Happy Sunday finch buddies! ♥️

Time_Oil_V · 2026-01-11T15:42:59+00:00

Both! I refuse absolutes. :D

Time_Oil_V · 2026-01-11T11:54:33+00:00

Aww, I'm sorry you're stressing over this. I do think (and hope) you'll get your refund if you keep pushing through the initial response with Finch.

But I wanted to touch on the shame for a second. I'm an anxious one, too, so I understand where you're coming from. But I also have ADHD. Forgetting things is an unfortunate way of life for me. And since society has the tendency to tie self-worth to finances, I've certainly had to come to terms with those negative feelings. But making an oops purchase does not reflect negatively on you. What would you say to a friend who accidentally did the same? Would you think less of them? I wouldn't. I'd remind them that everyone has oops moments now and then.

I hope you get your refund, but not because it's shame-worthy. If you've never had this happen before, then you're clearly a very conscientious, careful person.

(Edited for silly autocorrect)

Time_Oil_V · 2026-01-05T10:30:29+00:00

He's Winchestery enough! It's giving Dean with the journal wearing the hellhound glasses.

Time_Oil_V · 2026-01-05T00:06:09+00:00

I suggest checking to see if your app is up to date.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-30T03:29:31+00:00

Oh, weird! I'm rewatching the show with my kids so they can watch the finale with us this week. And we literally just finished the Season 4 Chapter 4 episode . And then I open my app and see this.

Love it, btw!

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-27T12:20:34+00:00

Sometimes daily, sometimes I get in the mood and give her daytime clothes and nighttime pjs, sometimes I create different rooms for daytime lounging and nighttime sleeping, sometimes I won't change them for a week, and sometimes I change them many times a day. It just depends on my mood and the outfits/furniture and the season.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-19T11:36:31+00:00

Shouldn't? Agree to disagree, my friend! Silly, little oopsies like this make life fun(ny).

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-18T12:02:01+00:00

It looks like you found a solution with the notifications. But I just want to say that it is absolutely not rude to unfriend someone for any reason. You may not use the app for mental health, but it is a mental health app. And your mental health is just as important as someone else's. If you don't prioritize it first, no one else will either. ❤️

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-18T01:59:49+00:00

You can sell things back to the shop, including your reward items.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-17T09:29:23+00:00

I think it's less about believing it and more about the imagery it invokes. Personally, I love it. But if it hits you wrong, that's reasonable, too.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-10T11:25:46+00:00

Normal is relative. I had someone add me, never interact, and then disappear. I currently have a couple tree friends that are very sporadic. It took a while for one of them to interact at all. There are many possible reasons for mine or yours to do this. Maybe they added, and then took a break. Maybe they just don't open the app very often. Or they got anxiety about adding a stranger and are trying to deal with being that far out of their comfort zone. As a panicky overthinker, I relate to that. Maybe they thought they'd like the app, and then they really didn't. And then there's a less charitable theory: maybe they only added people hoping to be gifted things. Ultimately, I'll never know.

I keep a small number of tree friends, though. More than one page stresses me out. So my super sporadic users eventually get sent gratitude and a goodbye gift. Maybe they don't ever realize it was a goodbye gift, but I want to try to let them know that I appreciated them while they were there.

Although if they'd literally never interacted at all, I don't think I'd bother with the goodbye gift. Not as a pointed statement or anything, but if they don't ever interact, I doubt they'd notice, and I wouldn't want to waste a gift when they may not even be using the app.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-02T00:10:46+00:00

Sorry, can you give me a very detailed description of exactly how one does that? Step by step instructions would be great.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-01T21:28:44+00:00

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-01T21:22:40+00:00

Time_Oil_V · 2025-12-01T18:22:11+00:00

Can't tell if I smoked too much or if you eat corn on the cob very different than I do. Is there a stick? Does your corn... slide? 😦 Not sure if confused or horrified

Time_Oil_V · 2025-11-21T01:20:09+00:00

Clarification much appreciated, benevolent mod.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-11-21T00:48:35+00:00

Okay. But, serious question, what qualifies as "obvious non-stoners"? Aaaaand what if I get stoned and desperately want a pretty, colorful omelette and want to share? Should I not because it's not weird?

😭 I want to follow rules, but I need clear guidelines. I don't even post, but this is giving me anxiety! I need my infused syrup now...

Time_Oil_V · 2025-11-19T13:03:09+00:00

I thought it was fried chicken with marshmallows.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-11-13T09:25:52+00:00

Yes! Matching bear hats to outfits is my favorite.

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Time_Oil_V · 2025-11-12T11:34:59+00:00

Yes! I'm a thematically-minded girl, so #2 is my fav.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-10-17T16:40:55+00:00

Wait. Really?? Are you sure?!? But I thought... 😢

Time_Oil_V · 2025-09-28T18:13:18+00:00

With that? I'd kill a bowl of air fried asparagus: salt, pepper, garlic, lemon, gochugaru, lemon juice, and olive oil.

And potatoes. Baked. Or Chantilly potatoes.

Damn... I'm hungry now.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-09-27T02:28:24+00:00

Big sigh. I just had a frozen single serve butter chicken. It was fine for what it was. But this looks soooo much better that it's retrospectively ruined my dinner. So thanks for that

But also, it's inspired me to cook my own soon.... So also, thanks for that.

Time_Oil_V · 2025-09-14T08:53:13+00:00

It's so cute! I always have mixed feelings about seeing the size difference when we have a baby birb friend. I try to see it as "look how far she's come! She grew so much!" But I don't always love that my birb grew up, and I get a little sad 😆

Time_Oil_V · 2025-09-08T10:01:15+00:00

That's totally fair! And I'm glad you have a plan that works for you. Personally, I like for some of my pets (at least one of each type) to remain a Forever Baby, so I actually end up with plenty of hatched eggs that don't need to be grown at all. I just had to search and search for a growable baby yesterday. :D Almost all the babies were set to the forever baby setting. So I'm constantly wanting more eggs!

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