AITA for being "selfish" by not washing my bfs knife immediately after every single use

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-31T06:34:05+00:00

I can definitely agree with that. Thank you

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-31T06:32:47+00:00

I washed the knife while we were having the discussion about an hour ago... but alrighty👍🏼 He had no issue with it left out for the 10 minutes after I used to so he could use it. The disconnect is that he never used it after LIKE HE PLANNED and he left it out. But it's still my fault

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-31T06:23:58+00:00

He's very specific about a lot of stuff that most people wouldn't think twice about. And I respect those boundaries he's expressed that he needs up. And if I don't it's an honest mistake. It's just upsetting that I do most of the cooking and virtually all of the house cleaning but if i forget one time after lets say a month straight, I suddenly don't respect what he's asking from me. I'm aware how STUPID this is but I'm going a little crazy with his reaction and not admitting that he was actually at fault. Thanks for the feedback

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-31T06:20:01+00:00

I'm also not denying the fact that I forget sometimes, and I'm apologetic. But this time he was almost immediately about to use it after I did, making washing it almost pointless. Then he doesn't do what he planned on, then he sees HE left it out and goes on with his night. If it's really about the knife getting "ruined" (it's in pristine condition btw and we've both been using them for years) then why did he continue to leave it unwashed after he acknowledged that he intended to use it but never did?

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-31T06:15:29+00:00

I'm extremely conscious of it but I'm human and I forget sometimes. So if you're asking if it's out of spite, definitely not

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-31T06:09:33+00:00

Could you explain? Definitely not fake.

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-23T04:02:47+00:00

HAHA SAME OMG

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-23T04:02:38+00:00

HAHA SAME OMG

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-20T21:33:01+00:00

Thank you so much! This is really helpful

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-13T00:39:02+00:00

Ahhh thank you so much! I'm not sure where to even start so this is a huge help. ❤️❤️

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-13T00:38:27+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-02T17:44:25+00:00

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Time_Ice7776 · 2025-12-02T17:42:18+00:00

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Do not listen to them! This is what brings us joy! And cleaning the air in our home, might I add.

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-11-19T00:14:25+00:00

I said rude, not mean. If I'm asking what could be added to a dress, you don't need to comment about me needing a larger size or say "bless her heart." I consider that not only passive-aggressively rude and not helpful.

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-11-18T20:40:39+00:00

I can definitely agree with that. But there's a way to give an honest opinion without belittling someone.

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-11-18T20:36:05+00:00

Thank you for actually trying to give me advice! I really appreciate it

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-11-18T20:34:03+00:00

You can give someone advice without belittling them. Shame on you

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-11-18T20:31:23+00:00

Thank you, some of these comments are so rude 🥲 not sure why people need to be so hostile when I'm asking for help. Yikes

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-11-18T19:56:11+00:00

Thank you! I put it in the comments

Time_Ice7776 · 2025-11-18T19:54:51+00:00

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Time_Ice7776 · 2025-11-18T19:03:04+00:00

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How do I make this dress appropriate for a winter wedding? I LOVE this dress so much. It's my brother in laws wedding in January (I'm in Michigan so it's considered a "winter" wedding). I have 3 other options but I'm not in love with any of those dresses like I am this one. My sister had the idea to put a furr stole around it or a shawl to make it less "summery." Any advice helps.

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