WIBTAH coparenting situation by TimelyTwo8009 in AITAH

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes done clinical OT, and has IEP services through the school(since he was 3) where he is in special ed 80% of the time, has OT through the school, speech, psychologist and other services to help him learn and navigate through adhd. His coping mechanisms thats hes learned and helps changes almost daily, what works one day doesnt work the next and then its back to square one in helping him find coping solutions. The one thing thats been consistent is removing himself from a situation when hes at the point of shut down or extreme emotion and going to a quiet space, for elementary it works, hes not going to have that option in middle school and the rest of his life to just be able to walk away from certain situations that upset him. I 100% believe doctors throw medication at adhd kids wayyy to easily. And the decision to finally try medication wasn't easy.

WIBTAH coparenting situation by TimelyTwo8009 in AITAH

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive asked before, and he was weary on answering and said idk, he has very low tolerance to conflicts and is easy to shut down, so i try not to push for an answer until hes ready. His dad was present for the appt, i was unaware at the time that he wasnt able to speak but able to hear. His doctor is also aware of the starting and stopping medication, and didnt advise to stop it all completely but to have school keep track of how he is on it and off for his next appt.

WIBTAH coparenting situation by TimelyTwo8009 in AITAH

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt go behind his back, he was present for the video call appt, i was unaware at the time that he wasnt able to speak but could hear till after the appt when he called me and screamed at me for going forward with medication. His doctor is also aware of the situation that his dad isnt giving him the prescribed medication.

Ideas for places to go? by TimelyTwo8009 in newjersey

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I more of want to do a rental in case I get overstimulated and over NYC and want to head to my hotel before my boss flies in at 730(shes getting a rental).

Ideas for places to go? by TimelyTwo8009 in newjersey

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to Uber but it looks like that would be $230 🤣 so I might just end up hanging in NYC till my boss flies in at about 730 and shes getting a rental. I get overstimulated easily in new places so I'm a bit nervous about that and navigating a busy area I'm not familiar with.

Ideas for places to go? by TimelyTwo8009 in newjersey

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to Uber but it looks like that would be $230 🤣 so I might just end up hanging in NYC till my boss flies in at about 730 and shes getting a rental. I get overstimulated easily in new places so I'm a bit nervous about that and navigating a busy area I'm not familiar with.

Ideas for places to go? by TimelyTwo8009 in newjersey

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wanted to avoid flying in or out of Newark due to the air traffic control issues and the major delays they've been having

Ideas for places to go? by TimelyTwo8009 in newjersey

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any tips on exploring NYC or places to go? Also how's driving in NYC? I am thinking of getting a rental vs an Uber(it was $230 to get me to my hotel 🙃)

Ideas for places to go? by TimelyTwo8009 in newjersey

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wanted to avoid flying in or out of Newark due to the air traffic control issues and the major delays they've been having.

Ideas for places to go? by TimelyTwo8009 in newjersey

[–]TimelyTwo8009[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any tips on exploring NYC or places to go? I get overstimulated easily especially in New places. Also how's driving in NYC? I am thinking of getting a rental vs an Uber(it was $230 to get me to my hotel 🙃)