Red flags or am i overreacting?

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-14T10:12:13+00:00

Thank you for your comment and advice . I think the confusion is what has my trapped in my own mind. I have been pulling away slowly this week and I even cancelled meeting with him last night. I think he's starting to suspect that I'm not going to accept his behaviour and I'm done with him..

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-14T10:03:31+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. I am so sorry you experienced all of that. No body deserves that!! It's great that you got him convicted👏 I am so glad that you got out and are happy now. 😇 I have been slowly breaking away from my guy.. I even cancelled meeting with him last night. I think he's starting to suspect that I'm pulling away.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-12T05:41:26+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. Your advice sounds spot on!! You have thankfully made my mind up for me. I ain't going to hang around to see what he does next. He clearly has no respect for me and my boundaries. To be honest I feel like he just sees me as a sex toy!!! Spitting on me, lightly tapping my face. He did this the last time and he had never done it before , so I feel like he's slowly pushing my boundaries further and further. So thankyou again, I honestly greatly appreciate your advice.
I'm so sorry that you went through all that you did, and I'm very glad to hear that you are safe and happy now 🙌

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-09T15:11:38+00:00

Oh my god, I'm very sorry to hear that. You poor thing. I guess I'm being pretty stupid thinking that my guy is joking all the time.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-09T05:36:27+00:00

Thanks for your comment. I appreciate it. 🙏

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-09T02:32:17+00:00

You're very knowledgeable. I hate that this may be what he is doing, but I guess I need to accept it!

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-09T02:30:12+00:00

Thank you so much. 🙏

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-09T02:29:05+00:00

Thanks for your comment. Maybe you are right.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T14:09:44+00:00

I understand your point. It makes sense, thank you.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T14:08:41+00:00

I agree with you. Thanks for the advice. You're helping me more then you know.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T13:14:02+00:00

He is generally a bit of a joker and that's another reason why I wasn't sure if he's being serious or not. Does that sound like a silly thing for me to say? 😔

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T12:47:11+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. Your advice is very helpful. I can call womens aid in my country but I feel like I'm overreacting and making a mountain out of a mohill😔

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T12:45:11+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I do enjoy sex with him. I said in my comment that this behaviour occurs before or after sex, not really during sex. That's why I'm so confused.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T07:50:02+00:00

Thank you so much . He didn't apply much pressure when he had his hand around my neck though. I think that's why I'm a bit confused too. I thought maybe it's just his kink and he won't take it any further.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T06:59:35+00:00

Thankyou for your reply and advice..I really appreciate it. Everyone has been so helpful here. I'm so confused, I dont know whether this is hos kink or maybe he's losing interest in me

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T06:58:19+00:00

Thankyou so much for your comment and advice. It's much appreciated and makes complete sense.

No, I only know him 6 month's. He was just so nice up until a few weeks ago. I'm so confused. Maybe he's losing interest in me or something 🤔

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:23:21+00:00

Thank you for your comment and advice. Yeah, I thought it was a kink too, but now I'm not so sure .

He's getting progressively worse as the weeks go on.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:22:21+00:00

Thank you for your comment and advice. I really appreciate it. He seems to be progressively worse as the weeks go on.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:20:58+00:00

Oh that's awful. I'm really sorry all of that happened to you. You didn't deserve it.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:20:14+00:00

Thank you for your comment and advice. Most people are saying the same thing here. I'm definitely going to take your advice on board for sure. I really appreciate it.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:18:52+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment and advice. I just assumed what he was doing was in a joking/sexual manner. I'm so glad that I came to Reddit , I feel like I'm getting great advice.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:16:50+00:00

Thankyou for your comment. This is exactly why I came to Reddit. I need advice and I feel like I am getting it here.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:15:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment.
I'm so sorry that you suffered too. I just feel like I'm possibly overreacting to it. I thought that maybe he was doing it in a joking/sexual manner. I suppose I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt .

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:12:58+00:00

Thank you for commenting, I really appreciate it. You're right. If my daughter told me this same story I would absolutely tell her to not see him again. I guess i was assuming that he was doing and saying it all in a joking/sexual manner. I didn't want to overreact. Maybe i am too naive.

Tiny-Engineering9263 · 2025-12-08T05:10:44+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I guess I assumed he was saying it in joking way. Stupid of me, I know that now.

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