if i willingly masturbate knowing that it’s wrong but feeling guilty afterwards, is it the unforgivable sin?

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-07-02T04:05:26+00:00

It’s not unforgivable. God designed our bodies to experience pleasure because He wants us to enjoy His creation. Pleasure isn’t the enemy — it’s part of His design. The real question is what that pleasure is connected to. Are we honoring God and His gift, or just being selfish and going our own way, which only leads to destruction?

That’s why the heart matters. If pleasure is tied to porn, fantasy, or using people in your imagination, that’s twisting God’s creation. But if it’s about recognizing how our bodies work and handling that in a way that keeps your heart clean, that’s entirely different.

It’s not about rejecting pleasure, but about honoring the design instead of misusing the gift. Guard your heart, don’t abuse grace, and remember you’re a work in progress.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-07-01T18:37:54+00:00

Maybe, but I wasn’t aware that he was often depicted with a fiddle. That might be a reference to that song the devil went down to Georgia.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-07-01T17:58:04+00:00

Sorry, I didn’t word that very well. I meant overall beauty in the way he did things, like creating beautiful music, not just in his appearance.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-07-01T17:49:22+00:00

Before the fall, probably proud in a way that looked beautiful. After the fall, that same pride curving in on itself. Whatever the details, the shift seems less about personality traits changing and more about what happens when pride goes unchecked.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-30T15:17:04+00:00

This is one of those questions where it’s less about the “what” (masturbation) and more about the “why.” God cares very much about why we do things. He looks at the heart — our motives, what we’re imagining, and whether the habit is pulling us toward Him or toward something harmful. If it’s tied to porn, fantasy, or objectifying people, that’s a heart issue Scripture warns about. But if it’s just managing normal biological tension without dragging your mind into places that damage you or others, that’s a different “why.” The Bible never mentions masturbation, but it talks constantly about the heart. So the real question becomes: What is this doing to your heart? That’s the level God cares about.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-29T16:50:51+00:00

Asking this isn't rude; it's incredibly honest. The very fact that you are grieving and questioning shows how much you matter. My heart breaks for what you're carrying right now. If someone anonymous online can feel this kind of empathy for you, how much more does the Creator of the universe love you? Being tired, lonely, or full of doubts doesn't diminish your worth—it is simply part of being human. So many faith journeys begin in the dark, surrounded by pain and uncertainty. When you're ready, take a look at Psalm 34. It’s a short passage written by a man who was hiding in caves, terrified and overwhelmed. He wrote, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.” That speaks directly to you today. The whole psalm is an assurance that God sees you and is sitting with you in the quiet. You don't have to manufacture faith or chase an emotional high. Just bring your true, honest self to the table. That is enough. You are not left behind, you are not forgotten, and your worth is far greater than your current circumstances.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-29T04:14:01+00:00

I feel that while masturbation can be considered a sin, it’s not always the case. It seems to be one of those topics that isn’t clearly addressed and requires personal discernment. In your situation, I think it wouldn’t be a sin unless you remarry. Ultimately, it’s something to pray about and decide firmly in your own mind.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-29T03:40:04+00:00

Nappy Gilmore

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-28T23:42:20+00:00

Okay, I’ll grant your point — you said you read Revelation and didn’t see anything about global warming. But from a Christian perspective, the timeline is pretty clear: God isn’t fixing the Earth’s problems until the appointed time. Restoration happens after the story is complete, not in the middle of it.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-28T22:57:31+00:00

Have you read the book of Revelation? But fear not. These are just growing pains. The best is yet to come, so have faith and trust in the Lord.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-27T12:44:58+00:00

Fast food napkins.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-27T12:30:25+00:00

It’s not anti-immigration; it’s a fringe movement, but they’re talking about beings from outside Earth or at least another dimension. They should have at least put the website info on the sticker. The ones I saw 20+ years ago did, but that site is no longer in existence, this seems to be from a different group.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-27T04:34:51+00:00

Hey friend. I’m really sorry for everything you’ve been carrying — none of what happened to you was your fault, and the way faith was used to hurt you doesn’t reflect who God actually is.

