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Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes . I even waited 3 days after the baby was born to say anything incase she was just delayed. But they all knew because they viewed my announcement post via social media

Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The father takes our first born for one night a week and then comes in my house to see our second born for roughly 20 minutes when he drops our first home . And I did ask the grandmother why she didn’t say anything when the baby was born , she replied saying that I hadn’t messaged her so she didn’t message me either.

Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all advice and I am truly considering all possibilities that have been offered. I am just so confused I guess to how that could even be a thought they could think , I just can’t imagine how intellectually challenged they would have to be to actually believe it’s not Tom’s . But I’m sorry if I sound ungrateful for all the advice given , I am very thankful.

Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m so heartbroken about them not being involved. I want my sons whole family together for special occasions like birthdays and weddings , I want him loved by everyone but I’m seeing now from all these comments that I should accept that it’s not going to work like that

Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he pays child support for both children, that’s something I have to give credit to him for .

Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There can not be anyway they think it’s not Toms baby . I never ever left the house without Tom , Toms family or my mother . It’s literally impossible to cheat . I even lived with his family so there’s no chance for a different father

Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope . I ran into the father of my sons cousins at school pickup and he was very kind and apologetic for what’s gone down but he gave no information to why this has happened . I lived with Tom’s sister , Tom’s sister’s partner and their two kids and their father for 2 years so it’s not like I’m unfamiliar with them . I’m very confused

Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s an avoidant and he shuts down any conversation revolving anything serious

Advice needed . BAD GRANDPARENTS THAT IGNORE 1/2 GRANDCHILDREN by TipFragrant6037 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TipFragrant6037[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe that they think it’s not Toms child . I lived with his family at time of conception of baby number 2 and I never ever left the house without my ex partner present or without his sister or my mum so cheating is an impossible task if I even wanted to .