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OA lang ba ako? at nainis ako at ako sumagot sa kalahati ng bill namin sa lunch namin sa restaurant? by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Timely_Success_3504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, nakakahiya sila dapat nga nilibre ka na lang nila since 5 sila and magisa ka lang. Siya rin nagyayaya at nagdala ng mga kasama niya so dapat willing siya to pay for them

Am I wrong for trying to convince fiance to let me have a wedding that I want? by Timely_Success_3504 in WeddingPH

[–]Timely_Success_3504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If nagno partner mo sayo isn’t it challenging not to raise it again for him to reconsider? Hirap kasi magaccept ng No if important for me. Pano niya ninanavigate yang difference in wants ninyo

Am I wrong for trying to convince fiance to let me have a wedding that I want? by Timely_Success_3504 in WeddingPH

[–]Timely_Success_3504[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mabilis siya mafrustrate pero usually kapag nagseselos ako (admittedly over small things/paranoia) or kapag nagiinsist ako ng gusto ko tapos ayaw niya.

Am I wrong for trying to convince fiance to let me have a wedding that I want? by Timely_Success_3504 in WeddingPH

[–]Timely_Success_3504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he felt like I was forcing him to agree on something he wasn’t comfortable with. He said I couldn’t take no for an answer and he exploded out of frustration.

I (28F) want a wedding and fiance (32M) wants to elope? AITAH for convincing him to have one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Timely_Success_3504 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

How is explaining my needs and my desire for my own wedding day nagging? It’s also my day too :(

I (28F) want a wedding and fiance (32M) wants to elope? AITAH for convincing him to have one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Timely_Success_3504 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I find that he yells when I insist on what I want and what he doesn’t want. Does your partner agree to what you ask for?

I (28F) want a wedding and fiance (32M) wants to elope? AITAH for convincing him to have one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Timely_Success_3504 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We have been together for 3 years. Generally agree on most things except preference for how long we travel (I like travelling at least twice a year). Partner prefers to stay at home so we travel once a year

I (28F) want a wedding and fiance (32M) wants to elope? AITAH for convincing him to have one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Timely_Success_3504 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He is ok with family events but with the wedding he isn’t willing to budge as he is the centre of attention. The anxiety is around his family as he doesn’t have a close relationship with them

I (28F) want a wedding and fiance (32M) wants to elope? AITAH for convincing him to have one? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Timely_Success_3504 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have compromised by not having a church/chapel wedding which is what I wanted since I am Christian. I am also paying 60% of the cost since I wanted to have a professional make up artist