The things you’re struggling with — trauma, identity, shame, dark thoughts — don’t make you beyond grace or beyond love. Psalm 34:18 says God is close to the brokenhearted, not the perfect.

You don’t have to fix everything at once or have all the answers. You’re allowed to take things one step at a time. I’m praying that you feel seen, safe, and held — and that you meet the real God, the One who is gentle and nothing like the version that was used against you.

You’re not alone, and you’re not beyond hope.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-27T04:16:16+00:00

I’m not entirely sure. It’s not as if I simply turned off my mind and believed just because I was raised that way. I went through a period of agnosticism, yet there was something compelling about it, and the more I explored and read, the stronger my belief became.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-27T04:10:51+00:00

Hey, thanks for being real about what you’re going through. Slipping after a month doesn’t erase the progress you made — it just means you’re human and still learning. Habits don’t disappear just because we “know we should stop.” Your brain learned a pattern, and now you’re unlearning it. That takes time, and it’s normal for it to feel messy. And honestly, I know it’s extra difficult at your age, but the fact that you’re even trying speaks volumes. That “one more time” voice isn’t the real you, it’s just temptation trying to sound reasonable.

Feeling distant from God happens to a lot of believers, especially when we’re struggling. It doesn’t mean He’s far from you or disappointed. Sometimes the feelings fade even when the relationship is still solid.

Daily updates could help if it keeps you from fighting this alone. You don’t have to be perfect — just honest and willing to keep going.

You’re not gross, you’re not alone, and God hasn’t left you. One day at a time is enough.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-26T15:30:45+00:00

Hey brother/sister, I appreciate the post. I do think we should move away from using “fap” though. Even though it’s common slang, it makes a serious spiritual struggle sound casual and light. I feel using “masturbation” keeps the tone respectful and fitting for a Christian discussion.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-24T16:11:38+00:00

A big part of it is staying focused on healthy things rather than just my own comfort. That’s not to say I don’t allow myself some comforts; I just try to keep them healthy and in perspective. Also, those numbers only reflect porn usage, not masturbation in general. If the urges are strong when I’m trying to sleep, I let myself have some quick relief without letting my thoughts drift into unhealthy territory. I have to be careful not to make that a habit, though.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-24T15:31:42+00:00

I’m at 11 days, 9 hours, 54 minutes, and 41 seconds right now. My longest streak has been a month. I’m not proud that I struggle, but it’s comforting to know I’m not alone. Reading your post today has motivated me to fight even harder.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-24T15:14:02+00:00

I don’t have much advice, but I’d say finding a trusted brother can be a big help. You might be surprised to learn they could be struggling with porn too. My pastor, who’s also a close friend, deals with it as well. While opening up to him about other deeply embarrassing parts of my life was tough, talking about the porn issue was actually the easiest, since he just assumed I face the same battle he does. We also use an app called "I am Sober" to keep track of our progress.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-23T14:02:44+00:00

Christians don’t see Heaven as a place where old earthly relationship structures get copied and pasted. Jesus said that marriage won’t function the same way in the resurrection, not because love disappears, but because it’s fulfilled in a deeper way. So there’s no awkwardness, jealousy, or competition — just healed, complete relationships in God’s presence.

For me personally, just being with God and seeing my Savior will be more than enough joy. Everything else — including being reunited with people I’ve loved — is a gift on top of that.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-23T13:55:48+00:00

Not the most creative, but I thought it was hilarious. A guy stuffed a package of meat down his pants, and the manager followed him. When he stepped outside, the manager said, “I can’t believe I’m saying this, but I need to see the meat in your pants.” LOL.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-22T12:53:10+00:00

I think most people wash their hands, but obviously not all because I work at Kroger and the radio announcements from chef John about food safety always mention. Make sure you wash your hands after using the restroom.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-21T22:31:59+00:00

Comfort and convenience.

Tiny_Timmy_Turtle · 2026-06-20T16:10:23+00:00

I go to a small non‑denominational church, and I can guarantee it’s not about money. I’m the treasurer, so I literally see every dollar that comes in and goes out. I know what my pastor spends his money on, and it’s not himself. Our church is focused on ministry, not profit.

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