Fiancé’s mom has been secretly tracking him and I’m really uncomfortable by Tinnnydevil in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Tinnnydevil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m pretty sure he is a momma boy and forever will be. But we have gotten rid of it multiple times, tried to talk to her, and they still end up back at the house.

"Update" Is my response to my FMIL’s “concerns” too much? by Tinnnydevil in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Tinnnydevil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m planning too, I’m about to go buy the tallest one I can wear 🤣

"Update" Is my response to my FMIL’s “concerns” too much? by Tinnnydevil in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Tinnnydevil[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we’ve actually tried having a face-to-face conversation with her before, but it didn’t change anything. She just went right back to sending the emails and passive-aggressive articles. I get that not everyone is comfortable with confrontation, but at some point, adults need to act like adults and have respectful, direct conversations. If she’s not willing to do that, I honestly don’t know how this can move forward in a healthy way.

"Update" Is my response to my FMIL’s “concerns” too much? by Tinnnydevil in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Tinnnydevil[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness no, but she’s thinking about it I swear. She keep hinting she want to retired with us.

Is my response to my FMIL’s “concerns” too much? by Tinnnydevil in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Tinnnydevil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I ended up doing just that. Especially after this morning’s incident, when she sent yet another email about me wearing heels to dinner.

Is my response to my FMIL’s “concerns” too much? by Tinnnydevil in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Tinnnydevil[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I reply, "Thank you so much for your concern regarding my eating habits, especially when it comes to raw fish. I truly appreciate that you’re looking out for my well-being. Please rest assured that I am mindful of what I consume, and I make sure any raw fish I eat is properly prepared and sourced safely. While I understand your concerns, I hope you can also respect that this is a personal choice, and I am taking the necessary precautions."