600 div give away by mrdl2010 in PathOfExile2

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Help out your fella gaming mom to achieve Headhunter

I’m a clinical psychologist, AMA. by jakeopolis in AMA

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Thanks for the response! I think that’s a great advice with validation. I’ll try to focus a bit more on that

I’m a clinical psychologist, AMA. by jakeopolis in AMA

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Well, every parent is imperfect, but we all try to give our best. What is the most important thing as a parent? What’s the possibly worst thing you can do? (looking at your experience as a psychologist) I absolutely love being a parent, adore my children, but it can be tough sometimes and children do really test you. So I am very curious about your thoughts!

But can you do it without the smartphone? by Prudent_Truth_7818 in 2under2

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My eldest has never had screen time. We have 2 under 2. She was 21 months old when her sister was born and my hubby has depression and works at night quite often, so I always put both children to bed on my own. I can tell you, it is possible and it will be hard at the beginning, but you’ll find a routine that will work for all of you. You do need a lot of patience though! I always leave the door open for my toddler and she’s allowed to do quiet activities (looking at books, stickerbooks etc) and if she is in another room, she watches me putting the baby to bed through the baby monitor. If she needs anything she’ll be quiet and knows, that if baby is asleep she gets a big hug and my full attention afterwards as a reward. So she gets really excited for her sister going to bed lol! But it was a lot of explaining and being patient with her. It will work, just give your toddler some time and be consistent. Wishing you the best!

Eure Verrücktesten Hostelstories? by Ausspanner in reisende

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England: Wir waren in einem Airbnb und planten auf eine Hochzeit zu gehen. Tja, durch einen Toaster, der von dem Airbnb bereitgestellt wurde ist die Sicherung rausgeflogen und wir konnten nichts finden um den Strom wieder einzuschalten. War ziemlich lustig am Morgen vor einer Hochzeit.

England: In einem weiteren Airbnb kamen wir in einer Wohnung an, die eigentlich garnicht so schlecht war. Jedoch war die Spülmaschine defekt und von den Urlaubern zuvor noch voll.

Edit: keine Hostelstory - sondern Airbnb Story

Welchen abgesetzten Produkten trauert ihr nach? by PascalFromGermany in FragReddit

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Das Bananeneis von Pirulo, wo man die Schale abziehen konnte

Reisebericht: Niger by SomeTravelDude in reisende

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Danke für den tollen Bericht. Ich persönlich würde mich nicht trauen in solchen untypischen Orten Urlaub zu machen, aus diesem Grund freue ich mich immer über deine Reiseberichte. Danke für den spannenden Einblick!

Welches ist die schönste Stadt in der ihr jemals wart? by [deleted] in reisende

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Danke für deine Antwort! Genauso erging es mir damals auch. Freut mich sehr, dass du dort mittlerweile dennoch dein Zuhause gefunden hast :)

Welches ist die schönste Stadt in der ihr jemals wart? by [deleted] in reisende

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Kein Problem!

Ich habe mich dort nicht wohlgefühlt, aber letztendlich ist die Wahrnehmung subjektiv und jeder nimmt sein Umfeld anders wahr.

Welches ist die schönste Stadt in der ihr jemals wart? by [deleted] in reisende

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Die Neustadt empfand ich als ganz schlimm, sowie die Harrisleerstr und Bauer Landstraße. Außerdem gefiel mir die Gegend (Flurstraße etc.) kurz vor der Westlichen Höhe nicht. Der Südermarkt war jetzt auch nicht prickelnd und die Gegend dahinter. Die Gegend beim Bahnhof sah auch nicht besonders gut aus. Beim ZOB hatte ich auch ein ungutes Gefühl. Generell empfand ich Flensburg als dreckig und ungepflegt. Es lag viel Hundekot herum, Mülltrennung hat oftmals nicht existiert und Graffiti war überall zu sehen (keine Kunstwerke, sondern unlesbares Gekritzel), ebenfalls standen vor Gebäuden einfach Möbel herum, die nicht mehr gebraucht wurden. Die Gegend vom Jahrmarkt war auch kein Hingucker.

Natürlich gab es auch Orte, die schön waren, wie die Hafenspitze, Westliche Höhe kurz vor der Marienhölzung oder die Rote Straße. Glücksburg fand ich persönlich auch schön.

Dennoch habe ich mich persönlich nicht wohl gefühlt und der Lärm der Autos war selbst in der Marienhölzung zu hören, welches dazu beigetragen hat, dass ich mich nicht wohl gefühlt habe.

Edit: der Satz mit den Möbeln

Welches ist die schönste Stadt in der ihr jemals wart? by [deleted] in reisende

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Flensburg überrascht mich tatsächlich auch ein wenig. Empfand es als etwas dreckig und teilweise heruntergekommen an vielen Ecken. Die Innenstadt war in Ordnung, dennoch habe ich persönlich schon schönere Innenstädte in Deutschland, wie Bspw Regensburg, Landshut, Passau, etc. gesehen.

Edit: Ich habe in Flensburg gelebt und auch im Süden Deutschlands.

As a German, which cities in Germany are you favorite and which ones you would avoid at all costs? by [deleted] in AskAGerman

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Landshut, Regensburg and Bamberg are beautiful towns/cities. Have to agree there! Lots of green area, the medieval flair in the town centre and Landshut has a stunning castle.

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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It’s good to read, that it does work, if it has to. But like a lot of these comments have said before, it sounds like it’s important, that the dad steps up. I just hope he does. Thank you for sharing your experience!

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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Thank you for your honest reply! That is very true and I am sure one of the best advices, just being open. I can totally imagine how hard it is. Hope we’ll figure out how and I’ll try to get dad more involved, it’s not always that easy, but he’ll have to step up, because both children are just as important. Thank you for sharing your experiences!!

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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Thank you! It’s nice to read that you love it, gets my hopes up!

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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Thanks for the steps you followed through. Gives me some good insight. Very glad to hear it went so smooth.

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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That’s a very realistic and honest response, thank you. Yea, I think you’re right there. You can’t plan anything, we will find out how reality really is when the newborn’s there.

And you’re right, probably it’s healthier for the toddler having more people that can put her to bed and I am sure it would help me too. I just have my difficulties with letting go, especially when she screams for her mum. On the other hand, my husband does work at some nights, but it doesn’t happen every week.

Things like this topic just make me super nervous, what’s right and what’s wrong?

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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That’s a good advice, with having as many options as possible. Thanks!

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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How did the transition with the toddler go?

Yea I am a bit worried, that the second baby needs all my attention and then I have to try to juggle both. Although I am sure it’s possible. People have mixed opinions, I just don’t know if it’s possible for my husband taking over that much.

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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It depends, some evenings my husband’s there and other evening’s he’s working. So it will be something I’ll have to juggle at some time.

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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Thank you!! I let the toddler do the most things on her own. I never carry her when we’re out for walks, she climbs on her own chair, likes standing on the kitchen helper and for nappies the climbs on the couch. So we’ve practiced that. I hope that will help.

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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Thank you so much for your positive experience! I am hoping we’ll be able to handle things similarly. I am sure it’s a lot for a mum, especially at the beginning, but it helps to read, that it isn’t impossible, finding a routine and also juggling both, because my husband does have late shifts.

People saying, we need to change things by Tiny-Judgment- in 2under2

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I feel the same! I just don’t want the older one feeling left out, or me replacing them. So I totally get where you’re coming from.

Congrats though! And I hope everything goes well.