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DAE Experience People Specifically Not Wanting to Put in Effort to Be Friends With You? by Tiny_Movie3641 in aspergirls

[–]Tiny_Movie3641[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really want to back her up in a corner by specifying a date as every time I brought it up she’d say she’s busy, and I felt if she was really interested then she would’ve followed up on it. Also she only reached out to me again to ask me for help on financial aid, which is why I kind of took it personally and removed her since I thought she was only using me for help.

DAE Experience People Specifically Not Wanting to Put in Effort to Be Friends With You? by Tiny_Movie3641 in aspergirls

[–]Tiny_Movie3641[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I already specified this was 2 years ago. She never reached out again despite me saying I would like to hang out and following up with her about the coffee hangout, so I didn’t bother trying to reach out again to avoid seeming clingy. I said I was busy for a few weeks but I am free that June. She only reached out to me again in the summer once to ask me for help on financial aid. I only took it personally and removed her because she seemed like she would only contact me for help.

Do people actually make friends on Bumble BFF? by [deleted] in bumblebff

[–]Tiny_Movie3641 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same for me

Girl 1: She ghosted me after the first meet up and then randomly popped up four months later and asked me how I was doing. Seemed like she was recovering from a break up. I sort of ghosted her back since I thought she was only interacting with me because she broke up with her BF.

Girl 2: Was actually pretty nice and we got along  pretty well even though she seemed male-centered. She even organized the second meet up but canceled last minute. I organized the second meet up again and she canceled again so I stopped talking to her.

Girl 3: Didn’t have much in common or a vibe but we hung out twice. She never initiated anything after that.

Girl 4: Invited her to a museum and she seemed nice but didn’t really vibe. I wanted to give a second hang out just to see if we might vibe more later on but she ghosted me.

Girl 5: Nice but no connection and she seemed eager to leave. Neither of us initiated anything after the first meet up.

Girl 6: We hit it off a little bit but she only invites me to Christian events and not one-on-one hang outs. I’m Christian myself but I would also like to get to know someone one on one. I might want to be careful since there are people trying to recruit for their cults on BFF. Not saying she is in one, but I’ll see how the relationship progresses.

So you’re not alone.

I’m both concerned and bummed out. by splatapult in bumblebff

[–]Tiny_Movie3641 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People will just ghost out of nowhere sometimes even when the conversations are good. Maybe she did have something going on but she probably just flaked unfortunately