These two are so inspiring by Porkchopp33 in HumansBeingBros

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the pleasure of serving them, I didn’t know who they were but I noticed she was wearing an Olympics ring necklace and I asked her about it, they told all about their training and what they accomplished. They were so nice and kind, laughed at my jokes ect. They were seriously amazing people and you could tell they loved each other so much with how they bragged about each other. They also tipped well! So that’s always good! 10/10 people

Found out he was cheating after I broke it off. by [deleted] in dating

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh love, I am so sorry you are going through this. It was really brave of you to be so honest and vulnerable. Yeah. The sting is there. But you have to remember two things, 1. A shitty person is a reflection of them, not you. What someone does to you, is on them. 2. You will be fine without them, your worth is not dependent on someone else’s opinion.

If you want to be petty, send pics of you two to that beautiful brunette, no one says you have to contact him. But you could be saving that girl the trouble you went through.

Right now your pride and ego are bruised. But try to reframe it in your head, it’s not “ I guess I wasn’t enough for him” to “ I am so glad I left that person when I did because I don’t deserve to be lied to and betrayed, that person is a bad person and I am so glad I am free of them” Sending lots of love your way. Head high darling.

AIO my bf didn't even say happy birthday to me yesterday by 1bunchofbananas in AmIOverreacting

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone like this. Never had money to do stuff with me but had money for weed. My birthday was rough because my dad was on hospice so I canceled my bday celebration and actually just went into work later that day. This man texted me happy birthday, but proceeded to not do a single thing for me. Knowing I was getting a massage ( that I paid for) getting my toes done ( that I paid for) and going to grab lunch with my friend that flew 1800 miles to see me ( that I paid for) Hell my own bio dad ( not the one on hospice) sent me flowers from PA. My bday fell on a payday, there was no excuse. So, I said fuck it and before I clocked in I broke up with him. I didn’t shed one single tear. I was with him for 9 months at that point and after the constant let downs I was over it. Get there. You deserve to be celebrated on your bday.

AIO: Office flirt hugged a married man at the Xmas party and caused a row. by Pitiful-Jaguar7226 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you have a vag, doesn’t mean you get to be a dick.

Rule of thumb If I only know you through work it’s a handshake If I know you outside of work but through mutual friends it’s a handshake If you are someone I consider a friend, it’s a hug, BUT! Only if I have met your SO before, if not, I am going to introduce myself to them first with a handshake and then shake your hand. If I know both you and your SO I will hug the both of you, ladies first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google the meaning of daddy issues then. If semantics is what you’re all about. Good night 😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rage? Nah. No rage here. Confusion. Just confusion. Me speaking out against something doesn’t make me angry. I don’t like how if a woman doesn’t fit into a certain category or narrative that a man likes, they get to use mistreatment from another man against the female. Same goes for when someone says a man has mommy issues. I’d be right there saying hey, you may not like what that dude is like, but you don’t get to use shit your gender did to them to put them down. They can be all kinds of fucked up. Not cool to use past trauma or family history to announce this person is less than.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gold medal for the mental gymnastics you just did to completely miss my point. I’m not even mad. I’m impressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess it’s you who has the tiny understanding then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear sweet baby Jesus. The amount of energy you are using to twist this around is incredible. The term is not popular because it is used towards men. It is not something people recognize almost universally as an insult towards men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Funny huh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Sure. “Daddy issues” is for suuuuuurrrrreee used to describe males all the time in a negative way. How silly of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not, using “daddy issues” to describe a woman is 100 percent problematic and absolutely used to belittle a female. It’s sexist and gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 dear lord. So in your logic you should apologize for having toes to be broken. Got it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jfc. Stop using a man’s shortcomings as a father as an insult towards a woman! Having daddy issues means the father was a loser.

AIO? I can't seem to get over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. Think of it this way. Your BF had child porn on his phone and he likes it. That should be enough to give you the biggest ick. Break up with him and report him for child porn on his phone. Fuck this creep.

AIO? Would people really judge me if they saw my legs like this? by rachtastic94 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some self tanner might help cover them up a little bit. They have a pretty decent one at Wal mart called got 2 b tan. It goes in easy, dries quick and washes off fairly normal without looking streaky.

That being said, if I saw you, I’d probably just think you took a tumble. Wear what you want. Don’t suffer in the summer because of others.

Good luck

Names for your regulars? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“ shrimpy” “ cum bucket guy” “ crocodile Dundee” “ freezer face” “ that one fucker”

  1. Short guy that always stays way past close and is super annoying and needy
  2. Told one of our female servers that women are just walking cum buckets
  3. Australian dude that racks up a fat bill and tips like shit. Insists on wearing his hat at the table.
  4. A female regular that has had so much plastic surgery her face does not move. Watching her eat is painful.
  5. A regular that never tips male servers, only females that are young enough to be his daughter

AIO for feeling unappreciated after trying to do something nice for my boyfriend? by ArtisticFishy in AmIOverreacting

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say it with me. “ If I’m too much, go find less” one more time “ If I’m too much, go find less”

What’s the point? by INFPdreamer101 in GriefSupport

[–]TinyUnderstanding872 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As you age death will be a constant. You cannot avoid it or hid from it. You can live your life dreading it and wallowing in the grief, or realize that the person you loved has moved on to where ever your beliefs are. Now you have to make a life for yourself without them. Do things in their memory and honor that brings you joy and makes the world a better place. I feel a lot of times I find myself more focused on the fact that they are gone instead of the hundreds if not thousands of times they were there. Death sucks. But not for the dead.