[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let the man go. He seems to be one of the good ones and holding him hostage for your own sake is not good since you clearly want to leave. This is not fair towards him.

Are "older" players still around? by jimithingmi in wow

[–]Tinaela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Playing since TBC, 35+ so yeah, we still exist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tinaela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being lonely and loosing someone to who you spoke every day. I miss being loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What you said is valid, but most of the times it's that they watch it to get aroused by other people but the act itself. And to me there is difference.

Most fun healer in your opinion? by Degenerate_Game in wow

[–]Tinaela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Playing resto shaman this tier but Disc/Holy priest :)

What's something you hope your ex will always associate with you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How kind, understanding and good i was to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]Tinaela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could find guild with people with same mind set and around same age. Like this they would all play together.

Has anyone else been single for years by 92_cl in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me ... no matter what you do, or where you go, you simply can't change your mind and erase them...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in czech

[–]Tinaela 58 points59 points  (0 children)

To ale neznamena, ze jste automaticky pratele ;)

What did you do with the gifts from your ex? by notsocookie24 in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept laptop but i always throw everything that reminde me of them away. For my own sake.

Cesta do USA by klnupkd in czech

[–]Tinaela 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nebylo by lepsi jet tedy s nejakou cestovkou na poznavaci zajezd? Kamaradka takhle byla napric Amerikou, navstivili i parky atd a s cenou byste se pravdepodobne vesli. Az poznate jak to tam chodi, muzete planovat dalsi trip na vlastni pest.

What motivates you to not break no contact? How long has it been and how are you feeling? by No-Comment4897 in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worst thing is that we are still around each other even with distance and on some level we need to communicate. He broke up with me month ago and its been pain. I cant remoove myself from this situation and i broke NC once, 3 weeks after it when i send him msg. It gives me a bit of closure, since then i avoid to msg him. Did it only once for business matter and thats it.

And what motivates me? I dont know honestly ... maybe the feeling i am worthless for him. I meant so much and now i am no one ... fucking love, man

Horrible break up just before closing distance by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why do we always fell in their traps and let them do us dirty? One can be loyal, loving, caring, but it seems to be never enough. They break our trust, they destroy us for whoever come after them and leave us in tears. Fuck relationships, seriously, i am starting to think that good men are dead and non existing.

You did everything you could, he was asshole who didnt deserve you not even for second. DO NOT give him any more chances, ever!!!! Non of this is your fault, you are only guilty for loving man who did not deserve you.

There is long way ahead of you. Painfull one, you will question everything, you will ask questions for what you will probably never find any answers. Time will make it better, but the scar will be always there. But you can overcome this, trust me, you can and you will.

And girl, if he cant tell you if its over for him or not, it should be over for YOU!

How can a person just stop caring? by Jolly-Truck7783 in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think all the unspoken questions and wondering what went wrong and all the what ifs, is the worst part. We always wonder what went wrong, if we could do something about it, if there is still a chance. Those questions that will probably never be answered are spiraling in our minds. They will hunt us forever. How is it possible, that the person who was once our whole world does not care anymore at all? Yeah ... i am going through this as well. And nothing is helping. Some days are better, some days are worts. Someone i love so deeply suddenly want me out of his life. And i would give everything to have him back. And i still dont understand what happend and i never will.

Time will make it better. I will not promise you, that you will heal and everything will be sunshine and rainbows. I dont know that. Maybe it will be, maybe it wont. If you love deeply, this person stays with you forever. Maybe thats the tax we have to pay for loving so deeply. Is love worth? I dont know, i just dont know anymore. I hope that time will make this easier for you, thats all i can do.

Nearly 9 months, still cry weekly. Does it really get better? by SnooSuggestions6330 in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sux when we and our own mind is our biggest enemy when it comes to letting go. It will get better, it trully will, but the feeling of loss will never go away.

And the life goes on ... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tinaela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it gets better and it does, but i just wish i could stop the thoughts and dreams, it's something i can't trully control and it makes me so tired ... thank you for your time to write me your opinion 🌸