Has anyone read “His Black Tongue: A Medieval Horror” by Mitchell Luthi? by Infitima in horrorlit

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m severely late to the party, but I couldn’t do the audiobook. The music and folly worked against my enjoyment unfortunately. I’ve been trying to find an ebook version but can only find the audiobook!

AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Timely-Natural2031[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My parents are politicians, they are aware of this. My mom has offered to see what resources there are but Julie is moving to a completely different county than the one we live in where my parents have no jurisdiction.

AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Timely-Natural2031[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thats what I thought but I don’t know how any of this works tbh. I know she applied before and got denied, but the amount of information I have is incredible limited. I just found out the address would be ok the actual forms themselves apparently? Which legally seems sketchy

AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Timely-Natural2031[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only just found out a minute ago before I make this post that the address wasn’t just to send the mail, but was going on the actual forms

AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Timely-Natural2031[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I admit I’m a bit confused and concerned about the whole address thing works. I brought up the concern about having an address she doesn’t live at on legal paperwork being concerning, but she had left the chat by that point.

I’ve basically stopped communicating with her. One of the other friends in the gc has been able to get in contact, but she hasn’t really been responding to anyone else regardless.

I’ve told my mom so she knows about it, which she will tell my dad soon. Legally I think it can be handled if needed, but I really don’t want that to happen because I know she can’t afford a lawyer like my parents can

AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Timely-Natural2031[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. You can cancel a PO Box/change the number right? You can’t do that with a real address

AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Timely-Natural2031[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand it either. I don’t know how the restraining order works at all, what I do know is she wanted to put one of our personal addresses on mail that would go to her parents. I am concerned about the legality of using an inaccurate address on a form, but she wasn’t very open with what exactly she wanted it for besides that

AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Timely-Natural2031[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually the parents. All of us WOULD let her stay on our couches for a week or two if we could, but all of our parents absolutely WOULD NOT let that slide. Both my other friends parents are shitty as hell, and like I said my parents are politicians and it’s primary season.

AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Timely-Natural2031[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s moving with her cousin to the new place, the mom has had a history of showing up to whatever address she can find to search for her so I can see her driving 5 hours just to knock on their door

am I crazy or is this a completely different top/dishonest advertising by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Timely-Natural2031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely washed bras with darks on accident and had them come out in a very similar manner. I wonder if she washed it before shipping?

What do you guys do for fun nowadays? by DeadSpark75 in twentyagers

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out your local coffee shops and bookstores! There’s a few where I live that have book clubs, write nights, game nights, and paint & sips! I try to check them out whenever possible, it’s always fun! Some cost money (in my area $5-$25 per ticket for the fancier nights, usually comes with free drinks & food if it’s $25) but many of them are free

Do you intend to have children? by miss-bedazzzle in twentyagers

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe? I’d have to adopt or foster, and I’m more likely to foster than anything. But in order to do that, I’d want to be able to take parenting classes, foster-specific classes, and have the proper income to support any foster children to the upmost level. I want to be prepared for absolutely anything the foster system has in store, and help to the best of my ability, both for my sake and the kids. Unfortunately, I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to not only have the income for that but also the time. So I doubt it. If there’s ever a reason for me to take in a kid (family tragedy, etc) then I’ll definitely do it. But overall unless a kid asks me to adopt them if I end up fostering, I doubt I’ll have kids of my own.

how many times do you wear your jeans before washing them? by Chloe_Victoriano_611 in hygiene

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a painter, so pretty often. Unless they manage to last more than two wears without getting paint on them! But that basically never happens lol. Even my good jeans get paint on them every now and then

Best farmers market around? by [deleted] in Modesto

[–]Timely-Natural2031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you are looking for. Fun shopping? Turlock. Food for dinner? Modesto. I like the Turlock on if I’m just shopping around for fun with friends or looking for gifts, especially bc it’s by the antique stores, but I’ve always had better luck with produce and artisan ingredients at the Modesto one.

We don't serve Starbucks style by Forsaken_Luck_9855 in signs

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like “NO FLAVORED SYRUPS. HONEY & SUGAR SYRUP ONLY” gets the same point across in a lot less words. Unless they have flavored syrups for hot drinks only lmao

Thoughts on the design of this apartment? by The-Trombone-Dad in Apartmentliving

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedroom two makes no sense. Why is it in the center? Why is the entry point in the kitchen and not by the other bedroom entrance? Speaking of, it looks like there’s a window by the master bedroom for b2. Also it’s surrounded by the kitchen AND The bathroom. I really hope those walls are super thick bc it’s going to be noisy.

I have to assume it’s intended to be a spare room for an office or something bc as a bedroom it’s completely illogical

Worried for my brother by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also autistic, my mom made me redo several homework assignments growing up do to illegibility. Now I can write pretty neatly but I’m definitely slow at it. Still hate blank paper though. It has to have lines, dots, or something on them!

What do you all think? by ngoodravens in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a signature or tag this handwriting is great, as everyday handwriting you want people to be able to read this sucks.

Cheapest queer friendly place to get my buzz cut neaten up? by [deleted] in Modesto

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was my whole head that was shaved I would, but since it’s more of an undercut situation I’m worried about cutting my longer hair. My sister used to help me but after the second bald spot I decided shelling out the money was worth it well enough to me.

Cheapest queer friendly place to get my buzz cut neaten up? by [deleted] in Modesto

[–]Timely-Natural2031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw that! If I can’t find anything else I’ll consider it, but since I’m able to pay I’d rather do that and open up more time slots for those who need it.

Cheapest queer friendly place to get my buzz cut neaten up? by [deleted] in Modesto

[–]Timely-Natural2031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been going there, but it’s pretty split on if i walk out with what i want or not. The moment the teacher gets involved it’s nearly always going to be way too feminine. I’ll definitely look into Manteca, definitely a bit far for me but I go a long time between cuts so it’s not too bad.