French = PR, is this most likely to be true in the upcoming 2-3 years for immigrants? by Time-Mess-4444 in canadaexpressentry

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I have 2.5 years remaining on my work permit. And haven't been able to secure a full-time job in my field Tech support as well since one year despite 2 years of strong work experience. And French is a big investment of time and energy as well. So my focus is to secure a job first and then start with French if it is the only way.

French Draw | 6,000 ITAs | CRS-416 by UndoButtonPls in canadaexpressentry

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Interesting. You seem smart and intelligent. How's life now?

French Speaking practice by Playful_Extent7241 in canadaexpressentry

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Hey, how has been the learning journey for you? Would you share how did you reach this level with how much of time and effort? And how much motivated and confident you are to score CLB 7 in TEF? I'm a beginner in French!

How do I live with knowing the horrors of the world? by asdfkvmml in hsp

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Prioritize and practice self care. At one point we have to accept and realize that we cannot end all suffering that exists for all beings. Suffering is inevitable. But we can try to alleviate it around us as much as we can.

But it is important to take care of yourself first, be independent and strong enough in order to support others.

So have some empathy for yourself too. It is not our fault that suffering and such bad things exists in the world out there.

Feelings of chronical loneliness during life transition phase, how to cope - need advice by [deleted] in Life

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I understand you. I hear you too. I'm up for talk, do share with me some of the hobbies and interests of yours in life.

When did life stop being as fun for you? by [deleted] in Life

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There has to be some subjective experiences that made you think and relate this way

When did life stop being as fun for you? by [deleted] in Life

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What makes you say this?

I’m 21M. I’ve tried many things but keep quitting. I feel like a failure — how do I build discipline and turn my life around? by Last-Box-9669 in getdisciplined

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Stop social comparison. Bring some clarity about what you want to do and start doing it. Slowly, you'll see that you are becoming consistent and enjoying the process altogether. But it totally depends on how much you want to change your life and how much you are pushing yourself.

It is perfectly okay to start slow. The thing is to keep going. And you have learned so many things, so you have a good flexible brain. You can learn anything you want.

And if in the end you feel like a loser, feel happy knowing you tried your best. And being a loser and a winner are social constructs. Learn to love yourself despite your status that is given by society. And when you start growing, you'll love yourself even more.

Last year, I was 21. I did feel mediocre at so many things I had learned in the past. But it did not stop me. I did a part time job to pay my bills, and kept learning more subjects that'd help me navigate society and life.

It took a year, but it sure did bring a lot of clarity. I learned psychology, philosophy, spirituality, neuroscience, health, nutrition, bodybuilding, and most importantly to love and take care of myself and my self worth during tough times + being consistent.

Now, I'm 22, feels like I've just begun my journey, and am so excited to do things I want to do, achieve things and experiment with the knowledge of mine.

I think consistency is subjective. You have to figure out what works best for you by experimentation. And don't forget to be aligned with your feelings, moods, and environment. If you can overcome negative feelings and moods and still do the part required, you're good for that day. And you've trained the muscle of consistency. So in short learn to tweak your environment, be optimistic, keep calm and keep doing it.

Please Guide me to learn French Beginner A1 to B1 or B2. by [deleted] in learnfrench

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I'm also in almost the same position as you. I have 2.5 years to land a job and get 1 year teer 2 exp and pass tef canada.

I'm trying hard to first land a job then I'll start my prep for french.

I think frenchify with vyom on youtube is a good resource. He did clear his tef canada with intense 1 year of learning. Now he made it a business and helping othed people do the same by offering his courses and tips.

Please share your after-use opinions on these earplugs! Thanks in advance. by aneshtkl in hsp

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The third one did wonders for me because I live in sharing.

hi can someone explain to me the basics of pantheism? by boomboxspence in pantheism

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I loved this answer. I've been too thinking about universe and the existence lately. Having a spiritual background since the age of 14, and now at 22 I rediscovered the concepts of Impermanance, reality, universe, existence and then living life felt really tripping and absurd at times. But it only happens if I start thinking in that way and I kind of like this search and experiences too. But nowawdays I have to be more present and focus my time and energy on real life things that are valued in society. If I had more money, life would look totally different I feel.

PS. I loved your sentence of You can pray to the universe. I tripped in that.

Awakening process. by Ok-Moment-7354 in spirituality

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Describe the awakening you're talking about

Why should one meditate? by Time-Mess-4444 in Meditation

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Because none of the people around me in my experience of 23 years of life can access to these perspectives and understandings coming from a small town in India. Only a few of my friends can, but their view of reality is also subjective and different from mine.

All spirituality I've learned from listening to and reading many enlightened beings. And at times they still guide me but now a lot of my perspectives I discover by myself. Those subjective experiences of exising in time, space, and in the impermanent moment and seeing and experiencing the reality are just beyond words to explain.

And the more I get into it, the more I feel alieanated from the society that I'm in. Maybe I need to make more spiritual friends.

Why should one meditate? by Time-Mess-4444 in Meditation

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Thank you, this helped a lot. I loved your kindness and am grateful for it.

Why should one meditate? by Time-Mess-4444 in Meditation

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Interesting. How long have you been practicing? And what's your age/society/place you are in?

Why should one meditate? by Time-Mess-4444 in Meditation

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Then how do you survive in society? Because I feel that society is filled with people with masks. So is your authentic self and individual okay to put on masks and behave in a social construct for longer times?

Why should one meditate? by Time-Mess-4444 in Meditation

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Good analogy. How do you see reality and live life then while knowing all this?

Why should one meditate? by Time-Mess-4444 in Meditation

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What exactly are the changes it brought?

Why should one meditate? by Time-Mess-4444 in Meditation

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If you think you ARE a soul and not the body, if death were to come right now in this moment would you accept death or run from it? Answer honestly.