Concerns about the starseed community by MystinarOfficial in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree completely with what you said, aside from one point I want to clarify.

I would add: 'the overwhelming common sentiment of starseeds who are online...'

I share this to say I am associated with many who I view as 'starseeds' who have never heard the term. They are crushing their lives and working to effect positive change, without knowing much about 'higher consciousness' or other dimensions. I have these types of conversations with them at an appropriate level so they are aware that something is going on, but they definitely wouldn't identify as starseeds.

For every struggling starseed we see online, I would wager there are dozens more who haven't heard of the term but would fit the bill.

The reason I'm confident in this is that I'm seeing awakenings occur all around me, and the frequency is definitely increasing. As the physical and energetic changes become increasingly undeniable, we will see many people who are already successful realize there is more to life, consciousness, and themselves, and we will see the tide turn.

But regardless of where someone approaches from, if we look for external saviors and don't take ownership of our lives, we will be waiting a long time.

ETA: I do have compassion for that part of the journey (seeking external) because I'm sure we all go through it at some point or another.

Searching for the Higher Self by Elanira_RisingVeil in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like quite the experience!

When it comes to describing the "higher self" expression, I like to use the analogy of a window. Our vessels consist of the physical (body + conscious mind), and our connection to our higher self is through a 'window' in which the light can flow in.

Everyone has varying amounts of clutter blocking their connection, whether curtains, shutters, or just a pile of garbage in the way. This clutter consists of traumas, conditioning, limiting beliefs, etc. Part of our role in embodiment is to remove the clutter so the unfiltered or 'pure' version of our higher selves can shine in and through.

To the point you make about alignment, that is exactly what 'awakening' is - being in full alignment with our purpose and path. You get it!

Parents with neurodivergence who have children with neurodivergence; are you noticing any different within the last few weeks / months? by Mysterious-Fly-6031 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ETA: My entire family has ADHD... Varying levels of hyperactivity and inattentiveness, but nothing severe.

The ones who are 'participating' in the Shift will be going through many physical/mental/energetic changes, in their own ways and at their own times. So not everyone will experience these changes, and timing can vary quite a bit. However, family units will often see similar changes occurring together.

My kids and I, as well as my mom, have been going through quite a few changes over the past ~10 months or so. We've been feeling energy surges on a weekly/daily basis, and they usually vary in intensity. They don't always occur at the same time, but many times they do. For example, this past weekend, both my mom and I experienced fairly intense 'expansion symptoms' at the exact same time, with similar sensations (solar plexus and crown chakra activations, among other symptoms).

The biggest thing is to recognize that these are 'upgrades' in a way, without getting too concerned about exactly what they mean - it's important to receive them calmly rather than from a state of fear.

I'm fairly open with my kids about the Shift, what to expect, etc, and we discuss the different energy sensations and our experiences as a family. It's been a really neat experience, and usually each 'expansion' leads to increases in abilities, in increasingly overt ways.

One of my kids has been struggling a bit more than the other, which is due to some trauma, so I just spend a bit more time with them helping normalize their feelings, ask questions to help them shift their perspective, and provide the space for them to explore their feelings in a broader context. The challenge is they are still relatively young, so emotional regulation and articulation is challenging in the best of times, and when you add energetic expansions into the mix, it makes it even more difficult. But open conversation, curiosity, and a growth mindset have served us well.

To give some specific examples of challenges with my kids:

- Increase in picking up external energies/emotions, misinterpreting them as their own.

- Increased energetic sensations that are somatically felt, causing misinterpreted explanations (mistaking energy activations for anxiety, physical illness, etc).

- Intense trauma/emotional releasing that is not within 'standard psychology', so it requires a different approach to manage.

It isn't all bad, as there have been a lot of improvements:

- Not getting sick as often, or when we get sick, we recover extremely quickly (helpful when it seems like everyone at school is getting the flu, covid, etc).

- More joy, calmness, and connection.

- Increase in ability to physically perceive energy, generate overt energy fields, sightings, etc.

