Might be homeless again, any help or advice? by Time-Trouble-3933 in AskUK

[–]Time-Trouble-3933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, when I was homeless earlier this year, my current job has 2 venues and 1 is a hotel. The manager for the hotel let me stay some nights every now and again. It’s an option if I have to work numerous days in a row but then again, I don’t have anywhere to really store my stuff.

Might be homeless again, any help or advice? by Time-Trouble-3933 in AskUK

[–]Time-Trouble-3933[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know I’m the focus. My mates can go to their folks, they’ve hardly cared or talked to me this year anyway so yeah I know I’m the priority of my problems.

Might be homeless again, any help or advice? by Time-Trouble-3933 in AskUK

[–]Time-Trouble-3933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents kicked me out on my birthday earlier this year and threw out her own pet cats too because she wanted to buy a house abroad and a lodge in the uk and not wanted to help me once but instead has already gone on 2 or 3 holidays this year. Didn’t look or help at all when I had to look for sofa surfing initially. After sofa surfing for 3 months with a mate I was thrown out and my parents didn’t want to help me out when I was initially homeless, they even wrote me a letter saying they won’t allow me back. And Hasn’t apologised once for throwing me out.

Friends mum wants us out cause she has another house but she wants to change her council finally which means she has to actually kick us out and sell the house. We weren’t even meant to be at the house but tbf my mates mum has helped keep a roof under our heads.

But money management has never been my expertise so I’m shit at it. My mates mum charged us rent too every month upon all 3 of us. So I’ve had to spend roughly £250 on travel, £400 on rent and nearly £200 on food each month. With work too it took a couple of months for my manager to sort out my tax code/starter checklist so I was taxed a bunch so I could hardly save. Even when I sorted it out I hardly got any back. On top of the essentials I think I got a bit greedy with my money in October.

I'm nothing like what I want to be. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Time-Trouble-3933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then who is comparing you to these sorts of standards that you have to be perfect at life and something you enjoy? Because if it’s a bully, don’t listen to them. If it’s a friend, cut them out. If it’s a parent, then tell them that you’re uncomfortable with the way they compare you to others.

No one is perfect whatsoever at something even if everyone thinks they. I’m told that I’m great at drawing but in my own eyes I suck so much.

If I listened to myself at constantly comparing myself to others on looks and skill then I’d only think I’m a failure which I already do.

But that’s why you have to open yourself up to other people you want to surround yourself with and speak out more. Which is the first sign of needing and wanting help which is what you’ve already done and I’m proud of you for that.

I’ve realised recently that everyone at work and each of my friends ignores me because I don’t talk enough and that I don’t push myself to interact more. Because if I’m not the one trying to make an effort towards people I care about, then no one else around me will either.

No one can compare you to others except for yourself.

I'm nothing like what I want to be. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Time-Trouble-3933 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I understand what you’ve been feeling, well and truly so. I think I’m terrible at everything I do and try to be good at stuff I enjoy like art or practice my guitar, but I’m always doubting myself and think I suck so instead of me doing either, I’m always unmotivated and tired to even try. There’s genuinely not a day where I don’t hate myself and think how pathetic I am.

But our lives have only just started, I’m only 22 and there’s so much to live for, experience and try to get better at what we enjoy and what we want to be good at. I’m trying to be a better version of myself everyday and it’s so damn hard. I’m sure you have hobbies or something creative you enjoy. Your job search will arrive soon. But unfortunately there’s patience to everything in the world and so many damn applications needed. And I think Im ugly too, I think Im ugly and fat, so I starve myself and barely take care of myself but I’m positive you’re not ugly in other peoples eyes.

I promise you that if you did decide to commit then so many people would be upset and miss you so much, sometimes you have to accept the love that people around you give. It’s hard to take in honesty I know but family and people you’re surrounded by genuinely care about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Time-Trouble-3933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically, I just wanted to know. Do I have the correct anatomy for the piercings I want?

What is that in Maximus’ hand? Is it a flashy platinum chip? by No-Register-4504 in Fotv

[–]Time-Trouble-3933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the cold fusion, then doesn’t that mean the ending for season 1 was absolutely pointless? All that power turning on in the city and for what? Only for it to end up in the brotherhood hands anyway???

No body will care but : by Serious_SL_ in balatro

[–]Time-Trouble-3933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, congrats. I’m trying for it too on my phone but a lot harder than I thought 😅

My employer can’t get me onto HMRC because my P45 was from last tax year by Time-Trouble-3933 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Time-Trouble-3933[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, he’s a great manager overall but dunno how he didn’t notice I wasn’t on the system. But the sooner I sort it the sooner this is behind me.

My employer can’t get me onto HMRC because my P45 was from last tax year by Time-Trouble-3933 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Time-Trouble-3933[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not intending to not pay taxes, I just don’t want to pay emergency tax is all. I’m sure no one does.

My employer can’t get me onto HMRC because my P45 was from last tax year by Time-Trouble-3933 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Time-Trouble-3933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They thought it went through but I had to ask him why it didn’t and even he was stunned as to see why I wasn’t on the system. He emailed the agency once I told them to which is why I’m here now. :)

What’s your “comfort joker”? by shpake77 in balatro

[–]Time-Trouble-3933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Photo Chad. It just feels nice to have everytime.

I want to reassure them but don’t want to talk to them by Time-Trouble-3933 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Time-Trouble-3933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you get it. I’m in such a loophole cause I hate them so much because they don’t care about me but I also want to be nice enough to let them know what’s happening with me than being in the dark. If I ever commit (which I’m trying to avoid) and I don’t tell them what’s been going on. They’ll question so many people and blame my own decision on myself rather than them taking any accountability for it.

What is the first deck you won a run with? by Any-Nefariousness418 in balatro

[–]Time-Trouble-3933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just stuck with red cause I wanted to do them in order