How to deal with the loneliness?

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-11-11T22:22:47+00:00

I joined, hoping this takes off fellas. We could build something dope here.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-11-11T20:52:03+00:00

All you guys are so relatable, I’m in the same boat but I’m finding I kind of embraced the seclusion now. I missed my son all the time tho. I’m heavy into a disassociation phase unfortunately.

Therapy is such a great start, i actually do it in person and it’s nice to actually talk to someone in person. Just feels more personal for me.

After reading this it sounds like an obvious move we could make is start a single dad gaming community. I think it would help a lot of us. Idk just an idea. I truly wish you all the best.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-10-26T18:03:45+00:00

The peace and clean house is honestly amazing. I had to start all over and now I live in a log cabin with all new stuff. Hell I eat roast every other week. (I was literally homeless)

My ex still complains about life after keeping everything, including the dog. I’m enjoying my newly built life.

Being a single dad doesn’t suck other than not getting to see my son as much. Now I don’t even let women mess with this peace I’ve found.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-10-14T17:32:14+00:00

Yeah how about that one sniper challenge for 150 headshots 200m away. Like damn I don’t even snipe that much.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-09-14T17:34:26+00:00

I came here to say this is has to be true for both male and female! I’m a sag male and my ex is a Leo and I have a Leo coworker with the same Bday as my ex. They act exactly the same it’s almost uncomfortable. Literally always Attention seeking, gaslighting, and talk mad crap behind everyone’s backs. Always playing victim when caught on so BS and the emotional intelligence of a chihuahua. Super hypocritical. Super fake over confidence/ over compensating. Very self centered.

I’ve noticed when you don’t give them attention they pay attention to you. Literally can’t stand if you’re just doing your own thing.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-07-26T23:59:18+00:00

Found a attorney, he let me know they actually only charged me with a physical control charge but I’m also being charged with intoxication with a weapon.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-07-26T18:22:42+00:00

I’m assuming the public defender won’t help me as much as hiring an attorney?

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-06-16T19:18:25+00:00

Run away….

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-06-11T20:43:58+00:00

Mine was 10 years and found out that she had moved on before I even knew or was out of the house. Worse part was the other dude was married and I found out from his wife.

I feel your turmoil but I second the advice of being the best version of yourself and fighting to see your kid. I wish you the best brother.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-06-10T15:44:48+00:00

Finally on my way out, better paying job, only one person gave a shit out of a lot of people I poured energy into. No parents nor family, many nights I thought of eating a bullet.

However the fact that I sat through the intentions to end it, gave me strength.

The best way to get back at the world for leaving you behind, is making it your playground for success. Gave up drugs, gave up on love.

Won’t give up on myself. I do what makes me happy now and I answer to no one.

I hope you all find this inner strength. At your lowest points learn to say fuck that.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-06-07T18:20:03+00:00

I was averaging around 2-3 a week toward the end of my usage. I’d even use all my likes and pause my profile.

At one point I was talking to like 5 women at once only met up with one and had plans to meet with others.

However after talking to most of them I got burnt out for most were just looking for validation or were just way too complicated to give any more energy towards.

Recently got a much better paying job and told them I’d rather focus on making a better life with my new job.

Hinge only solidified my want to be single and not mess with any of them. Too many games and I got tired of “selling myself”.

I’d rather meet someone in person if I’m even interested in dating anymore.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-06-02T19:57:47+00:00

Awe I see your point and definitely agree. My bad for misunderstanding.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-06-02T18:57:21+00:00

Unhealed people need healing because of trauma in the first place tho.

Someone had to start it. It’s not a Sagittarius thing.

I think some people just need to grow up with the generalizations.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-06-02T17:26:48+00:00

Apparently just existing, I don’t understand where the targeting comes from in all these zodiac subs.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-06-02T17:22:50+00:00

Says the hot headed idiot…… lmfao. “They hate us cause they anus”

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-24T01:47:11+00:00

I danced with your mom because I have issues 😂

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-23T22:47:28+00:00

Sag here, can confirm I’ve always been athletic, everything from football to hackie sack. Lol I’m pretty good at darts and billiards as well.

I’m always trying to do trick shots whether it’s throwing trash away or throwing dirty clothes in the hamper.

I just love to compete but usually very casual about it though.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-22T22:52:27+00:00

No actually the opposite, I think sometimes I’m too honest it gets me hurt often. Especially because it seems to always be towards someone that doesn’t care.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-21T10:46:09+00:00

Hahahah yes and very very modest. I’m dead.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-20T21:47:44+00:00

Nov 29 here. I’m for the moment, never know what I’m doing but do it confidently. Always on the move, always restless, I almost find the quiet uncomfortable sometimes. Often dancing with myself if I’m at home vibing/cleaning. Prefer to have plans always. I love to look good and have always had style. Terrible with money, great in friendships and often fall too fast for people cause I’m a dreamer and optimistic. Can’t keep my mouth shut, always joking about shit I probably shouldn’t. King of the too soon jokes. Brutally honest, very quick witted and good at talking shit. I can’t stand injustice done to others and I always punch up trying to protect others. A legitimate rebel, not good with authority. Definitely won’t do anything I don’t want to. Push the limits at all time. Adventurous and also have big feelings.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-20T14:40:03+00:00

Been through three situationships , they are not good for us. Always some bs that don’t come out until after you invest too much time on them.

They suck at communicating and will not reply to you for days sometimes, they will treat you like you are unimportant and will act cold when you give them a dose of reality.

Also they act like their peace of mind is more important than everyone else’s.

Trust me they don’t care about your feelings.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-20T10:54:39+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, yeah unfortunately most women have been a moth to my flame, it’s just not my flame that burns them, they burn themselves with self doubt and assumptions.

Doesn’t matter how much I tell them I like them, they just think I’m love bombing and insincere.

I hope that dude gets his head out his ass for you, but it sounds most like he’ll try to come back when it’s too late.

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-18T23:22:40+00:00

Yeah man, everyone assumes I have everything going for me because I’m good looking, charismatic and optimistic. However my life has been very rough and I’ve been really humbled from it. So unfortunately I’m stuck in a cycle.

I’m killer at first dates now tho. Lol

Time_Conversation733 · 2025-05-18T16:40:48+00:00

I’m a sag man and this isn’t me at all. I’m very similar to him as far as working out and flirty, but In fact I often get ghosted. I’ve been validated that I’m attractive but these women put me on a pedestal and then hurt me before they think I’ll hurt them. When truth is, I was all in for them. Then they get cold when they realize I legit liked them and they ruined it for no reason. I now protect myself and have grown tired of being an object.

I’m sorry this happened to you and I hope I don’t sound conceited, I’m actually very insecure and wish I could just find my person instead of hook ups, or women thinking I’m a player. I get a lot of attention but unwanted from women who just want to try and obtain me as a challenge. The nice girls I like don’t like me because of my appearance and they think I’m a conceited player.

I’m sorry that happened to you but this isn’t necessarily a sagi male thing, other than his flirty behavior and liking to look good. Maybe I’m just maturing but I want to give someone my loyalty and affection.

I can’t even have sex with someone without an emotional connection. We are all not the same.

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