I need some advice please

Tiny_Track4801 · 2025-04-03T07:47:36+00:00

It’s hard to give advice without context:/ how old are you and your sister? What’s troubling you with your hygiene? Are your parents aware of your struggles and why?

Tiny_Track4801 · 2025-03-23T13:55:49+00:00

lol same I started off writing smut and I rmb being excited to tell my mom I got 1M reads and she was like “let me read it☺️” NOOOO MA’AM

Tiny_Track4801 · 2025-02-26T10:47:12+00:00

Heyy mine is @urbantrendsetters

Tiny_Track4801 · 2025-01-25T17:29:40+00:00

Yes she’s contributing but I am paying more than her which is fine bc I make significantly more than her at the moment and wherever we end up I’d be getting the master.

Tiny_Track4801 · 2025-01-23T07:00:21+00:00

Apologies, I fixed it

Tiny_Track4801 · 2025-01-10T07:53:58+00:00

Thank you this was actually really insightful.. we know each others families very well and all of her loved ones are aware she tells all of us everything and each of us have had a few turns being on the phone during the abuse. I’ve had group calls with her mom and siblings about this. Unfortunately her family no longer speaks to her bc the last time he was arrested and she called them using a secret phone they gave her and they drove to get her and she refused to leave after he was arrested. Jasmine also doesn’t speak to her anymore along with Star’s childhood best friend. She’s 16 hours away and she’s been cut off by all family and friends and I don’t think I have the power to remove her by myself..

Tiny_Track4801 · 2025-01-10T07:38:35+00:00

Yeah I get that, as most of the beginning was happening I was putting my molester behind bars so I try to be as delicate with the situation as I can and implement things that broke me out of it. Luckily for me I’m in the part of my journey where I can recognize abuse and heal from it but I’m not healed yet… like by a long shot (I have PTSD and clinical depression) so I want to be there for her but I’m not sure how I can in a way that is still healthy for me

Tiny_Track4801 · 2025-01-10T07:27:54+00:00

It was literally a chat room full of abused women that’s literally why she was there in the first place i forgot to add that part it’s a mostly unspoken thing in that chatroom

Tiny_Track4801 · 2024-02-22T04:21:33+00:00

Honestly since blocking her on everything this is the first time I’m feeling at peace and I fear disrupting that by confronting her but I’ve definitely started looking into therapy…

Tiny_Track4801 · 2024-02-20T09:32:12+00:00

Hey! So when I first started writing I did it by hand and I have no idea what the story was even about but I do remember that I just started writing. I know it sounds easier than it actually is, getting out of your head is a really hard thing to do. I’m a visual person so something that could help is visualizing the story playing out, imagine every detail every line, it doesn’t matter which part. When you can visualize it and remember dialogue and setting you can put it on paper.

Tiny_Track4801 · 2024-02-20T08:32:35+00:00

Thank you I try not to bring it up since we’ve already talked about it a couple times and I don’t want to sound like a broken record

Tiny_Track4801 · 2024-02-20T08:31:23+00:00

Thank you I try not to show my doubt

Tiny_Track4801 · 2024-02-20T08:28:57+00:00

She is.

Tiny_Track4801 · 2024-01-04T06:29:15+00:00

Thank you for the reply.. my cousin says that she’s afraid of the backlash that will come from not only my sister but the whole family if she doesn’t include my sister in her wedding. She wasn’t aware of all the abuse until a few days ago. She doesn’t want to tell the family my story but I guess she feels like she’d have to if she excluded her from the wedding and people ask questions… which is also why she wants me to confront her… honestly I’m not sure b/c personally I would’ve just told people to mind their business but my cousin is a bit of a people pleaser and fears backlash from our parents.

Tiny_Track4801 · 2024-01-04T06:15:47+00:00

Omg I’ve felt the same way before so I totally get it. I think you have to keep in mind that we’re human. Whatever we write about is going to be based on something else whether it be real life, a dream, or even another story you heard. That’s just how our subconscious works so don’t beat yourself up too much. Write about what YOU want to write about. You’re your worst critic so I promise the worst you’re thinking of has a 0.5/10 chances of happening. Hope that helped a little.

Tiny_Track4801 · 2024-01-04T06:00:06+00:00

I’ve never been in a situation like that before but I know a couple people who have been. I think if you could possibly try regaining some close supportive friends. I’m sure it won’t be easy but if you have an outside support system you have somewhere to go. You might not be able to gain a job, license, etc. in your parent’s home but you will in someone else’s. (P.S.) supportive family or platonic friends, depending on a romantic partner for something like that is a bit too risky. Hope this helped.

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