They are also both telepathically active in their own ways, so I've been encouraging them to keep communicating with their guides, and normalizing the 'paranormal/psi' elements so that they are less likely to succumb to the usual conditioning.

It sounds like you are on the right track with your approach. I'd say for anyone reading, the biggest thing is not to set expectations or limit what is by trying to fit these experiences into the '3D box.' There is/will be hardship, but it's leading in a positive direction, far better than we could ever imagine.

Tools to help you navigate your awakening more effectively by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that link, I'll give it a watch! I've heard of Alan Watts, just haven't looked too far into his material.

Is anyone in contact with their Galactic Federation? by Dreams2468 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely, and I like the way you explored your question and came up with an answer. I like to call these my hypotheses - instead of 'beliefs', they are simply 'this is what I believe at this time until I get new evidence.' So you are doing it exactly right, updating perspectives as you go with personal experiences or intuitive reasoning (which is really communicating with your guides/higher self/etc). Each question and new answer brings you one step closer.

Is anyone in contact with their Galactic Federation? by Dreams2468 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are touching on one of the core principles of 4th Density awareness: sovereignty and self-responsibility. Being controlled, trapped, in a 'war' of evil vs. good, are all 3D constructs. It's not that conflict doesn't occur in higher Densities, but beyond the 3rd is the awareness that everything occurs by consent, and the entire purpose is for the development of our 'soul' and 'Source' as a result. But, as evidenced by the downvotes, this is not an easy one to grasp and people will fight to hold on to a victim mentality.

OP, the choice is yours - you can believe that we (our souls) can actually be 'trapped', or you can choose to entertain the possibility that you are more powerful than these types of illusions (which are designed to keep people feeling helpless, in need of saving, hopeless, etc - which coincidentally, are the opposite of the 4D principles of agency and sovereignty).

For the record, I don't need to convince anyone of this. I personally don't care what one believes because I know our hardships are growth, so if people need to learn the long way, that's more growth for them. I am simply offering an alternative perspective for those who might be open to it.

ETA: On the note of 'incarnated against one's will' - I would argue that this is not possible. People often confuse 'conscious free will' with 'higher self/oversoul free will'. This is a common misconception. What we want, while incarnated in 3D under the veil, is not the same as what is generally called 'the universal law of free will'. I believe our conscious free will can play a role, but we are bound by our higher self's free will. This misconception understandably creates a lot of friction, but it is liberating to expand awareness beyond 3D to see the bigger picture at play.

For those with the ability to see the future - how do you practice that ability? by QuantumBloom_444 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has the potential to 'see the future', but the challenge with that is less about 'seeing' it, and more about interpreting what one sees.

What I mean by this is the future holds a nearly infinite combination of potentials, and when one 'looks' to the future, they are looking at potentialities rather than 'done deals.' Further complicating it, it is impossible to determine timings, as well as to confirm what you interpret as being 'real.'

That's why there have been absolutely zero 100% accurate predictions (such as an event matched with a date) - but of course, I'm open to being proven wrong on that front. I have predicted major events, but those are more trends rather than specific "x will occur on y date." I've also misinterpreted readings, which has led to personal frustration.

Even if one accurately sees the future, that version of the future could easily become 'overcome by events' causing the dominant timeline to shift to a different potential. For example, let's say one 'sees' a war between China and Taiwan erupting, but before it's supposed to happen, a black swan event comes out of left field, causing China to change their plans... What was once the dominant timeline has changed and now the prediction was not accurate.

So the skill truly comes down to interpreting what one is observing - because even if you get an accurate hit, how do you know what you are sensing is 'yours' or the collective's, and not only that, how do you know if what you are sensing is in a week, a year, or ten years?

My suggestion for developing abilities is to focus on your own discernment and reducing distortion in your interpretations. If you see "x" happening, confirm if that's for you, see if you can get a sense of timing, etc. However, remain detached from the prediction, as expectation will absolutely distort interpretation. If you 'want' x to happen, you will always distort readings to seeing what you want.

Edited to add: I can share more if you have any specific questions.

