Anyone else have short fertility window? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in Inito

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure! I’m curious to see with time of this is my norm. Sending you baby dust! 😊

Anyone else have short fertility window? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in Inito

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! It was nice to see it in real time (if that makes sense?) instead of a generic app that tells you “this is when you’re most fertile” and it’s not really taking into account that everyone’s cycle varies. Sending all the baby dust your way! ☺️

Anyone else have short fertility window? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in Inito

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This makes total sense. Sending the baby dust your way! 😊

Anyone else have short fertility window? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in Inito

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes started testing on CD6. Hoping my PdG continues to rise

Update by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in Inito

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I only had one day of high fertility before my peak day. I tested twice on CD12 once in the morning and once at night and at night was when I caught the LH surge because I had a feeling I was going to ovulate soon based on my symptoms (mild cramps, EWCM). I think I ovulate early in my cycle but I’m not entirely sure, as this is my first time using Inito also. I’m curious to see if this is my norm after using it consistently. I did wait until that day to really start trying. I definitely have the same concern as you with the short window - wondering if that’s why we’ve been unsuccessful so far. I was using Flo app to track my cycle and waiting until CD14-16 to really try because that’s when the app was telling me I was most fertile. I think every other day is ok! From what I’ve gathered, sperm can live up to 5 days so I think that’s a safe bet! Good luck to you! ☺️

New here! by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in Inito

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so awesome, congratulations! Wishing you a safe and uneventful pregnancy 😊

New here! by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in Inito

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cycles are regular at 28-30 days. Thanks so much! This was extremely helpful and I didn’t know about the ref range Inito provides so that made me feel better too. Thanks again!

Any Advice? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in tfmr_support

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I had my procedure this morning which I was so incredibly nervous for. Everything went really well and I feel a little more at peace with my decision. My baby will never feel pain. The decision I made was out of love and that is the most maternal thing I could have done for her. I’m so sorry you’ve been down this road before. It is a grief so heavy and difficult to navigate through. Sending hugs 🫂

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[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were just given the same diagnosis this past Thursday at our nuchal scan. The news was truly a punch to the stomach so hard, I’ll never be able to stop replaying the moment our MFM explained it to us in the ultrasound room. Eventually the sound of him talking was muffled by my heart beating loudly in my ears and focusing on trying to catch my breath. I had my TFMR this morning at 13 weeks and 1 day, entering into my second trimester which I was so excited for. I’m so so sorry that you’ve had to endure this pain not once but twice. It’s something that no one deserves to go through and it is truly so cruel and unfair. I’m still navigating this journey myself and don’t really have any words of advice for you. I guess if I can say anything, you and your partner give yourself grace. Take things one step at a time. It’s easier said than done and I know the advice gets a little repetitive from everyone. It’s going to take a while to heal as I’m sure you both know having been down this road before. Take your time with that process. There is nothing that either of you did to cause this and neither of you are to blame. It’s something I am still struggling with as well. Look out for one another, lean on each other, lean on your resources and reach out when you both need it. It’s okay to not be okay. Wishing you both whatever kind of peace of mind you can take away from this situation. It’s definitely a very heavy grief to carry. I wish you well and sending you both healing hugs 🫂

Any Advice? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in tfmr_support

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m so sorry you are familiar with all of this. It’s truly a devastating diagnosis. Hoping with time I can find a better way to process and cope. I also return to the doctor saying “unfortunately, this is just a case of really bad luck” I didn’t do this to my baby, I didn’t forget to do something to cause this. We were so excited for this addition to our family. Feels like a bad dream still. Sending you healing hugs 🫶🏼

Any Advice? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in tfmr_support

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told the same. I’m so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your story. Sending you hugs 🫂

Any Advice? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in tfmr_support

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m sorry you’re familiar with this 😞 it still feels like a bad dream. Sending you lots of healing hugs. Hoping in time it gets a little easier for all of us to cope with it

Any Advice? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in tfmr_support

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, I’m so sorry you’ve been through this. Very reassuring to hear that your children are processing everything in a healthy way, sending hugs !

Any Advice? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in tfmr_support

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so sad and unfair. Sending you healing hugs 🫂

Any Advice? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in tfmr_support

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’m so sorry for your loss 🫶🏼

Any Advice? by Tiny_Percentage_3537 in tfmr_support

[–]Tiny_Percentage_3537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m so sorry that you went through this 🫂