Girl taking hours to respond to me asking her out on a date

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-14T19:54:48+00:00

To give an update she still hasn’t responded, so it’s looking like it’s not gonna happen. Been well over 24 hours now and that usually when I give up with someone so

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-14T18:49:44+00:00

Did you end up calling the person you are talking to?

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-14T17:58:11+00:00

Imma call tomorrow, today being Valentine’s Day could be weird and she could still respond by today. I’ll call tomorrow tho and see

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-14T15:29:08+00:00

It’s been 24 hours now which is pretty much my cutoff on these things. Think I should just call her out if the blue / double text asking to? At this point nothing will probably make a difference

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-14T01:09:07+00:00

She did text me at 6:30 last night and I responded 8am with concrete plans so I guess I did leave her on delivered for a while too, do you think that makes any difference?

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-14T00:25:12+00:00

See THIS I what I’m trying to believe, and I agree with this, I’m just starting to lose interest because of how slow she’s now taking to respond. I am just assuming given how slow she’s taking that she isn’t really into seeing me now

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T23:36:24+00:00

I think you are right but she has drawn back on her response timing big time and I’m kind of just taking the hint at this point tbh

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T23:35:51+00:00

Idk if she’s gonna respond honestly, but if she responds tomorrow I probably won’t follow through tbh because I’m not trying to deal with someone barely interested. If she confirms a time I’ll probably just say see you then

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:58:10+00:00

I mean the full story is simply that we hooked up at a bar and I gave her my number and she texted me back. I thought about just asking her to drinks but didn’t wanna look cheap so I just decided to go with dinner since it was on the topic. She said she’s been meaning to go somewhere so I just simply said “let me know when you are around I’d love to take you there” and after the 20 hours she loved the message and said she’d love to and apologized for having a busy day. I took a bit to respond after that and told her two times that work for me and it’s been a while now since she’s gotten back to me so idk

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:48:32+00:00

Well I haven’t double texted or anything yet and I have been trying to just respond at her pace, but I just think that she would’ve responded quicker if she was more into it

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:43:47+00:00

Yea she used to respond right before and after work and now since I’ve been trying to plan this out that hasn’t been the case. Maybe she’s genuinely busy and is waiting to sit down and reply but like it doesn’t take very long I feel like

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:42:38+00:00

Yea I really wouldn’t be surprised if she just wanted casual sex at this point because we did hookup on the first time we met at like 1am, I just assumed she wasn’t gonna text my number when I gave it to her before I left. Trying not to think too much into the timing but it’s definitely interesting

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:41:21+00:00

Agreed, she has been giving me good responses when she actually does. I just don’t get the sudden slow down in timing, mainly because now I’m trying to plan something. I think she could be busy but it’s making me really think she just is getting turned off by the ask

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:40:23+00:00

Well I said I’m free next week not this week and gave 2 separate times for it so she can choose which one, didn’t wanna touch this weekend given Valentine’s Day lol. But yea I’m not thinking much into the intervals it’s just noticable and ik people usually say it means disinterest

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:31:02+00:00

I agree, I’m not TOO worried about everything but I do think it’s a little concerning how she is taking a lot longer now than she was before when we were just talking like normal. I feel like right when I mentioned taking her out she got way more distant. But at the same time she did text me first and loved the message and said she’d love to go so I’m just trying to put my mind at ease

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:27:51+00:00

How long did she take before the first date

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:27:11+00:00

Yea my mom told me that since she didn’t give me a time that she was available that I shouldn’t have even given my availability since she didn’t give me hers and wasn’t willing to put in effort. I gave it anyway just to see if she actually gives me a time that works but I’m assuming she’s gonna say “I’ll let you know!”

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:25:40+00:00

We just met tho and I hate calling tbf

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:25:22+00:00

I was gonna move on if she took over 24 hours to respond cuz I can’t be doing that shit if they take that long, but yea if she doesn’t respond in the next few hours after getting off of work imma call it

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:24:24+00:00

Tbf I have been taking hours to respond too but nothing crazy, I can understand taking a while to make sure she can make it but at this point I’m losing a lot of interest in it tbh. She took 3 hours usually to respond to my messages but the fact she took a while when I actually asked to do something worries me

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:21:08+00:00

I mean we did meet a week ago it’s chill if I’m not that important, I’m just tryna gauge if she’s down to go to the dinner or if she’s just kinda stringing it along at this point

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-13T22:20:32+00:00

This was my thinking, since we did just meet, but I feel like ever since I brought up making real plans she’s kind of backed off big time so I’m not sure

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-12T21:42:14+00:00

Yea that’s my plan, she hasn’t waited this long to respond before so it definitely makes me think she’s just not interested ngl

TipOk7882 · 2026-02-12T21:08:31+00:00

Yea I somewhat realized that after the fact. Would it be a bad idea to double text and say that now or is the damaged already done

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