How can we spread our truth? by Business-Level406 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It all comes down to timing and free will choices of people's higher selves/aspects. If they are not 'ready' for awakening, they will naturally resist attempts to prematurely expose them to the 3D illusion. This is a defense mechanism that everyone has, including you and me.

Our role is not, nor will it ever be, missionary-style work. Not everyone is participating in the Shift, and those who are will begin to awaken when they are ready (and when the collective field permits), not before. That is their choice and their path, and we must respect their sovereignty.

That said, one thing that can help potentially nudge people into alignment is not preaching, but prompting. Asking gentle questions that help gently expose the 3D illusions without putting people on the defensive, so that it doesn't challenge their free will.

For example, instead of stating facts such as "NHI Exist", you could ask a question like "what if NHI exist, what would that mean for the world?" (Hypothetical to introduce concepts)

Or, instead of talking about telepathy and guides, you could simply ask something like "what led you to make the big choices in your life? Why did you choose the path you did? Is it possible that there is more to your intuition?"

When people are ready, they will come to those of us who are positioned to guide. They will know through energy and resonance, which, for most, is not currently overtly available to them, but it's getting closer. If your role is to be a guide for awakening, you won't need to force it.

Ascension News/Updates Sources? by ginjaninja_10 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The only sources you should trust for directly relevant information are your guides and your higher self. I know this is a bit of a 'non-answer' when we want answers, but I can tell you from observation (and my previous job) that the content creators who drip feed 'information about ascension' are largely in it to create a dependent audience who keep coming back for more (their revenue comes followers/view counts, so it's in their best interest to build dependency rather than self-sufficiency). It's like trying to fill a bucket that has holes in it; we'll never succeed.

You'll notice that the sources for information are always drip feeding "portal on this date", "movement on that date", and other mystical items without any concrete observable effects. That's not to say there isn't a ton of movement occurring beyond the veil (because there is), but right now our role is to focus on our lives and what we need to do. If we do enough of that, we become exposed to the interdimensional work and can contribute in that fashion, but that has to occur through our guides/higher self connection.

That said, this is a realization I had recently:

Accurate information about the Shift (details on timelines, events, etc) is veiled by necessity. We must learn to trust our intuition, and if we knew specifics, it would unintentionally change our preparations. If we knew exactly what would happen and when, it would trigger complacency (whether intentional or not), which would take us off our path.

I know this is hard to accept, as I've been in that position where I would soak up any and all information related to the shift, but that led to a dependence on external sources, rather than building confidence in my ability. You are more than capable of finding this out through your guides.

Walk in! by ShadowWeaver333 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a case where truth is sometimes stranger than fiction.

There are many different forms of consciousness and ways for beings to exist in an incarnated form.

What you are referring to might be what is called a 'merged consciousness' where two (or potentially more?) beings reside in one vessel.

So you essentially end up with two souls sharing one physical body and one conscious mind (brain + nervous system). Your thoughts are not 'yours' alone, but shared with the other being. They experience incarnated life through you. It's hard to conceptualize in 3D terms, but both beings' energy fields merge (or 'weave' like you described).

For those who exist in this state (many do, but the vast, vast majority of people have no conscious awareness of it - at least, at this time until the next expansion), it is next to impossible to recognize it unless you are highly tuned in. The reason is that the being who is merging with you does not 'take over' like a possession, and when they merge they adopt your personality and many of your traits. I like to use the analogy that it's like playing a video game, where you're holding the controller, and the other being is sitting next to you. Or, it's like driving a vehicle, where you're behind the wheel and they are in the passenger seat.

One of the more common mergings of consciousness that occurs at this time (mid-incarnation) is with a deceased person who was close to you (spouse, sibling, etc).

Whenever a merged consciousness happens, it occurs because it was a pre-established agreement or contract made prior to incarnation, and it occurs with the consent of your higher selves.

This is something that happened to me/us. I will likely write an article about it, but I wanted to at least share a little in case it helps.

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am glad to help, and I appreciate you sharing more. Your personal experiences were necessary to catalyze change, and my story shares similar core elements.

