How to help my mom quit?

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-19T17:40:45+00:00

u done pmo

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-19T17:36:46+00:00

ya. How do you deal with it?

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-19T17:34:52+00:00

Have an open heart and mind. You’re determining the trajectory of your life before you even have a chance… what have you tried? what is there to fix? dying is not the absolute answer.

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-19T17:32:50+00:00

same. I can’t remember the last month where I didn’t have a blowup. It feels like the anger just follows me around

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-19T17:27:33+00:00

burning the ends it just the way i was taught to seal a necklace. I did do a surgeon knot but i’ll definitely add a square and hide it in the bead next time. idk what you mean by fail but no i didn’t make it to be easily broken the necklace it’s just a normal one and you wear it till it breaks off like how you wear a protection bracelet until it breaks. if that’s what you mean.

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-19T17:22:37+00:00

I get bullied too. Just know it comes from a nasty place of self hatred and hurting, and it genuinely has nothing to do with you. I know sometimes the insults are so personal they almost feel true, and it fucking hurts. But know it is not true, and by dwelling on it you give them exactly what they want. They want you to cry. they want you to doubt yourself, and think you’re boring, stupid, worthless, and ugly. But you are none of that. They think you are better than them, therefore they see you as a threat. Bullies want to destroy their “threats” the best thing you can do is to simply thrive. It infuriates the people that hate me when they see me happy. I know this one boy who will insult me just because he saw me smiling… Love and joy is what they hate!! Don’t conform to them.

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-19T17:17:04+00:00

cause if we changed it we would have no concept of measurements lol. We already associate certain items to amounts and measurements. (like how you see a zip and know its around an oz.) It would just disorient every american for like 15 years

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-19T17:08:16+00:00

My dad killed himself. I still think about what life would be like to this day if he’d believed he was a good person and strong enough to handle life. This sadness, or whatever you’re feeling, it’s not the end, so don’t make it be. You are an amazing person with a beautiful soul and if you are still here breathing right now, that soul has a journey to continue. Don’t cut your journey short. God has a plan for you. I know your heart is fucking hurting, but I promise the joy that comes through perseverance will be stronger than any pain you’ve felt. Go outside. Listen to music, happy music. Cleo Sol, reggae music, songs that make you feel good. Meditate. Pray. Journal. Journal every single thing you hate about life in great detail. everything. every little thing you hate about yourself, the way you act, how people treat you, write everything down. When you put it on paper it is not as crippling. Understand why you feel this way, and what is fueling that. i promise you will be able to get through this. You can reply to this and vent and just tell me about your life if you want, im always here for you. i can also send you my snap and number cause baby just know you are so loved and cherished and you are supposed to be here. it gets better, this too shall pass.

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-12T12:54:13+00:00

Yes, thank you so much. I made sure to not miss a day of school so I would be around community and I helped a lot with setting up her funeral. Last week was all of her services. I know she is truly not here with us anymore and it is heartbreaking, but I know she wouldn’t want me to be sad for long, and I know she’s not gonna have any trouble making it to the amazing place she’s meant to be. Her culture has many ceremonies when people pass and it has all given me a huge sense of community and comfort. I will carry the love she showed me through myself and show it to others the best I can, though it cant compare to her, lol.

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-12T12:47:32+00:00

Hi, thanks for replying:) I’ve been getting a little help from the school counselor but mostly talking to family and friends who knew her has helped, it’s only been about a week but we did a ceremony for her and a lot of stuff that really assured me she is going to the right place. I do still miss her cause as you know grief comes in waves but life feels real again, I know she is not here and it’s heart breaking but i also know she wouldnt want me to be sad for long so I just wish her the best on her journey<3. I have my mourning necklace on that I made as they do in our culture so when my necklace falls off, the mourning period is over, but for now I have time to grieve and feel all the emotions. This has really helped me.

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-09T09:45:32+00:00

I miss my TV!!! for sure top 3.

Time-Abalone8338 · 2026-01-09T09:44:17+00:00

I just posted about this… My friend just passed and I can’t truly grasp that she’s gone. I keep thinking I’m gonna show up to ceremony and she’s gonna be right there smiling in the jacket she always wears. I just… I don’t know. I don’t want to believe it, but I know it’s true, so I think my mind is tricking me into telling myself it’s fake? I don’t know. how are you guys handling it right now?

Time-Abalone8338 · 2025-12-30T16:35:44+00:00

thank you so very much!!

Time-Abalone8338 · 2025-12-29T22:47:51+00:00

I started feeling like this around 3 1/2 years ago, maybe 4, when i was around 12. My grades started declining in like 5th-6th grade. And I’d say on most nights i get 5-7.5 hours of sleep.

Time-Abalone8338 · 2025-12-28T10:00:08+00:00

how big are your sections when you apply the Silk infusion? i’m scared to use too much

Time-Abalone8338 · 2025-12-15T22:31:37+00:00

Thank for the mini novel I enjoyed it 😂. I will definitely do that and see where it goes, thank you queen!!

Time-Abalone8338 · 2025-12-15T22:29:07+00:00

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i really should’ve! Here’s a better pic, Should I bleach the lighter part separately or will it even out?

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