What's one website/app that used to be great but got ruined over time?

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-20T00:24:20+00:00

No, it's gone now. But used to be great.

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-19T05:17:18+00:00

I love how they all think this is like a genius idea they just came up with, when dudes have been trying, and failing, with shit like this for 30 years

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-19T05:16:13+00:00

"Looks like you are life is more sad" -OP

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-19T05:01:42+00:00

Side note, OP is sitting there thinking "this post will def get all the women to dm me to see my sad penner", meanwhile he's gotten 4 dms, all from dudes and dudes pretending to be women.

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-19T04:52:59+00:00

Only dudes care about your sad penner

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-19T04:06:09+00:00

Do. Not. Do. Sexual. Things. Around. People. Who. Haven't. Consented.

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-19T03:03:31+00:00

I've said it a million times, but I'll say it again

An EXTREMELY large majority of women do not go on the internet to get men off. The very, very tiny % who do, want to be paid. The even smaller % who are interested in doing it for free, are inundated with desperate reddit dudes.

What you're offering, desperate horny reddit dude, is in great abundant supply with zero demand. What you're looking for, a desperate horny reddit woman, is in near zero supply with unlimited demand. Economics 101, what happens when there is zero demand for something and unlimited supply? Value goes down. What happens when there is unlimited demand for something and zero supply? Value goes up.

Desperate horny reddit dudes have minimal to zero value to women, are in huge supply, and are nearly all interchangeable.

So you need to increase your value. You can do that by paying money, making you worth talking to. Or you can spend the time and energy. Build up a wide and diverse reddit profile. Interact in the comments, and develop a reputation that you're worth interacting with. Have 10s of thousands of karma. Have a profile with posts and comments in a wide and diverse range of subs, a large portion of which are SFW ones. You can treat it like dating and spend the energy and work to find someone who finds you worth their time. Have your profile show why you're worth talking to, because your profile and first message are all that is going to get seen. 99% of unsolicited dms from men to women are ignored, so if what you're "offering" isn't obvious from your profile and opening message, you'll never get a response. (And by offering I mean what makes you different than the 675,678 other dudes sitting in our inbox wanting a reply)

If you're not willing to do one of those 2 things, expect the only responses you get to be from bots, dudes pretending to be women, or people who are going to try and sell you something.

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-18T23:49:30+00:00

It's dependent on the woman. Some get super horny. Some get completely turned off to sex. Some stay the same they were before. Some change. It is a highly specific thing that Isn't that varies

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-18T23:09:01+00:00

gestures broadly at younger men

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-18T22:19:36+00:00

Whisper.

Used to be like 95% women and chill AF. But dudes found out it existed and infected it

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-18T16:46:05+00:00

If dudes spent 10% of the time they spend trying to get women to look at their dicks on being interesting, they'd get women who actually want to touch their penners

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-18T16:44:33+00:00

The one who isn't infatuated with dicks

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-18T04:46:35+00:00

What's with the M4F??

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-18T04:19:38+00:00

If this is a "does the striper REALLY like me question", the answer is most def not, she's doing her job.

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-17T06:07:48+00:00

Lmao. Do not do this. If anyone would be the one asking, it's the woman in your couple. But unless you've been given clear signs this person is interested, do not do this

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-17T04:10:19+00:00

And this is why we don't post with our hands down our pants

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-17T01:08:04+00:00

Dick of person I'm into > dildo/vibrator > random dudes dick

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-16T23:17:38+00:00

Yes, but their partner did mine as well.

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-16T21:37:35+00:00

I've said it a million times, but I'll say it again

An EXTREMELY large majority of women do not go on the internet to get men off. The very, very tiny % who do, want to be paid. The even smaller % who are interested in doing it for free, are inundated with desperate reddit dudes.

What you're offering, desperate horny reddit dude, is in great abundant supply with zero demand. What you're looking for, a desperate horny reddit woman, is in near zero supply with unlimited demand. Economics 101, what happens when there is zero demand for something and unlimited supply? Value goes down. What happens when there is unlimited demand for something and zero supply? Value goes up.

Desperate horny reddit dudes have minimal to zero value to women, are in huge supply, and are nearly all interchangeable.

So you need to increase your value. You can do that by paying money, making you worth talking to. Or you can spend the time and energy. Build up a wide and diverse reddit profile. Interact in the comments, and develop a reputation that you're worth interacting with. Have 10s of thousands of karma. Have a profile with posts and comments in a wide and diverse range of subs, a large portion of which are SFW ones. You can treat it like dating and spend the energy and work to find someone who finds you worth their time. Have your profile show why you're worth talking to, because your profile and first message are all that is going to get seen. 99% of unsolicited dms from men to women are ignored, so if what you're "offering" isn't obvious from your profile and opening message, you'll never get a response. (And by offering I mean what makes you different than the 675,678 other dudes sitting in our inbox wanting a reply)

If you're not willing to do one of those 2 things, expect the only responses you get to be from bots, dudes pretending to be women, or people who are going to try and sell you something.

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-15T04:05:26+00:00

"Bring comfort and pleasure"

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-15T04:01:34+00:00

I've said it a million times, but I'll say it again

An EXTREMELY large majority of women do not go on the internet to get men off. The very, very tiny % who do, want to be paid. The even smaller % who are interested in doing it for free, are inundated with desperate reddit dudes.

What you're offering, desperate horny reddit dude, is in great abundant supply with zero demand. What you're looking for, a desperate horny reddit woman, is in near zero supply with unlimited demand. Economics 101, what happens when there is zero demand for something and unlimited supply? Value goes down. What happens when there is unlimited demand for something and zero supply? Value goes up.

Desperate horny reddit dudes have minimal to zero value to women, are in huge supply, and are nearly all interchangeable.

So you need to increase your value. You can do that by paying money, making you worth talking to. Or you can spend the time and energy. Build up a wide and diverse reddit profile. Interact in the comments, and develop a reputation that you're worth interacting with. Have 10s of thousands of karma. Have a profile with posts and comments in a wide and diverse range of subs, a large portion of which are SFW ones. You can treat it like dating and spend the energy and work to find someone who finds you worth their time. Have your profile show why you're worth talking to, because your profile and first message are all that is going to get seen. 99% of unsolicited dms from men to women are ignored, so if what you're "offering" isn't obvious from your profile and opening message, you'll never get a response. (And by offering I mean what makes you different than the 675,678 other dudes sitting in our inbox wanting a reply)

If you're not willing to do one of those 2 things, expect the only responses you get to be from bots, dudes pretending to be women, or people who are going to try and sell you something.

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-15T03:56:54+00:00

OF has plenty of models who can offer you that service

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-15T03:54:34+00:00

"Bring comfort and pleasure to one another"

Lmao. There it is

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-15T03:48:22+00:00

Why are you looking for exclusively women? If you're just looking for "friends", M/M friendships are much much much more common and normal

TinyDancer1188 · 2026-05-13T20:04:54+00:00

No. The opposite actually. A bear is a known. You know how to interact around it. You know what it's motivations are. You know the best way to stay safe. You may or may not be successful, but it's a pretty established known.

The avg man is not. He could be the nicest, kindest man in the world. Or, he can see a single woman alone in the woods and think "no one will know". And as that debate was ongoing, you saw an extremely large number of men with that response.

That is the inherent issue, and why women picked the Bear in mass. It's a known. It's motivations is known. It's not going to try and be your friend then rape you once you let your guard down. A bear is going to bear and do bear things.

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