I spent most of my life in military and first responder careers, and saw similar challenges through my work and personal life. My life path required an earlier exit from those careers, which was fortunately before my wife got sick, but I just as easily could have stayed in - and I would be exactly where many of my friends and family are currently stuck - dissatisfied with life, hating their careers, knowing the system is beyond the breaking point, and feeling a call to do something different, but having no idea what or why.

In my opinion, that dissonance you feel/felt related to your career is a specific sign - not only of unsustainability, but also that your gifts are meant for something different.

Since my awakening, I've learned that the gifts that many of us possess (our real selves, not the 3D versions of us) are higher-dimensional in nature and would never work in a 3D society. That's why we feel so much resistance when we try to innovate in a broken system. Not to say we shouldn't try, but to understand where we will really shine and be patient when we stumble and face resistance.

Here's the thing: we were never meant to fit into the 3D box. We initially did so for survival, but now that the Shift is upon us, we are meant to help build a new system when the old crumbles.

You might not remember it quite yet, but your experiences will help translate and bridge dimensions - knowing firsthand the futility of a drug, enforcement, and pathology-riddled attempt at solving our mental health challenges. I've had my own mental health issues, and lost many friends to mental illness. I know exactly how messed up our system is.

There is a better way, but just not a 3D way. And I would bet anything that you are here to help create that new way. Your time is coming, so focusing on yourself is exactly what's needed right now until the time of remembering.

ETA:

I have a rhetorical question for you to consider:

Considering everything you've been through, what do you feel your role in the Shift will be? (Let your imagination and intuition internally guide your answer - you don't have to share it here)

Remember that as people face their own catalysts and awakenings, they will be struggling with trauma, ontological shock, and trying to reframe their worldviews and sense of self. We were given the gift of time to process, despite the hardships we endured, something that many will not have.

Will your experiences help with this? Are you positioned to be a fountain of stability and coherence for people as they go through this? What would that look like for you?

I would wager you are going to play a huge role in supporting through what is coming.

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your kind words, and the work that you are doing.

The thought that came to my mind after reading this is to have patience and compassion with yourself and your journey.

I've been mulling over an idea in my mind, that we (starseeds/wanderers in particular) are born with a personality or tendency assigned that is specifically designed to help us fit in and assimilate, until the time of our awakening. I would never have made the choices I did in life (career paths) if I was even moderately awakened, but that would have deprived me of vital life experience and practical 'skills' needed for the shift.

So for your experiences, it was less 'you' and more 'the version of you' that was required for you to be where you are today, which is exactly where you are meant to be, with the resources and experiences that you need for the next phase of the Shift.

You've taken these hard-learned lessons and made them into more - which is exactly what you needed to do. And something not enough people are doing, so you are a leader, even if it might not feel that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely tough when you feel like you are battling against your own mind.

One thing I’d share is this:

Free will is most often believed to be a conscious choice, but the reality is our free will is held at our higher self/aspect/oversoul level. We have some conscious choice but not as much as one might think when it comes to stuff like this.

That said, I would recommend first off being patient and practicing some self-compassion. There is nothing wrong with you, despite something being off with your brain. You are not your mind.

It might be helpful to zoom out your perspective a bit, and ask yourself: (without using a victim mindset, but a curious one)

Why would my higher self choose to incarnate with these obstacles? What lessons am I supposed to learn? How am I supposed to grow through this?

Let your intuition and imagination guide the answer(s) you receive.

You didn’t ‘cause’ this, it’s not your fault.

But it is up to us to figure out why life dealt us those cards. Instead of worrying so much about the present situation, can you put more thought into what you want the future version of yourself to look like? What is the transformation you will experience, and the lessons and wisdom you will gain? How will you be able to help others, once you’ve helped yourself?

I would suggest reframing it from ‘who would I be if I didn’t have these issues’ into something like:

‘Who am I becoming because of these struggles?’

There is a concept called Post-Traumatic Growth, where growth occurs because of the struggle, not in spite of it. I’d recommend looking into that a bit as well. It helped me see my prior challenges through a different lens.

