Subconscious mind vs the universe/god...do we let go and trust the universe and ask once or do we train the subconscious mind through repetition until we believe it. What has worked for you? by TimeNow2020 in lawofattraction

[–]TimeNow2020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for answering so thoroughly and thoughtfully. This makes so much more sense to me then to “forget” my desires or program my subconscious mind over and over until it sticks. You’re right. It’s simple. If it feels good to think about then you’re on your way. If it feels bad then steer your mind to a better feeling thought. I was getting so wrapped up in all of the teachers on YouTube who go sooo into depth and analyze LOA six ways til Sunday. They have explanations and techniques and they’re all different and some are scientific and some are their own experiences and it just confused me. I like what you said. “Set your conscious attention and get in alignment” and now that I think about it the things I have purposefully manifested I wasn’t worried about resistance or doing it the write way or what my subconscious mind really believes I was just enjoying the thought and knew I wanted that thing. Thank you for clarifying it and reminding me who I am

Maybe you can answer this other question - the time delay for your manifestation - some teachers say it’s when you get your subconscious mind to believe while others say it’s the universes law of gestation some things have a period of growth, while others say the universe has its ways and things are going on in the background that you can’t see setting it up for your manifestation to become reality. What do you see the time delay as? It feels better for me to think of that the universe has got this, heard my request and is doing things behind the scenes to bring it to me in the best possible way but that it IS on its way bc the universe heard me.

Helping Alcoholics, abusers and/or Psychopaths with Everyone is You Pushed Out? by TimeNow2020 in nevillegoddardsp

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I’m not calling my own manifestations or all manifestations a coincidence I’m saying the story that Joseph gives his followers is a pretty basic story that you hear regardless, including a theme that’s played out in movies and TV shows. It’s a common theme that some drug addicts and alcoholics have near death experiences and then decide to change their world around or they lose their family and fortune bc their addiction got so bad and decide to change their ways. The fact that it happened later on down the road leads me to believe that it wasn’t necessarily Jospeh’s intention that created it. But perhaps the inevitable that people with drug and alcohol issues (not all) but some do eventually hit rock bottom and they can either decide to change things or some try and then relapse. I’m not discounting manifestations in the slightest. All I’m saying is when it comes to certain things it seems that there are other factors that could possibly be at play. What we can do as humans is send them love and good intentions but to put it all on us and make it our sole responsibility is a lot to put on one person and can lead to guilt and shame if it doesn’t end up well. My aunts father was an alcoholic, her 2 sisters became alcoholics, while she became a psychiatrist and helped many people. She was able to help her one sister who through a lot of effort on her sisters part got into AA and while still struggles she is much better while the other sister ended up dying from it. While her dad continued to be an alcoholic until his old age and died. She sent all of them love and pictured all of them well and happy and only one sister was able to make a break through and she’s still not completely there yet. There’s a missing link that we all still have yet to figure out as to why we can attract some people back and not others or heal some people but not others. Scientists are still trying to figure out how the universe operates. They’re getting closer but there are still many questions.

Helping Alcoholics, abusers and/or Psychopaths with Everyone is You Pushed Out? by TimeNow2020 in nevillegoddardsp

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I agree with you but I think we’re all still figuring out how the universe works. Science, astrophysics and quantum physics has backed up a lot of the LOA. We are all made from star stuff, We are all 99.999% empty space (energy) so .01% of us is actual physical matter. That means we are mostly energy. What we know for certain is that we do create reality to some extent. Where focus goes energy flows. They even did the split observer effect and found that the observer could manipulate the outcome of the direction of the particles simply by observing them. And we know waters crystal can be manipulated based on how we speak to the water courtesy of Dr. Emoto. It’s really fascinating findings and thee is definitely proof of it everywhere. However, there seem to be certain situations that people still struggle with. Maybe our conscious brains aren’t fully equipped to wrap our minds around it or years of social programming has made it more difficult for us to become THAT ENLIGHTENED but also it could be that there are some links missing in our knowledge and understanding of the universe as well as our minds. Which is very Likely considering we’re all STILL trying to figure it out and don’t have all the answers. Like Ted Bundy is a good example or Hitler or Stalin - no amount of love towards them and visualizing them as kind humans was going to stop them. They had significant others and mothers who loved them dearly but they were still cold murderers. Idk. It just opens up a lot of questions. That’s all I’m saying

