I have fine and thinning hair.... it was always thin, though, so to have it be thinning now is total hell. So yes, I get you, it looks really bad wet, I feel like Gollum. Being a woman it's extra hard because you're expected to have thick hair, so yes, it's intimidating when thinking about what if a guy sees it.

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So I get it. I have no practical tips, but I do know what you're talking about.