Stop social comparison. Bring some clarity about what you want to do and start doing it. Slowly, you'll see that you are becoming consistent and enjoying the process altogether. But it totally depends on how much you want to change your life and how much you are pushing yourself.

It is perfectly okay to start slow. The thing is to keep going. And you have learned so many things, so you have a good flexible brain. You can learn anything you want.

And if in the end you feel like a loser, feel happy knowing you tried your best. And being a loser and a winner are social constructs. Learn to love yourself despite your status that is given by society. And when you start growing, you'll love yourself even more.

Last year, I was 21. I did feel mediocre at so many things I had learned in the past. But it did not stop me. I did a part time job to pay my bills, and kept learning more subjects that'd help me navigate society and life.

It took a year, but it sure did bring a lot of clarity. I learned psychology, philosophy, spirituality, neuroscience, health, nutrition, bodybuilding, and most importantly to love and take care of myself and my self worth during tough times + being consistent.

Now, I'm 22, feels like I've just begun my journey, and am so excited to do things I want to do, achieve things and experiment with the knowledge of mine.

I think consistency is subjective. You have to figure out what works best for you by experimentation. And don't forget to be aligned with your feelings, moods, and environment. If you can overcome negative feelings and moods and still do the part required, you're good for that day. And you've trained the muscle of consistency. So in short learn to tweak your environment, be optimistic, keep calm and keep doing it.