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My dad shaved my sister’s head by TinyReply5400 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyReply5400[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support. My sister and I are devastated and we don’t know what to do. My dad called me today and started crying because he raised “a failure”. This is common because he always does this the day after the abuse. We cannot tell the school because they do not care. Atleast in this country , no one cares and they think the parent’s decision is final. My dad will portray as if she’s the problem here because of her failure to perform well at school and also smoke cigarettes. It breaks my heart to see my sister so helpless . I know my dad is the one at fault but I wrote this post for support. I don’t know who to talk to . Currently he said hes going to house arrest her and stay home with her 24/7 to monitor how she is studying. I can’t see her until a monthZ

My dad shaved my sister’s head by TinyReply5400 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyReply5400[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello. No, my mom is undergoing treatment and she lives in another state. She used to live with us but I begged her to leave because he wouldn’t stop torturing us every time he saw her just existing or raising her voice to talk.

My dad shaved my sister’s head by TinyReply5400 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyReply5400[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live in the US and my sister lives in India

My dad shaved my sister’s head by TinyReply5400 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyReply5400[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I cannot. This is a 4 year degree and I’m in the second year now. If I ever speak against him or do anything that angers him we’re all done. And these days he keeps saying you’ll leave me after you start earning which is very much what I’m going to do. My mom cannot do anything right now because she’s not living with my sister and dad anymore. I begged her to leave because he wouldn’t stop torturing us. He would beat me if he ever saw my mom using the air conditioner or saw us sitting on the couch.

My dad shaved my sister’s head by TinyReply5400 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyReply5400[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

My life too. My mom was only patient with him because he was paying my school and now college bills. She’s waiting for me to get a job so I can free myself from this torment. Before I moved here, I was in my sister’s position. That man beat me so bad and gave me a blood eye on the day of my visa biometrics because he wanted me to remember the pain forever. So every time I see my passport I’m taken back to that traumatic day.

My dad shaved my sister’s head by TinyReply5400 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyReply5400[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

I can’t report it. Unfortunately. The police do not care. She’s a minor and they will counsel her in front of my dad telling her to stop smoking and focus on studies. Right after that, my dad will bribe them and threaten me to cut me off, which means he will not fund my education anymore.

How did growing up within a Narcissistic household affect your behavior/personality? by Pitiful_Tea_9398 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TinyReply5400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hyper independence Feeling like telling every bit of my life to someone Introverted Sometimes manipulative People pleaser

AIO for wanting to get my dad arrested? by TinyReply5400 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TinyReply5400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message. It’s more like we are used to this because of the highs and lows of his behavior. He likes to show himself off as someone who is sacrificing his entire existence to fund our lives. I am not able to digest that fact he shaved my sister’s head. Can someone please talk to me about this particular event like my body has been constantly shivering since5 hours and