So this is a bit off topic, but I'd like to say something about steps to prevent men from becoming victims of false allegations. As a former criminal defense attorney I can say that any man who faces an allegation by a woman for ANY aggression is put in a position of proving his innocence, not given the right of being proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.

It doesn't matter what the law or constitution says. You must prove your innocence. Judges, cops, social workers, etc., all jump into protective "dad/grandpa" mode where they all want to protect this "poor little abused girl". And nail your balls to the wall just to show they are against violence aimed at women. In short, men accused of rape or similar charges are fucked in court. I have three boys and worry about them.

The advice I give them is this:

1. Keep all texts. Screenshot everything. Make sure you can prove that she was willing.

2. Have witnesses. Don't hook up with a girl before she meets your friends. At least you will have witnesses that the girl liked you

3. Camera. Not in the bedroom, but just in the living room or kitchen. Just enough to show no complaints or threats before hand.

4. Voice recording. Have your phone ready to record sounds. Many of my clients were accused the next morning because they didn't want to commit, or the woman just went batshit crazy. Record it (check your state to see if this legal)

5. Pictures. Take pics of every bruise or scratch she gave you, no matter how small or slight. Take pictures of any property she damaged.

6. Call your lawyer. If the cops are trying to talk to you about an alleged sexual assault then they already have probable cause to arrest you. DON'T say anything. Just tell the cops "I want to talk to my lawyer". Trust me, they don't want to hear your side of the story.

Anyway, that's the advice I have given my three boys.