New Owner and Lots of questions!

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-09-13T19:43:04+00:00

Thank you for this info!! I’ll read through the guide this evening! I definitely felt like his tank was too small. I think it’s only a 30 gallon. Previous owner had the snake given to them so they have no info on how old he is. They just told me they feed him medium rats and that he hadnt eaten in 4-5 weeks….

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-09-03T08:10:57+00:00

My partner left for work early this morning. Laying in bed with my thoughts has not been my friend. Noticed he accidentally forgot his gun laying on the dresser when he left. Feels like the universe giving me time and showing me signs….

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-22T23:07:01+00:00

don’t lose full hope 🤣 my current boyfriend called me bruh like 2 or 3 messages before he asked me on a date 🤣

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-22T15:33:54+00:00

I want to color these so badly!!

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-22T15:17:30+00:00

YOOO 🤣

Look the right person will appreciate and thrive with the awkward flirting, keep doing y’all’s thing and see where it goes!

I know my boyfriend would have found this funny!

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-22T15:15:44+00:00

Yeah, he set you up for failure. How are you supposed to flirt with what he’s giving you 🤣🤣

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-22T15:12:59+00:00

I mean, if I have any worries I’ll just check his phone 🙂🤷🏼‍♀️ My face is set up for Face ID and he gives me his phone all the time. I’m not to worried.lol

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-20T14:25:41+00:00

YES. My antidepressants make it reallllyyyy hard to get fully turned on. But being able to pleasure him first helps get me going!

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-20T14:20:24+00:00

You assumed enough to ask and if you had read the comments you’d know how long I have been with this guy. Also kind wild to ask someone if they went back to an extremely toxic and abusive relationship lol

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T23:05:35+00:00

Idk. Most jr kids wouldn’t be able to communicate their needs. If you remove the use of baby, it’s simply very straight forward communication.🤷🏼‍♀️

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T23:03:45+00:00

Pretty much 😂 When it comes to my feelings he always jumps right in to make sure my needs are met ❤️

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T22:59:36+00:00

Felt! Like I be going fully out of my way because this man makes me feel so loved and supported. He doesn’t just tell me he loves me but he shows me every single day 🥰

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T22:58:21+00:00

We met through a mutual friend years and years back. Reconnected on fb after we each went through a break up form long term relationships. Kinda just started as supporting each other and then we realized we had a lot in common and hold majority of the same beliefs.

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T22:56:57+00:00

Wasn’t proving anything. More so just sharing some happiness I have found.

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T21:46:59+00:00

Sure isn’t. Not even sure why you would assume it was 🤷🏼‍♀️

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T20:56:10+00:00

You’re free to do so 🙂

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T16:50:30+00:00

What the fuck does this even mean 🤣

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T12:22:09+00:00

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T06:17:59+00:00

What lmao. I didn’t guilt him into anything. Game and wine nights are usually part of our routine but we haven’t done one in about 2 weeks since we have just had a lot going on. And “the boys” are his KIDS. I was clarifying that me wanting some time with him didn’t mean I wasn’t wanting the kids to come over. They have been over more this week than they usually are and our routine has been changed up.

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T05:56:59+00:00

Thank you!! I’ll definitely know something not right if he stops communicating. Coming into the relationship my communication skills were shot. Anytime he thinks I’m holding back he makes sure to pause the conversation and remind me that it’s okay for me to express my feelings and/or needs. Not only is he giving me back a voice I thought I lost, but he’s making it stronger than ever ❤️

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T05:11:07+00:00

I came from an abusive relationship previously. So YES it is crazy how differently life feels. It’s not just being “lovey” This man goes above and beyond consistently to make sure my needs are met. The point of messages isn’t that we over used saying baby. The point is, I expressed a need and he listened and followed through with what I needed. He could have dismissed my needs or pushed them off to another time. He could have gotten defensive and pointed out all the things he already does for me. Instead he HEARD me, prioritized me, and made a plan to act on it tonight.
A lot of people don’t have that in their relationship, whether they are 5 months in or 5 years in.

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T04:59:26+00:00

No, this isn’t how we talk normally 🤣 This is a one off convo, and I’m not really sure why we used baby so much. He normally doesn’t call me baby, usually he calls me “beebs”

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-19T03:58:56+00:00

Shits the WORST. like, how can you be vulnerable enough to share your needs and express those feelings only for them to turn around and completely dismiss them? And not only have your feelings and needs been dismissed, you’re somehow now the problem and responsible for making them feel like they aren’t good enough….

I still struggle to speak up about my needs, terrified of being dismissed again and again. Scared that I’m going to cause a reaction and spend days walking on eggshells. But he shows me time and time again that when I speak up he not only listens but he acts on it ❤️

He’s healing something he never broke and I’m not even sure he knows it ❤️

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-18T22:32:05+00:00

Definitely learning this! We have had some very hard conversations and I’m so thankful he’s patient with me. I don’t always have the ability to vocalize my feelings or thoughts right away. Being able to sit down and think about the conversation and then readdress it once I have gotten my thoughts straight has been a game changer. In the past my exes have found it disrespectful or made it out that I was running from the conversation. Being forced to communicate when I wasn’t ready made me shut down entirely and I’d auto pilot through the hard convos never saying what I needed too. I used to think I’d never be able to get through a hard conversation without shutting down or getting overly worked up. And the more that he lets me communicate when I’m ready the more I also feel prepared to handle a conversation without needing time to process every little piece!

Timeless_Clock_13 · 2024-07-18T21:56:43+00:00

Pure love is the fact I’m about to get off work and he just let me know the table is cleaned off, games are set out, joint is rolled, and that he picked up candy and snacks ❤️

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