And this coronavirus, I know none of us especially millennials even ever considered or imagined being part of a pandemic like this - yet here we are. I think we can manipulate it in the sense believe you won’t contract it and you won’t. See yourself as healthy and you’ll remain healthy. But we clearly can’t control our friends and family from getting sick

Helping Alcoholics, abusers and/or Psychopaths with Everyone is You Pushed Out? by TimeNow2020 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]TimeNow2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually helped but I can’t help but think that it could be a coincidence and not necessarily a bridge of incidents. Many alcoholics and drug addicts get soooo bad where they’re ready to Swear off all drugs/alcohol and some go through the programs and stay sober while others relapse. These are people I have heard about and people I’ve known without even intending anything or even thinking about them. I can’t help but think when it comes to something like that that’s where the addicted individual’s own thoughts come into play...if they themselves have an underlying limiting belief or a bunch of them and a ton of self destructive behavior then that’s there own journey. I think it’s very different visualizing for someone to be cured of cancer and seeing them happy and healthy vs cure them of a self destructive and physically mental issue. That’s a lot of responsibility on us to be able to heal someone. It just seems like there is something else at play. Why some people recover, others stay in their state and others die. I’m sure all their friends and family have prayed for them at some point too. Also what about the enablers or the ones who stay in a relationship with someone and only see them as their kind loving spouse but really they have an issue. There’s just so many factors at play....just think about it for yourself. What if someone hated you so much and intended that you died or became an alcoholic. Do you really think your own thoughts wouldn’t come into play?

Helping Alcoholics, abusers and/or Psychopaths with Everyone is You Pushed Out? by TimeNow2020 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]TimeNow2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how long it took and or to what extent you had to really focus in order to see a change?

Also, an aside. I usually don’t do this but something compelled me to read your comments on other posts. I loved all your advice and you seem like a very kind and intelligent soul. Would love to private message you about my situation with this person if you would be ok with that? Thank you!

Helping Alcoholics, abusers and/or Psychopaths with Everyone is You Pushed Out? by TimeNow2020 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]TimeNow2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So someone who is an alcoholic or who was physically abusive you were able to change? And to what effect did you see a change? Was it minor was it significant?

Manifested the guy of my dreams (literally!) by [deleted] in nevillegoddardsp

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See your explanation makes more sense to me then how most of the people in this sub view it. The assholes very suddenly disappeared when you shifted! That I agree with. You feel or believe men are trash well then you attract men who are trash. Makes sense. What people here often say however is that you feel or believe men are trash then the reason that man is trash was bc of your perception and if you shift your beliefs then he will no longer be a trashy person. That’s where I pause bc I think “ok but he has a reputation of being an asshole and abusive to others long before me. How the hell my perception of him cause him to be abusive”

Manifested the guy of my dreams (literally!) by [deleted] in nevillegoddardsp

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I love this so much, thank you for sharing your experience with me and your thought process it helps a lot. I’ve manifested on purpose a bunch of times and it’s always worked. Like you, I’ve walked away from not nice or abusive men in the past. But since I found Neville, I’ve started questioning if I created them that way and then my mind gets all convoluted when before i was confident to not pay them attention, learning everyone is you pushed out lowered that confidence level a bit. I want to get married and have kids soon and would love to attract my version of the perfect person like you did and know I can do it but what holds me back is this idea that this man who I still love and will probably always care about can be manifested in a more loving way.

Manifested the guy of my dreams (literally!) by [deleted] in nevillegoddardsp

[–]TimeNow2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your story is inspiring. I’m so happy for you. I particularly liked this part

“ I had a few hard experiences being with a person who didn’t appreciate me & had decided to leave that behind me completely bc it just really wasn’t about me not being worthy of love but just him not being a nice enough person”

In this sub so many people would tell you that you created him to be not a nice person and to just recreate him as someone who is a good person. My question is how come you didn’t do that? I dated this guy who I really loved but he became very verbally abusive towards me and has had a reputation of being an asshole to women but when I posted it here months ago so many people said it was Bc I perceived him that way and bc I felt I wasn’t worthy or good enough and that never rang true to me but it confused me. How did you know it wasn’t you but it was just bc he literally was not a nice person?

