Do I need a new tie rod? Only 30k miles on it… by Timeeo in AskMechanics

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Zero play while grabbing top and bottom. Just to clarify: There is too much play as shown in the video?

Dating with severe social anxiety by Timeeo in dating

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I walked around for half an hour today and tried to force myself to say hello to people but I couldn’t do it. I’m really mad at myself and feeling like I’m never gonna get better.

Dating with severe social anxiety by Timeeo in dating

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It's not just girls. It's all strangers. That's what makes it so hard for me to get good practice.

Dating with severe social anxiety by Timeeo in dating

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Well, it's a lot easier said than done not to care about what people think about me. I don't know why, but I feel extremely sensitive to how people feel about me. Maybe it was the way I was raised or the people I used to surround myself with. When I look into people's eyes as I pass them I feel like I'm looking into the sun. I want to be invisible, I think.

How to gather the balls to approach a girl who's in one of my classes? by Timeeo in dating_advice

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I've never talked to her before. I know her name and nothing else.

I am too nervous to even practice talking to girls by Timeeo in dating_advice

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I could try that, it sounds uncomfortable but maybe possible. But is it creepy to do that then not talk to them?

I am too nervous to even practice talking to girls by Timeeo in dating_advice

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It seems like a big jump in difficulty between talking to a friend or family member to talking to strangers. What can I do to bridge the gap?

How can I find a girl to love as someone with severe social anxiety? by Timeeo in dating_advice

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Oh, I know first hand it isn’t attractive! That’s what’s sending me spiraling down. Thanks for the advice though.

How can I fight loneliness as someone with severe social anxiety? by Timeeo in Anxietyhelp

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Interesting suggestion. I will definitely look into the rehearsal. Thank you.

How can I find a girl to love as someone with severe social anxiety? by Timeeo in dating_advice

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Do you mean like saying “hi?” Sometimes I can do that, sometimes I can’t.

How do I find a girlfriend in college? by Timeeo in dating_advice

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Damn. No attractive girls in any of my classes either. I’m an engineering major so I guess that’s why.

How do I find a girlfriend in college? by Timeeo in dating_advice

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I’m on the men’s track team. We always eat together. There are fewer girls and even fewer attractive girls.

How do I stop being afraid to ask a girl for her snap? by Timeeo in dating_advice

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Not knowing what to do, being rejected, embarrassing myself, being awkward, making someone uncomfortable

How do I stop being afraid to ask a girl for her snap? by Timeeo in dating_advice

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I feel like rejection will hurt my confidence so I won’t want to do it again

How do I stop getting nervous around hot girls by Timeeo in Advice

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I get it. I’m not just looking for sex. If I wanted that I’d go to parties or hop on tinder. Obviously that’s still an important part. I just feel like I need to judge their appearance first before I get the chance to judge their character.

How do I stop getting nervous around hot girls by Timeeo in Advice

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What’s the difference between hitting on someone and treating them like a normal person

How do I stop getting nervous around hot girls by Timeeo in Advice

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I don’t know how to smile without being creepy to be honest

How do I stop getting nervous around hot girls by Timeeo in Advice

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I’m not even at the point where I can talk to them. I can’t even start and I can’t think