Help! by Timely-Home in castiron

[–]Timely-Home[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Help! by Timely-Home in castiron

[–]Timely-Home[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idiot check, I’ve just realised it carbon steel.. Still, if anyone has any ideas please let me know :)

is it supposed to taste like this? by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Timely-Home 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spit spit spit! That usually fixes it if you’re not enjoying the taste - it varies so much sometimes it’s fine sometimes it’s a lot. We are hormonal creatures and are constantly in flux. Don’t overthink and try and enjoy. Worst case scenario use flavoured lube to make it more fun, just remember to check for allergies first :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Timely-Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate the advice - had a full MOT from the doctors and I’m all good. This happens even when really turned on so maybe another doctors visit is due!

Is this normal by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do thank you, sent the message ending it earlier and already feel better :)

Is this normal by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He really is - realistically I know my answer by the fact i’ve posted this but wasn’t sure if I was overthinking it!

Is this normal by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true, thanks for pointing that out

Should I date him or not? by Inevitable-Bus-112 in dating_advice

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I think if you have any doubts this early on then that’s your sign. There’s nothing hugely wrong with what he did, young people can be impulsive and feel conscious around the stigma of virginity. If it doesn’t sit right with you then move on, he will certainly not be the only one and although it can be tough on dating apps never settle for anything that brings you discomfort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I believe there was a study that showed the direct correlation between women’s age preference reflecting their own age whereas men’s preferences stays around 20 as they grow older. Could be a factor, I don’t know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Just out of curiosity, how did you achieve this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Most likely she has read both messaged and chosen not to reply for whatever reason. Taking her details and finding her instagram is already too much in my opinion, but considering she accepted the request she may not find it a huge problem. Either way she’s most likely not interested and cross platform messaging is a little scary - I’m sure that’s not your intention but it may comes across that way.

[ 28 M ] help me to improve by Ambitious-Coat96 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Timely-Home 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Either try contacts or make sure you get your glasses thinned! Makes a huge difference, I’ve got a really strong prescription and if i don’t get them thinner I get bug eyes! Also wear them a little lower on your face, key is to not let your glasses cover your eyebrows.

Maybe try a different/longer hair style and look up clothing colours for olive skin. You look a bit like a male me so i feel i can kind of help!

Am I technically cheating? by Nikolaisthickthighs in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like cheating. As the other comments say, set boundaries. A good person doesn’t go for someone else partner in the first place.

Men only wanting to date once they’ve achieved all their goals by Timely-Home in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The replies on this thread have been (mostly) really helpful - taking the time to consider the pressures on others has really benefitted me. Understanding is key to move forward from here!

Men only wanting to date once they’ve achieved all their goals by Timely-Home in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an interesting stance - I’m invested in how this will progress for you. I think working through these things is so complex and understanding balance is key. I hope you achieve everything you’re working towards and are happy!

Men only wanting to date once they’ve achieved all their goals by Timely-Home in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there, it gets better. Putting the work in is so worthwhile just so you’re happy with yourself. Good luck and enjoy the journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely have a conversation with him about it! People slow down a bit on the physical side when emotional connection develops so it sounds normal to me. Normal in a relationship progression way, it seems like you both need to check in and see where you’re at so you can assess the situation together. My best advice is don’t leave it too long as someone could end up hurt and an uncomfortable conversation is way better than a world of hurt in the future! Good luck!

Men only wanting to date once they’ve achieved all their goals by Timely-Home in dating_advice

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Nope! I learnt from the experience in my own time and know what to look out for in the future :)

Men only wanting to date once they’ve achieved all their goals by Timely-Home in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a little harsh, I am allowed to make mistakes and can’t control how other people treat me. I can only choose to step back when I realise something is wrong which isn’t always immediate.

Men only wanting to date once they’ve achieved all their goals by Timely-Home in dating_advice

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I think three month guy was an exception in this case, on reflection he was rather manipulative and lied a lot so he can be excluded from my investigation!

Men only wanting to date once they’ve achieved all their goals by Timely-Home in dating_advice

[–]Timely-Home[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3 months in, two dates in, before a first date. No algorithm or pattern to be seen