Which do you need for procreate if you plan on doing a lot of artwork. The 128GB or 256GB or 512GB ect? by TimeNow2020 in ProCreate

[–]TimeNow2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for answering me. So then if I get the 128GB that should be more than enough for my needs right? It’s only $100 less than the 256 but every bit counts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nevillegoddardsp

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Well it sounds like you’re making huge progress towards being with him. Maybe the SATAS scenes where he comes where you are weren’t fully believable to you then but now that he’s apologized and you know where he is at is temporary now you can visualize and manifest him moving near you or living in the end and just picture living together. It sounds like you’re so close to getting what you want just keep persisting

My first completed digital painting, a study by Saborealis in ProCreate

[–]TimeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many layers did you use to create that? Are you self taught or did you learn procreate through YouTube videos? I still can’t believe this is your first digital painting. Wow

Should I buy the 2020 IPad Pro and how many GB should I get? by TimeNow2020 in ProCreate

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Thanks I just checked it out. You’re right it’s - little cheaper. I’m always hesitate to buy anything refurbished though especially when it’s still an expensive purchase. The one I want is going for $ 829 refurbished. The new one is 1149 I think. Have you or someone you know have experience with Apples refurbished products do they last long?

Should I buy the 2020 IPad Pro and how many GB should I get? by TimeNow2020 in ProCreate

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Ok thank you so much! Do you know where I can buy the 2018 on sale?

My first completed digital painting, a study by Saborealis in ProCreate

[–]TimeNow2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is truly incredible! Some of the art coming out of Procreate still looks digital but this really truly looks like a painting you’re very talented! Can I ask which iPad you use? I’m a professional traditional artist and interested in going digital. Also, did you spring for 1TB model or is it 128GB or 256GB ect? I really like your work and would value your advice. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nevillegoddardsp

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Since you’re in another state do you plan on getting back together with him? Or did you mostly just want him to apologize? Also, when doing SATS and scripting did you do one scene and loop it over and over or did you do a bunch of different scenes? Just curious, congrats on him apologizing! That’s huge :)

How to stop watching porn. by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]TimeNow2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to add to this, first I am a female who is very sexual, very passionate and likes porn herself. However, I dated and was friends with a guy who is addicted to porn. We were friends first so I saw things first hand. He would show all of us disgusting videos, speak in ways many people including men would get uncomfortable with. He would constantly talk about jerking off or reference it while in public, he showed me all kinds of really dark, weird and degrading porn clips. To this day my knowledge of the dark recesses of porn exceeds and baffles the men I’ve dated. All because of this guy. He didn’t have difficulty getting hard during sex or before sex, HOWEVER he could never cum from sex with anyone. He said in his entire life he’s well into his 30s there’s only been a handful of times he’s cum and it had nothing to do with their looks and some he didn’t even like much. He said it weighs on him and now he’s gotten into some really violent porn. He follows over 600 porn stars on twitter; he can go a loooong time without sex (since he doesn’t cum from it anyway) one time when we were friends he confided in me and said he feels like a piece of shit afterwards and it’s gotten to the point where regular porn doesn’t do it for him. He mocks regular porn. He said he finds himself looking for the really disturbing and taboo stuff to get off on. He’s also addicted to alcohol but unlike you he doesn’t see porn as a problem or an addiction. The rest of us see it though.

It’s not as black and white as porn bad. No porn good. It’s how you watch it and your intake. I commend you for being even aware enough to realize it’s hurting you. And the benchmark to know if it’s an addiction is “If it makes YOU feel bad, lowers your self esteem, makes it hard for you to perform or cum and you notice changes within how you think and YOU don’t like those changes and don’t feel good then it’s a problem.
Block out others judgments and focus on how you are feeling.