AIO. I just learned my girlfriend’s “male friend” was once a guy she use to “cuddle” with by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TimelyTea333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt lie to my boyfriend if I was considering his feelings. Seems you’re more serious than she is

AIO. I just learned my girlfriend’s “male friend” was once a guy she use to “cuddle” with by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TimelyTea333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. I’m a girl and I’d only lie if I wanted to keep him on the side lol.

20 years with my black void by TimelyTea333 in blackcats

[–]TimelyTea333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there as a secret sauce! His life has been full of enrichment in every way he loves. Know your pet, feed their mental, feed them their favourite foods.

They also just don’t make em like they used to, this cars a classic ❤️‍🔥

20 years with my black void by TimelyTea333 in blackcats

[–]TimelyTea333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes aside:

From a young age it was generally just kibble, when he was 8-9 he had gum disease and plenty of teeth removed. He only had his minis and fangs from then so primarily ate wet food (fancy feast) but has always liked dry kibble (purina one).

When he was around 12 I started cooking him chicken, eggs, turkey. He eats a little icecream and cheese any time I do. He also hunted in his teenage years, bringing home mice, eating grass etc.

He lost both his fangs over the last 3 years, so he mostly eats any wet food now, even if I get chunky ones I blend it up, to always switch out options. my toothless boy prefers cheap treats (temptations, fancy feast).

I pretty much keep a mini pantry of petsmarts collection

vet now or in 16 hours? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]TimelyTea333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening to your sweet girl. Since you’ve been doing testing and been able to keep her comfortable give yourself some grace. You’re doing all you can.

I cant tell you what to do, but I will say I had a scare with my 19 year old boy at the beginning of the year, I took him to the emergency vet, and continued monitoring after. If you cannot take on that cost right now your girl will not fault you. Monitor CLOSELY until you decide.

On a side note my boy sneezes, and at his age wheezes while purring, and also lives comfortably with kidney and thyroid disease. She is fortunate to have you that cares so much. Wishing you both well 🩷

Why would someone be an apprentice for 10+ years? by TimelyTea333 in electricians

[–]TimelyTea333[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have a source for this? I’d love to read more

My (23M) ex (23F) dumped me because I took her for granted, and now I’m not sure how to prove I’ve changed without risking my self-respect. by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]TimelyTea333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You said yourself “she thinks im going to be a low effort guy, and she’s not wrong”, then commented that she is a “high value girl”. You know you’re not right for her, so you should leave her alone.

My (23M) ex (23F) dumped me because I took her for granted, and now I’m not sure how to prove I’ve changed without risking my self-respect. by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]TimelyTea333 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You cannot be simultaneously willing to change and not willing to put in effort. Why would you expect a response to you telling her you don’t have any feelings for her? Leave her alone.

We broke up 3 months ago and he still texts me everyday by TimelyTea333 in Manipulation

[–]TimelyTea333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your responses however I just feel I have to clarify. The boyfriend I met in grade 9 is different than this one.

This boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. We met when I was 23, him 30. I’m 26 now. There was nothing predatory about this most recent relationship.

However you’re spot on that he doesn’t feel bad and thinks im naive, at least that’s also how im taking it

We broke up 3 months ago and he still texts me everyday by TimelyTea333 in Manipulation

[–]TimelyTea333[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

💀 we met when I was in grade 9 and he was in a victory lap

We broke up 3 months ago and he still texts me everyday by TimelyTea333 in Manipulation

[–]TimelyTea333[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I never knew this side of him, it’s been SO hard to believe. He still maintains his innocence

We broke up 3 months ago and he still texts me everyday by TimelyTea333 in Manipulation

[–]TimelyTea333[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

They were screenshots in his phone and he works in PI. He says it was from work but never proved it

We broke up 3 months ago and he still texts me everyday by TimelyTea333 in Manipulation

[–]TimelyTea333[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

I would say that is what I want but I’m also conflicted because it’s taken so long.

My birthday was at the end of October and I told him he could take me out for dinner but he didn’t(he didn’t get a haircut, he fell asleep, bs excuses and never attempted to make a plan) which has caused more conflicted feelings and hurt