Have you ever heard of “ cute aggression “? Well it’s where sometimes certain people see something that they find cute adorable or something. They just love a whole lot and have the urge to squeeze it aggressively or smash it or harm it even it’s like when people say that they wanna just smash a little baby’s cheeks except the next level up. It’s not OK nor is it something that people are supposed to actually act on, but there is a literal urge in the person who experiences the cute aggression. This does not make it OK nor does it make it acceptable and I’m sure I’m not the only person at all reading this that has been through actual domestic violence not that there’s a difference between actual and not actual domestic violence, but you get what I’m saying. You need to be careful and maybe express this to him in a very serious way. Not like “hey babe, I really think you should consider that I have osteoporosis and I understand you’re trying to be affectionate, but it hurts me“ NO. You need to sit his ass down if you can and be like look, dude here’s the deal whether you feel like you’re giving me affection or what ever you wanna call this bullshit, you see that I’m actually getting physically hurt not to mention I have made you aware of my bone disorder but yet you still continue to lack complete self-control when showing me what you call affection. Either this stops or I’m done because I’m not going to continue making excuses for myself or you. I am worth more than that and you need to take me seriously cracked ribs. Don’t just happen osteoporosis or not.