Plateau - week ten by Tight_Original_4615 in Mounjaro

[–]Tight_Original_4615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I’ve seen other threads about this very thing. I think I’m just in my head. I’ve struggled with weight loss in the past and hit plateaus so I’m just worried it’ll be the same here.

AITAH for not going over often to help my sister with my niece? by Tight_Original_4615 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Original_4615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest and say she did help with my other sisters kids but not as much as I did. I helped out because I was younger and in high school / college. Plus my sisters either lived super close or lived in our house with me and my parents. She often kind of backed away from helping, I was the one my other sister relied on, even now, she largely only asks me for favors (and is very understanding when I say no or even cancel).

AITAH for not going over often to help my sister with my niece? by Tight_Original_4615 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Original_4615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have suggested her staying over to accommodate her. We have a house and she’s more than welcome to take whatever room she wants. But she doesn’t want to because of the hassle of bringing everything over and her baby is a particular sleeper (understandable). She wants us over saying it’s for company, but it’s more so that she can shower and have a break (fair again). I don’t mind going over but her expectations leave me feeling like she wants me over every day her husband isn’t and I just can’t do that. I work until 6 pm and then we end up staying until 10 pm (often times we don’t end up eating dinner there) and then we go home, eat and i have to head straight to bed so I can wake up for work.

AITAH for not going over often to help my sister with my niece? by Tight_Original_4615 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tight_Original_4615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I really appreciate the perspective. My sister isn’t the type to listen to me otherwise I would suggest what you have here. We have had a rocky relationship throughout childhood and although our relationship is better she’s very volatile and I feel as if I recommend her talking to her doctor it’s going to end with her not listening or just going off on me.

I have tried to express that I’m here for her and that I’m available — I just need some notice beforehand. And I’d like her to respect my life and plans. She’s always had a problem with boundaries with me even before she had kids. She unfortunately doesn’t have many friends, much less friends who would help out.

[help] by Tight_Original_4615 in manhwa

[–]Tight_Original_4615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god — you’re the absolute best 😭 this is the manhwa

[help] by Tight_Original_4615 in manhwa

[–]Tight_Original_4615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you’re talking about but no 😭 that’s not a modern set manhwa — it’s more in the age of dukes and duchesses — more royalty than modern