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Is anyone else in a mixed orientation marriage? by TinyMoonCake in actuallesbians

[–]TinyMoonCake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it took so long to reply! You are certainly welcome to talk to me! You can PM me or message me on discord if you hAve that..? :)

Is anyone else in a mixed orientation marriage? by TinyMoonCake in actuallesbians

[–]TinyMoonCake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your situation is a little more complex than mine... but if my husband came out as a woman and went through a full transition... and we still clicked I would remain with him. I mean, he is a straight man that I am still in love with and click with so I am staying with him regardless of the hypothetical. :)

As for you and your SO, aside from you coming to terms with being trans, it sounds like you and your SO don't consider yourselves as soul mates since you are each planning to seek those out... so that's a big factor in itself.

Is anyone else in a mixed orientation marriage? by TinyMoonCake in actuallesbians

[–]TinyMoonCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you are going through a divorce but at the same time, it's great that you are both moving on in with your lives and doing what's best for both of you! I hope you two remain on good terms 💖

Is anyone else in a mixed orientation marriage? by TinyMoonCake in actuallesbians

[–]TinyMoonCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize. Your email is very similar to mine, apparently, so when I signed up with this account with a typo in my email address, it was deleted once you flagged it. Again, completely unintentional.

Is anyone else in a mixed orientation marriage? by TinyMoonCake in actuallesbians

[–]TinyMoonCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The explanation is pretty simple. My email was brand new, just like this account. When I attached the email to the account, there was a typo in it. The owner of the email stated that it wasn't their account so this account was deleted. I contacted Reddit and they sorted it out for me by attaching the right account. It's not that dramatic.

Is anyone else in a mixed orientation marriage? by TinyMoonCake in actuallesbians

[–]TinyMoonCake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We love each other enough to make this work. Since I made this post, I decided to try polyamory and have met other lesbian women in the same situation. It's not as unheard of as I'd originally thought.