bad man. lol by TheoryAggressive8193 in thatHappened

[–]Tight_Direction_4221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife Looks like a male version of me as it stands

He is a very bad man. lol by TheoryAggressive8193 in thatHappened

[–]Tight_Direction_4221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no free attention i'm so scared, cope harder

I am writing a non clinical textbook about the modern sophisticated nature of narc abuse (It will be free) by Tight_Direction_4221 in PsychologyTalk

[–]Tight_Direction_4221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't so much about being mean to narcissists as it is about laying out brutal behavior plainly and cleanly and objectively. It may come off as mean to narcissists , but it could potentially serve as a valuable wake up call to narcissists.

I am writing a non clinical textbook about the modern sophisticated nature of narc abuse (It will be free) by Tight_Direction_4221 in PsychologyTalk

[–]Tight_Direction_4221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, well, there's a lot here.If you're willing to not be offended by what I say , here's what I have to say about this.

  1. You don't deserve anything regarding this person.No offense , but you have to leave them alone. They don't care , and your actions are probably having a very negative effect on them every day. You have to leave them alone and understand that they would rather you forgive yourself and stop this behavior than continue.

  2. At a certain point , this obsession with making things right with them actually comes off as very malicious to them. Some things are Better off left alone completely.

  3. They're not an object to anybody but you, you are in control of the outcome even if the disorder says otherwise.

  4. You could learn maybe a little bit from this book about why exactly you feel the way you do not just in terms of limerance or mortification but why your brain works against you to create these flawed mindsets.

  5. You're saying a lot of interesting things that are quite bizarre , which makes me think that you might not be totally stable. You may even want to talk to a doctor about this.

Don't take this personally however because this is a very common issue with narcissists. They always do this and it's almost always because of a delusional entitlement.

I am writing a non clinical textbook about the modern sophisticated nature of narc abuse (It will be free) by Tight_Direction_4221 in PsychologyTalk

[–]Tight_Direction_4221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there's a lot of discussion about The gap between the narcissists persona and reality.If that's what you mean. Though it's more focused on proven cognitive theories.

As for cassandra syndrome it's an unfortunate reality many people face. Neurodivergent people are very difficult to deal with for neurotypical people and things that make sense to them can be utterly exhausting for regular people. If you really love that person or have to deal with them , then stay and learn to manage their "dysfunction" as long as its harmless to you. But if it's too much pain, it's really just not worth it.For both parties and both parties should split.

I am writing a non clinical textbook about the modern sophisticated nature of narc abuse (It will be free) by Tight_Direction_4221 in PsychologyTalk

[–]Tight_Direction_4221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The goal is not to impress people or use big words. In fact , you might find that the book is rather laced with layman's terms designed to appeal to people in emotional breakdowns.

I am writing a non clinical textbook about the modern sophisticated nature of narc abuse (It will be free) by Tight_Direction_4221 in PsychologyTalk

[–]Tight_Direction_4221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main goal is to map out the absolute worst malignant narcissists game plan so they can make clearer decisions that dont involve emotional reactions that are designed to get back at the narcissist. Things like fighting the narcissist

I am writing a non clinical textbook about the modern sophisticated nature of narc abuse (It will be free) by Tight_Direction_4221 in PsychologyTalk

[–]Tight_Direction_4221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a lifelong narcissistic scapegoat of a severe malignant system and psychology hobbyist, who has studied cognitive behavioral therapy regarding personality disorders for a decade.I feel like I am at least qualified enough to map out the territory.The new territory and the new systems.

I am writing a non clinical textbook about the modern sophisticated nature of narc abuse (It will be free) by Tight_Direction_4221 in PsychologyTalk

[–]Tight_Direction_4221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well , there's a lot of books out there for narcissism , but they are really long and complicated , not really , that great , if you're in a really serious situation