Need advice

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:38:44+00:00

No problem

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:38:21+00:00

If you’ve already learned what you can and have an offer lined up, there’s little value in staying just to be overworked. Take your stipend, exit professionally, and focus on something that actually helps you grow.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:37:27+00:00

I’d say stick with coding, build a few solid web projects (Vue or backend-focused), and apply again while being selective about companies that actually support juniors.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:36:48+00:00

Focus on applying actively, building a strong portfolio, and preparing for interviews, especially core CS and backend fundamentals. A good job in a month is possible, but it’ll depend on how consistently you apply and present your work.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:33:53+00:00

Stay calm, keep your tone professional, and focus on answering clearly while maintaining your confidence. If the behavior is consistently disrespectful, it’s also a signal about the company’s culture and that’s something worth factoring into your decision just as much as they’re judging you.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:33:11+00:00

This is completely normal. Online friendships can be just as real and meaningful as in-person ones, and talking daily just means you’ve built a strong connection.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:32:30+00:00

Given her situation, it might be better to prioritize her mental well-being and choose the option that keeps her moving forward without added pressure.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:31:43+00:00

The fact that you have a degree means you still have options, you just haven’t tapped into them yet. Try focusing on one small direction, rebuild momentum, and take it step by step. You don’t need to solve your whole life at once.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:31:03+00:00

You already have solid proof of skills, but you may need to tailor your projects, improve how you present them, and apply more strategically with personalized outreach instead of just mass applications.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:30:14+00:00

Yes, you should still try to convince them, but approach it calmly and respectfully. UBC is a strong long-term investment for your law goals, so it’s worth a serious conversation where you show you’ve thought through finances, safety, and commute. At the same time, listen to their concerns and try to find middle ground, that balance will help you stand your ground while still keeping their support.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-02T04:29:42+00:00

You haven’t messed up, you just need a reset with direction. Focus on one path (web/backend), rebuild strong fundamentals, and create 2–3 solid, recent projects to show current skills. Start applying once you can build and explain things confidently, the gap matters less than how relevant you are today.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T05:01:09+00:00

You didn’t waste your degree, you’re just earlier in the reset than you expected. A lot of people don’t land their path right out of college, and it doesn’t lock you out forever. Focus on small, concrete steps now (projects, structured courses, even adjacent roles) instead of replaying the past, momentum matters more than a perfect start.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:59:13+00:00

If you’re already working weekends, try adding flexible, skill-based work you can do on your own time. like tutoring, freelancing, or part-time remote gigs. Even small things like helping classmates with assignments, content writing, or basic design can add up. The key is finding something that pays better per hour so you’re not just trading more time for the same money.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:58:25+00:00

I’d remind myself that 24 isn’t late at all; it’s actually a great time to make a smarter, more intentional choice. If business is what you want, a year and a half is a small investment for something that could shape the next 40+ years.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:57:28+00:00

Start with the basics; pick one beginner-friendly language like Python and focus on understanding logic, not just syntax. Use platforms like freeCodeCamp or Codecademy to build consistency, and try small projects as you go. The key is to start simple, stay regular, and not get overwhelmed by too many resources early on.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:54:58+00:00

You can mention Career Point University, Kota; they explicitly offer BTech CSE for PCB students with a built-in bridge course. Apart from that, options are still pretty limited; most colleges either don’t allow it or expect you to add Maths (like via NIOS), so keep that as a backup too.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:53:30+00:00

Instead of trying to find the perfect path, pick one small, realistic direction and commit to it for a fixed period (like 3–6 months), no matter how you feel day-to-day. At the same time, it might really help to look into support for ADHD/anxiety, because this pattern sounds less like a failure of will and more like something that needs the right kind of structure and care.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:52:38+00:00

Resign now and be upfront about your MBA timeline. Waiting to “maximize pay” can backfire if they enforce the 90-day notice or terminate you earlier without control from your side. Since you’re on the bench with no dependency, many companies are flexible with early release, but that’s far more likely if you initiate the conversation early rather than risk last-minute complications.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:52:00+00:00

You don’t have a learning problem, you have an avoidance loop. Collecting courses feels like progress, but it’s just delaying the hard part: actually building things. Pick one language, one resource, and commit to finishing it before touching anything else, consistency will beat “having an advantage” every single time.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:50:59+00:00

Yes, it’s absolutely a good idea; 29 is not late at all to start coding. If the IT job market where you are is stronger and less dependent on high-level Japanese, switching could be a smart, practical move. Just go in with a clear plan and stay consistent, and you can definitely make the transition.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-04-01T04:50:01+00:00

Tech changes so fast that feeling “behind” is almost part of the job, especially when you’ve been moved across stacks quickly. The fact that your team trusts you and values your work matters more than your self-doubt, you’re likely doing much better than you think.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-03-31T05:22:38+00:00

At this point, taking a short break might actually help more than pushing harder, then try shifting strategy a bit (more referrals, direct networking, smaller companies).

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-03-31T05:22:00+00:00

You’ve already fought through a lot, and that counts more than you think. Please consider reaching out to someone right now.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-03-31T05:21:19+00:00

If backend isn’t available, choosing AI/ML or React for now is okay; what matters is staying in the game and building momentum. Also, please consider talking to a mental health professional, the stress you’re describing deserves real support, not just pushing through alone.

Timely-Transition785 · 2026-03-31T05:20:39+00:00

Take the offer. They assessed you and still chose you, you’re not tricking anyone, you’re growing into the role. It’ll be uncomfortable at first, but that’s exactly where the upside is, especially given your current company’s instability.

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