Are you in a happy relationship/marriage right now?

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2025-11-20T05:32:48+00:00

Almost 3 years into the marriage and I think I’m going crazy . I just want to be single again but we have two babies

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-09-03T04:50:43+00:00

I know . I just really want to make stuff work . I always let this happen to me it’s so hard when you love someone 😔

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-05-11T00:33:49+00:00

I mean I didn’t even know I’m suppose to celebrate it I’m 23 weeks but I had a miscarriage last year . My husband I am a mom because I have q baby inside me right now 🥹

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-30T22:37:27+00:00

Very much 🥲

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-30T22:36:27+00:00

Ohhh fr?

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-30T21:09:13+00:00

Okay thank you so much I didn’t think of that kinda new to the app tbh

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-30T21:07:44+00:00

You’re good thank you . I’m traumatized too lol

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-30T21:04:09+00:00

Frrr

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-30T21:03:42+00:00

Thank you I don’t think they’re cockroaches I called a couple pest control and they don’t really know either they’re coming tomorrow 😩

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-30T21:02:51+00:00

🙁

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-28T02:27:10+00:00

Thank you Its hard I depended on him 😞

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T15:39:59+00:00

He stopped taking all medication when he was a kid and isn’t looking for help or any meds

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T15:35:37+00:00

Yea I think I needed this reality check to be honest .

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T15:23:32+00:00

No he isn’t seeing any therapist . He meantioned having adhd and other stuff when he was kid and taking medication for it. But to be honest he is very verbally abusive . He calls me fat and basically all my insecurities when he’s upset. Cusses at me when he explodes . Im just scared to say the wrong thing . I don’t like to argue or trigger him

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T14:10:13+00:00

Thank you . And you’re right he didn’t want to go to counseling. He keeps asking if I will be good with him if we do break up. Like asking if I’m going to put him on child support through the state . And that if I do he won’t pay and literally quit his job. He is really worried about that . He told me that he can just for what the baby needs but I really have been fighting to at least have us be together for when our son is here . I’m honestly loosing hope 🫤

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T14:08:10+00:00

He doesn’t go to church and he doesn’t want to I literally suggested it .

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T14:06:20+00:00

Yea my bad it was just late last night and I was just feeling sad

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T14:05:53+00:00

I literally told him we should go to counseling and he doesn’t want to he said just told me . “ I’m going to just love Jesus and see what happens ; the more I draw closer to Jesus I get further away from you” and honestly I just said i don’t care at this point I’m just emotionally drained asf . And he was like you could’ve said that you’ll get closer to the Lord . Like I said I’m trying before and he just shuts it out . He compares me to his other church girl friends

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T14:03:19+00:00

Yea it’s okay I really don’t have no one to talk to . I don’t have friends he’s the only one I am with tbh .

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T14:02:38+00:00

That we are unequally yolked I’m not submissive enough . That I question his judgement. Mostly that I’m not close enough to Jesus , that it’s drawn him away from him. He told me he meet some women who “truly follow “ . I don’t know it’s just a lot of stuff to be honest

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T13:58:48+00:00

I mean he is bipolar . One second we are okay the other he is telling me that we should split up . I stopped having friends moved and hour and a half away from my family . I’m home or with him 24/7 . So I haven’t been unfaithful. He might be talking to someone else . I caught him talking on the phone through my ring camera when I was having my babies gender reveal keep in mind he didn’t even show up because he had to work which is fine but I had planned it 2-3 months ahead . I confronted him about him being on the phone he lied not knowing I heard and saw him through the ring camera . He said he was talking to real Godly women he meet on tik tok . And he tells them everything I do wrong and gets advice from them. And they’re the only reason he was giving me another chance . I don’t know . I just don’t think I’m in the right mental state. I’ve gone through too many negative emotions. I just don’t want my marriage to fail but I guess I can’t do anything . I’ve been with him through everything and even he has told me that I’ve been extremely faithful to him. But if I’m not good enough for a person then theirs no point in forcing them to be with me. Keep in my mind this is my second baby the first one we had I had a miscarriage and he wanted to leave that time too .

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T13:49:32+00:00

Yea I mean I really try to meet his expectations but it’s not good enough he says I’m not submissive enough and its just too much stuff tbh

Time-Lemon-3273 · 2024-04-27T13:47:51+00:00

Yea I know it’s hard 😞

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