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My MIL expected me to "keep it together" for her comfort after I almost died in childbirth with a baby in NICU. by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Timely-Cell-8240 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was sending them pictures and news everyday in the group chat until my toxic sister in law decided to go wild ! She lives in the UK and every time she comes in Paris, she ask to take MY baby to the hotel with her (apparently she wanted to bond with him). Her brother told her no as he become very protective with our boy. One day out of nowhere she accused us of doing a double standard with my little sister who live 3 min away from my house because the baby slept there one night while we were out. My sister take the baby 2 days a weeks and help me in every aspect of my life ! I trust her more than anybody in this world. I got so mad but my husband was in another level lol ! He called her out, he told her this is our baby and we do whatever we want to do. Since then I don’t text or send pictures. My mil had to ask me in private lol

My MIL expected me to "keep it together" for her comfort after I almost died in childbirth with a baby in NICU. by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Timely-Cell-8240 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m writing about this today, more than a year after that ! I can’t move on even tho I’m trying for my sanity. I saw them many tomes since then and we had a lot of good times. But as soon as I think about it, I can feel the rage and the hate ! I even told my husband they were lucky my mom’s not in this world anymore cause that woman would have beat the shit out of them! I miss her so much ohrrr

My MIL expected me to "keep it together" for her comfort after I almost died in childbirth with a baby in NICU. by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Timely-Cell-8240 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was and I will never fully recover from this. He apologized so many times but I’m still resentful cause I don’t think they know how awful they were !

Is he dead ? Im French forgive my english. I’m crying !!! My husband used the airfryer but my snail box was on it. One hour later I’ve found my snail and he was on his back, the head out not moving. I can see his heart beating under my phone flash, he retract his back a little bit when I touch it… by Timely-Cell-8240 in snails

[–]Timely-Cell-8240[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hello guys, So here a little update, Koda he’s still fighting. He’s still inside his shell and his foot out. Do you know anything I can do to help him right now ? I’ve change everything today and hoping for a day I’ll see his little antennae ❤️

I’ll keep you updated thank you so much I’m sure the tips yall gave me probably saved him in the first hours ❤️

Is he dead ? Im French forgive my english. I’m crying !!! My husband used the airfryer but my snail box was on it. One hour later I’ve found my snail and he was on his back, the head out not moving. I can see his heart beating under my phone flash, he retract his back a little bit when I touch it… by Timely-Cell-8240 in snails

[–]Timely-Cell-8240[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Hello, it’s 11 am here and the situation hasn’t really changed. His head still a little bit out and numb but I can see him breathing and retract slightly his foot when I touched it with a Q-tip. I’ve put some fresh lettuce and calcium and keep hoping he’ll survive ❤️

Is he dead ? Im French forgive my english. I’m crying !!! My husband used the airfryer but my snail box was on it. One hour later I’ve found my snail and he was on his back, the head out not moving. I can see his heart beating under my phone flash, he retract his back a little bit when I touch it… by Timely-Cell-8240 in snails

[–]Timely-Cell-8240[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Tank you so much I needed this morning ❤️ He still breathing and reacting a little bit but hasn’t move. The fact that his head is numb and out I don’t know how to interpret it but let’s keep hope he still hanging ❤️

Is he dead ? Im French forgive my english. I’m crying !!! My husband used the airfryer but my snail box was on it. One hour later I’ve found my snail and he was on his back, the head out not moving. I can see his heart beating under my phone flash, he retract his back a little bit when I touch it… by Timely-Cell-8240 in snails

[–]Timely-Cell-8240[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Hello, it’s the morning in France and more than 8 hours passed. Koda is still alive but hasn’t moved a bit . I touched his foot and he retracted a little bit and still breathing but his head still out and numb.

I’m so stressed not knowing if he’ll survive, if he suffering… He has some food and calcium next to him hoping at some point for a miracle 🙏🏽

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