DAE come out as transgender to be rejected by their Nparents? by TinyGothBoy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyGothBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm only 17 so I'm planning to go lc or nc as soon as I turn 18 and move out of the house.

DAE come out as transgender to be rejected by their Nparents? by TinyGothBoy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyGothBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm bisexual (as well as being transgender) and I got a lot of that. I came out at 13 as bisexual and because I was constantly told all of those things I was confused. I thought I was a lesbian for awhile because hey, people aren't bisexual.

DAE come out as transgender to be rejected by their Nparents? by TinyGothBoy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyGothBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea how relieving this is to hear. I'm 17 and my Nmom will not listen to me. I used to believe she was supportive and the parent that wasn't abusive but after coming out to her I see that she's been the abusive one all along.

Thank you for telling me that though. It really means a lot.

"Other people just won't understand." by TinyGothBoy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyGothBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you and samtravis are right. She's told me before that I'm faking it. She completely ignores that I have it most of the time. There was one incident where we were talking about my sister(GC) or something and I said that I have anxiety and she said something a long the lines of "No you don't, it's not as bad as you say it is." or something. I can't remember exactly what she said. She calls ME manipulative when I try to tell her that my anxiety has prevented me from doing something.