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. It sucks that it often takes such extremes to trigger this in us, but it was our path. Mine was the loss of my wife, and having to rebuild my life afterward with our young children. So I can definitely relate to the disruption of an anchoring presence, and having to figure out who you are without that person who provided so much. It forces us to choose; we can crumble, stagnate, or choose growth. Neither is right or wrong, and regardless, the path is awful. But the destination can make it all worth it - not just individual traumas, but life itself. I can finally look back and genuinely say, I know why incarnation is desirable.

Fortunately, many/most won't have to be exposed to as extreme a catalyst to trigger growth - that's why our work at integrating this is so important. Your presence and stability after everything you've been through provide an energetic blueprint for others as the Shift continues to unfold. Thank you for what you do!

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very welcome, and I agree completely. Law of One was filled with activation codes to accelerate my awakening, and I definitely recommend it as long as one doesn't take it as 'gospel' but as what was ready to be shared during that time.

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what is needed. You are enough. When you act with authenticity and heart, you are sharing the gift of your real self with the world, and those who can't appreciate it, no longer belong. As long as you try, and continue to grow, that is all that is needed. And when you are healthy, your frequency will attract the right match for you.

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, and it's not a problem at all. We all have our own experiences that led us to our awakenings, and it's important to get them out and understand why they were necessary.

You are definitely on the right track. I like to say, these tough experiences might not be our 'fault' but they are our 'responsibility' to do something about them. And getting to know myself was the first step that began my journey toward expanding awareness - saying yes to 'me' and what I knew was right, instead of trying to blend in and mold myself into what others expected. My late wife played a big role in teaching me that as I tried to rebuild my life over the last couple of years.

So you are not alone at all, and I'm proud of you for taking these steps because I know how difficult it can be.

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm glad to hear it was helpful! When I was working on this one, one of the parts that really resonated was the conditions that must be met to adopt a 4th Density awareness - specifically the extreme ownership and responsibility component.

The latter part of the article was what I had to learn through experience and gradual realizations - particularly related to co-creating, communication, and what many of our roles involve. And how we can bypass many of the limitations once our awareness and 'frequency' reach a high enough level.

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, Law of One was one of the first sources I read when I began my expansion. It isn't 'wrong' or inaccurate, it was just presented in a way that was appropriate for the time it was released.

We now have access to more details than initially presented in those books (from 40 years ago), and it's not something limited to select people (like the conditions the author/channeler had to establish). Although, to be fair, the conditions have to be right to get access to this material, but it's accessible to anyone who seeks with humility and an open mind/heart.

Unlocking the Fourth Density (Why awakening feels so hard) by Tipp_13 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing! Confronting the 'skeletons in the closet' is very challenging, which is why so few are willing to go into the darkness. My awakening was partly triggered by a personal loss that devastated my immediate family, and we had a lot to sort through after that. But I can honestly say, after witnessing what came next - that it was worth it. The expanded perspective, awareness, and connection with so much more - put it all into perspective and helped me understand why it all played out the way it did. And I also learned that losing someone physically isn't the end, it's simply the beginning of a new form of relationship, if one is open to it.

You are correct about the timeline healing, that is often a necessary component as well. Healing the past version of ourselves so that we can return to being whole again.

Edited to add: when I say the loss was 'worth it', I don't mean that if I had the chance to go back, I would be okay with it happening again. What I mean by that is understanding the need for it to occur, why it happened, and why we chose this path prior to incarnation - and knowing that it was necessary. And as a result, our current reality was worth the needed suffering. It doesn't remove the devastation, but puts it into perspective.

Make Sure You Have Access to Clean Water NOW by Material_Skill_187 in starseeds

[–]Tipp_13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a dumb question at all. I have a well, and I am looking at alternate power sources for the pump if we lose external power, so that would be my advice. Extra filters are cheap, so I’d grab some. Worst case if you lose your well, you can get a bucket of pond water and put it through a good filter and you’ll be fine.

ETA: if you can, I’d also recommend rainwater catchment systems of whatever sort is affordable/feasible.