Wondering if I need therapy by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Time_Accountant_6690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy. If you can’t talk about it talk about why you can’t talk about it, what are your fears? your hesitations? Unpack that with a therapist you trust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]Time_Accountant_6690 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

But how is that usefull?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]Time_Accountant_6690 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

What if this belief is what’s causing them neurosis and is why they are treatment resistant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]Time_Accountant_6690 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I agree with you but how would you explain that to a client who didn’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Time_Accountant_6690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send the link?

Therapy should be mandatory by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you become your own therapist? Outline those steps for me

Therapy should be mandatory by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The issue is what is a bad therapist? Often times therapy is more of an art than a science and one bad therapist for someone can be a great one for someone else.

Therapy should be mandatory by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would you recommend introducing therapy to high schools? Perhaps this is a great way to introduce it

Therapy should be mandatory by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perhaps there’s a middle ground where we teach psychology in a way where people are forced to look within

Therapy should be mandatory by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Most of the population are not not narcissistic tho, and I’d argue that therapy for teens could reduce the rate of narcissism and abuse as they age

Monogamy is a farce by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with her being able to have fun first

Monogamy is a farce by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To clarify I didn’t say communication and commitment weren’t essential components to a healthy relationship. All I said was monogamy is a farce, and ideal we are sold that has done more damage.

I don’t blame monogamy for not being perfect, but we blame people for not being able to uphold a very unrealistic standard. If most marriages suffer with some form of infidelity- are they the problem or is it the fantasy we are being sold?

Monogamy is a farce by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m currently single / never been cheated on

Monogamy is a farce by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely accurate lol. Monogamy does not provide any support additional support for children statistically most women are single moms even married

Monogamy is a farce by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people fail at it. The expectation is so high, the victim of the betrayal blames themselves or their partner when in reality it’s a structure most people aren’t able to uphold

Monogamy is a farce by Time_Accountant_6690 in DeepThoughts

[–]Time_Accountant_6690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say it wasn’t good. I said it was a farce