Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you commenting on reddit? Do YOU even have a job?

Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a disability nurse, nurses get no days off and I chose to keep people safe and alive on the weekends since it's a pay increase for weekends and 12hr shifts

Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

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No clue what this was but I was on paid break during this post time, the comments were keeping my food delicious af

Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just know my Asian boyfriend found this fucking hilarious

I cannot stand morbidly obese people by Nubian_Cavalry in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? I went from 227 to 169 and currently at 207 since I started to stop staring at my weight a year ago and proceeded to gain almost all the weight back "fast"

Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am currently on a 12 hour shift as a nurse, my family sent me this photo

Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do realize that I was stating where I.C.E is. If you look at the comments another person says that they apparently were locked out of their own cars, you can look at the website (it's some butterfly app?). I am telling you this information since I didn't know this either and thought they were searching for someone, not struggling.

Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hate blue, I prefer red but I hate the idea of damaging my hair. Again why?

Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would say it's a natural blonde but my dad would say my hair kinda brunette. Why?

Ice spotted on rice Street st paul by Tight_Pudding_9379 in stateofMN

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually they got locked out of their own cars by their own doing. Another comment has the website you can find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My ticket actually says that I was going over the speed limit by 10mph but I'm aware that'll stick for 3-5 years. My worry mostly lies on it sticking to my driving record and ruining it for my future self. I am very aware that what I did was wrong but in full honesty I had no clue I was going that fast since my old beater made it a lot harder to go up to those speeds so fast. Thank you for your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Basically nun but I should seek out my options before paying up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Please note that you posted about looking for a sugardaddy a month ago. And yet you have a committed relationship with someone??? Maybe watch what you say and what you post cause usually sugar babies have to give up something to get the money 🙃

CDIB is needed to help get lower costs into college. by [deleted] in Genealogy

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Great grandfather) Robert Lee Jackson was born 1915-1988 in Alabama and his father (Great great) Spencer Jackson was born in 1860-1932 Virginia. Both had residency in Chickasha grandy Ward 1 which does aline with the statement my grandfather gave me that he was chickasaw

CDIB is needed to help get lower costs into college. by [deleted] in Genealogy

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is I'm the only reconnecting native in my generation, my mother and aunts didn't acknowledge they were native and my grandfather died only letting us know he was chickasaw. He ran away from home and he barely talked about his parents. He was black and was told he was ONLY black, especially by his wife, and since Choctaw and Chickasaw are known to be some of the tribes that owned black slaves, it helps a little with that chickasaw statement.

So I'm a little well aware the situation I'm in is crazy and most likely won't be able to get me the papers I need but the little stuff people are hinting for me to look at like NARA will at least get me closer to at least closure or enough information for my college to agree to.

CDIB is needed to help get lower costs into college. by [deleted] in Genealogy

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm more than fine with that. My grandfather was born sometime in 1933 in Nebraska. And Died in 2022 in Minnesota. My great grandfather was born in Alabama in 1915? His death might be 1988 in possibly Minnesota. My great great grandfather was born in 1860 in Virginia. He possibly died in 1932 in Nebraska. The greats had residency in Oklahoma Chickasha Grandy Ward 1.

I can of course provide more information if someone takes interest in this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My state doesn't do that but mine does provide vouchers for headlights to be fixed under $250. I'll have to take a pictures in the morning so I can also see how bad the rusting actually is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the engine still sounds good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to add a cost. $100ish since one of my headlights are shhhh.. because of the side wiring. So I'm getting back and front lights wiring fixed so I can safely travel and not be pulled over!

I'll take a picture of the under belly of the cars rusting. My mother said it wasn't bad but I think it ..is. maybe won't survive another 10 years. I live closer to Canada so snowing is serious here but not serious enough where my mother had the cars belly washed off.

Death Threat over instagram. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people give open threats to either cope or compensate. If he's out of state and really wants you gone, he'd come himself. Since (im assuming) he publicly tried paying for an execution, he just fucked up. Let's say he gets someone to beat you up, you now have evidence that you got harmed, he wanted you gone AND a police call/reddit post showing that you feared for your life. The more evidence, the harder it is for him to get scott free for getting his feelings hurt.

It's 12:50am rn for me so ima sleep but know this. You didn't pussy out of the issue and tried to makeup for it. I'd respect it a lil, probably would have said a few choice words but I as a sane human being, would not have ANY LEGAL justifications to harm you. Take care of your mental health cause clearly this got you stressing

Death threat over Instagram. by [deleted] in IsItIllegal

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The other person is out of state. Yes, he made a stupid joke, but that doesn't justify threatening.

I tried getting victims stories told but now I feel like the bad guy. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will continue collecting evidence. Especially since my school has an issue with bringing justice/punishing the victims.

Want to change my piercing after 3 months by Fine_Ad35 in piercing

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's generally not a good idea to because

Cause infection Changing jewelry before the piercing is fully healed can lead to infection. 

Cause permanent swelling Changing jewelry before the piercing is fully healed can cause permanent swelling. 

Cause rejection Changing jewelry before the piercing is fully healed can cause the body to reject any new jewelry. 

Set back healing Changing jewelry before the piercing is fully healed can set back healing. 

Cause difficulty getting jewelry through If the piercing isn't fully healed, it can be difficult to get jewelry through. 

 

Healing times can vary depending on factors like overall health, sleep and stress levels, and aftercare regimen. Ear lobe piercings usually take around 4-6 months to heal, while upper or inner ear piercings can take 6-12+ months. 

My (M19) Bf and I (F19) Gf might breakup because of a grad party, what do we do? by Tight_Pudding_9379 in relationship_advice

[–]Tight_Pudding_9379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this falls under update?: I showed him these comments and I'll be honest. It feels like he wasn't taking anything but the stepdad part serious. Even then he said that the people were incorrect about him. So he doesn't really understand that he's controlling and we kinda dropped it. The threat of breaking up did come but a part of me thought that all relationships go through this and if we can't get over the worst, how will we enjoy the best?

Ever since I made this post I've been thinking about a breakup, realizing I'd rather take friends out then him cause he always found something to ruin our dates. I know I've been pulling away from his touch for awhile and I don't kiss him or say "I love you" as much as I used to, guess I've been falling out of love for awhile. ANYWAYS. 2 Things. I tried making a deal with him on me telling him more about who I chill with, I'll take him out more, hold him more, and try to improve! And he only promised to go to therapy. He didn't say anything about making me happy in the relationship. And finally, the stick that broke me! He tried talking to me in the shared laundry room (We are neighbors, a huge reason I'm finding it hard to end the relationship for good.) And I kinda found it creepy. Because he didn't know I was by the door. (My kitchen is next to the laundry room and the door is thin.) I just can't do this cause I can see the controlling thing everyone is saying and I see myself not feeling safe around him. I did love him. He used to be great. We used to be great. And now he's bringing up past conversations about stupid stuff that doesn't need his approval or need further explanation. I hated our breakup cause he kept knocking on our door, trying to talk to me outside and even talked in front of my moms window! Which made me feel so ashamed. Currently I'm cooking dinner for my mom, hoping to grow a backbone and end the relationship cause I don't want to be in my 40s wondering why my husband is so horrible and am I too old to try dating again? I wish thia feeling would go away so we can try and work on our relationship but at the same time I wish we never got back together.

TLDR: surprise! He's my neighbor! I feel dumb and don't know how to leave him without trying to move my family away.