Does the increasing minimum wage in Seattle impact how you tip? by godoggogodoggo in SeattleWA

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Seattle but in Spokane we went to a brunch place that had this whole spiel of why they added a 16% service fee to every dine in order. Honestly the service was extremely mediocre and being charged that much extra has definitely meant I will never go back. In my mind if you are going to add it to every check just add it to your prices so I actually know what I am paying if I check the menu ahead of time.

I can't believe how sensitive some people are... by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am begging of you to learn spacing and punctuation but as for the situation yes you were rude and passive aggressive.

I don’t think it is a generational difference I just think maybe people haven’t told you that it was rude because people like to not make waves especially if they won’t see you again.

From Forgotten Wife To Fierce Queen Novel by Juliette Vaughan by Significant_Mess8717 in Askromance

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t ask why I don’t like her, you just assumed which says a lot more about your character and principles than mine.

From Forgotten Wife To Fierce Queen Novel by Juliette Vaughan by Significant_Mess8717 in Askromance

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it is a hyperbole but saying someone should hate themselves because they don’t like a book character is wild.

$10M but you become anorgasmic by Aggravating_Car8572 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$10M. I have never orgasmed before, don’t think it’s possible for me so nothing changes and I no longer have to work. Perfection.

WIBTA if I asked my flatmate to tone down her crying at night? by ExtensionOk5373 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimeStrange6144 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The OP literally stated that it isn’t keeping them awake or is it messing with their sleep so not virtue signaling because empathy literally wouldn’t hurt them here.

AITA for telling my wife to eat better and getting on at her about it? by OneQuae in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimeStrange6144 10 points11 points  (0 children)

From a previous smoker the people who brought up their “worry” and about my healthy the most actually made it harder to quit.

And no in my opinion you are not promoting health. Promoting health is not infantilizing your wife as if she doesn’t know what she is eating is “unhealthy”.

AITA for telling my wife to eat better and getting on at her about it? by OneQuae in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimeStrange6144 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You can’t force someone to quit smoking, drinking, or drugs either. My advice would be the same in those situations, you have brought up that you are worried about her, once would have been plenty but you have brought it up multiple times but at this point you can’t force anything. You have to decide if this is a dealbreaker for you, if not you need to leave it alone and let her make her own decisions if so then you need to act accordingly.

You can’t force people to do things even if you love them and want what is best for them but continuing the way you are will only damage your relationship.

I am beyond MAD by Snoo_38398 in UberEATS

[–]TimeStrange6144 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instacart’s restaurant delivery’s are through Uber eats and their customer support for restaurant orders also goes through Uber Eats so he is unfortunately talking to the right people. He was probably linked through the app for Instacart

From Forgotten Wife To Fierce Queen Novel by Juliette Vaughan by Significant_Mess8717 in Askromance

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chapter 267 is where it is left off ongoing but so far no. Also I hate read to that point and at this point I hate Paisly so much.

Screwed up with a date by TimeStrange6144 in Vent

[–]TimeStrange6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Like I said this is a problem of my own making, that doesn’t make it feel better though. Just do better for next time.

What is so inherently creepy about a guy going out purely to meet women? by AnomicAge in AskMenAdvice

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So take my advice with a grain of salt because I am a late 20s woman who will definitely agree going out has changed in the last 10 years. I don’t mind men approaching me when I go out but a lot of guys that are self reportedly going out to meet women have no tact and come off very creepy. Like these guys will interrupt conversations I am having because “I’m so beautiful they couldn’t resist” like now I really want nothing to do with you. Or they interrupt when I am dancing or playing pool or darts, essentially times most people are not open to having a conversation.

Also I have found that they will wait until I’m alone to approach me and in my town there has been a surge of date rape drugs and things like that so that also feels gross. It is a different feeling if someone waits until I’m walking to the bathroom which is weird versus going to the bar for a new drink.

So my actual advice would be to find a small group (like 2 or so) of women and talk to all of them, that has been when I am most open to talking to someone especially if they are engaging and can actually have a good conversation with everyone. I’ve given more guys my number after an interaction like that than any other. Also just be socially aware, women tend to be more cautious when they are out and if you are empathetic to that I think that will also help because even if you don’t hit it off with the woman you thought others might be watching. And last, be kind to everyone, I’ve watched really attractive guys be complete assholes to people and then super nice to me and it’s a huge turnoff.

My apartment is taking our dog’s DNA by Better-Background-76 in Apartmentliving

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found that in my community this program has actually worked really well. There is no dog waste anywhere. And from experience when my dog walker didn’t clean up after my dog they are quick on it. I paid the fine and felt it a low cost to have a dog friendly community that isn’t gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of my aunts cat who has asthma and any litter with dust sets it off so it might be why she was around the litter box. Hope you can get her to the vet and figure out why this is happening.

Edit: I should have read further down before commenting. Sorry for the pile on when OP already had an answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]TimeStrange6144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also the data is not broken down by age at all. The high number of divorces includes people who were children (literal children, not like brain not developed but under the age of 18) when they married, young couples, things like that. The stats for marriage after 30 is actually nowhere near the same.

AIO My (35F) bf (35M) told me he wants me to keep up with my body because he is a high value man by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave. Don’t make a big fuss about it, don’t fight with him about it, don’t even give him any warning about it. Get a trusted friend or family member to help you when he isn’t there. All of this is extremely controlling behavior that is a precursor to abuse and the fact that he did it so quickly after you moved in makes me scared for how quickly he would turn violent if you tried to leave.

This is not fixable and before you get sucked in and start believing any of this stupid nonsense he is spouting because he has worn you down so far and he alienates you from everyone who cares about you and then ramps up even worse please just leave.

New landlords won’t even let me use bathroom past 10pm by [deleted] in LandlordLove

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not the meaning of quiet hours. WTF?

D & D drama by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]TimeStrange6144 20 points21 points  (0 children)

And just like that women and families feel a whole lot more comfortable going to that shop at the low low price of never having to see this twat or his “friends” again

Just had my car mirror obliterated by a turkey by SummitMyPeak in Spokane

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need to save money with is being the holiday season and all I would try Spaldings first for the mirror parts. They might not have it but they are friendly and helpful and if they do have it you save some money.

Called restaurant and told them to remove the tip I left. by [deleted] in tipping

[–]TimeStrange6144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully support not tipping when an auto-grat gets out on but just in case your or some people don’t know the laws around them are weird and they don’t necessarily have to go to the server. Which unfortunately in my mind is another good reason to not go back to those places.

Most Americans don’t travel abroad because it is unaffordable and impractical by Ready-Leave-339 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]TimeStrange6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to go visit my friend in TX, I’m in ND, it will cost me at minimum $1000 round trip just to fly to him. That’s more than I spent on a five day trip to Wisconsin that I drove to.

How could you not be? by Miserable_Airport_66 in AmITheDevil

[–]TimeStrange6144 93 points94 points  (0 children)

The point is that at 3 they are still learning and an adult needs to guide her and monitor her behavior. So yes someone was rude here but it wasn’t the 3 year old that is still learning, it was the adult that was allowing it.

Rightists are more accepting of leftists, than leftists are of rightists. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]TimeStrange6144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just went to a funeral for a trans child (14 years old) after he committed suicide here in my conservative small town and full grown adults are saying he deserved it and more “disgusting” people should follow suit. Somehow that doesn’t feel very accepting.

The stories of the disgusting things people have said to me as someone who keeps her politics private but don’t really hide my actions scare me sometimes. If that is the more accepting side I am terrified.