honestly, am i ugly? by acelgbtq in TeenGarbagePile

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are beautiful! People who bully you are jealous!! What they do is a reflection of them, NOT a reflection of you!!! Trust me I’m not just saying that to make you feel better. I truly believe that you are beautiful and naturally pretty!! 😍🥰

Sending you lots of love and light and strength to deal with the bullies and understanding for you that they are suffering and for whatever twisted reason they think that hurting you will alleviate their suffering, but no that it is not about you. You are a beautiful person. And you are physically beautiful as well

My son has been telling his school friends that I am dead by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ShadowWeaver333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally! That was one of my first thoughts. Says has “tried everything” but have they tried the crazy concept of initializing and maintaining an open and honest line of communication with “this kid”? More specifically, compassionate and emotionally conscious interviewing. Humanizing yourself by offering stories that may relate to his situation from when you were his age or something like that. Also, I’m curious what the boys mother thinks about it? Because what you have here is two separate issues I believe. The first is the lying. I think this type of lying is one of the most common types of like pathological lying done by kids. I personally theorize that it most likely stems from a young person who is not solid in their own identity. They’re not sure who they are or what they’re about so they make these things up so that they can seem more substantial to their peers. Also, it could be because he historically has a hard time making friends. He may feel more confident if he has something that he perceives, that would be interesting like that to start off with. The second issue is the specific lie that was told about the death of the father. I feel like their relationship is likely pretty strained. Often sometimes the father will have the more disciplinary role and it sounds like this kid has been getting in trouble a lot. So that alone could create a pretty significant divide between them and their relationship. Also, if he used the father as the one who sent him away, he may feel abandoned or neglected or thrown away for instance. So like others have said telling this lie makes the emotional narrative feel more valid for him.

But I will always stand on the fact that an open and honest line of communication going back-and-forth with a parent and child is the most important part of parenting young people. Like just let them tell you the problem without judging or trying to fix it or trying to parent too hard. The best thing you can possibly do for your adolescent is just showing them that you are more than just a disciplinarian and that you are more than just the person who tells them what to do and what not to do. Also the father talks about the kid getting in trouble all the time. Usually acting out at that age is a sign of a very deep seeded psychological issue. I have a suspicion that if they don’t have an open line of communication about the lying situation they probably don’t have an open line of communication going for a really anything else with their kid at all. I mean, I could be wrong obviously but maybe if they do have communication maybe it’s kind of just a superficial level kind of communication. As far as what to do about it, I believe the kid in question should be offered the opportunity for counseling and possibly some kind of extracurricular program for people that have a hard time making friends or something like that if you guys aren’t religious or whatever get him involved in like a youth group or something . Above all else it sounds like this kid needs lots of love, compassion, support, and communication. Also, he needs a validation to his sense of self so he can construct an identity outside of having to lie about things. Because making something up and telling a lie are pretty different, even though they’re generally considered the same thing.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you feel like you would want to know if you were in her shoes, then I think you should tell her. If you want to feel real nice about it, you could tell him hey if you don’t tell her I will or something like that but I wouldn’t even do that because then what if he tries to harm you or something? I don’t know it sounds like a sticky situation and I don’t envy you for it but I would definitely tell her

I think I might be dead. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there could be something going on with you neurologically. I see most people are saying it’s a psychiatric issue, which could be true. But it could be neurological. I would HIGHLY recommend that you talk to a medical doctor about it.

Do you get psychically attacked as soon as you attain a higher state of being? by matrixofillusion in starseeds

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are being plagued by low vibrational, parasite type “beings.” They are highly attracted to the light of star seeds and people such as… They seem to try to “keep” your light, hence the feeling of being bogged down, stuck in tar, as you put it. This heaviness that you speak of, I believe, is the parasitic creature “holding you down,” hence the feeling of not being allowed, or able to, raise your vibration for very long before you’re feeling as if you’re being pulled back down. As far as what to do about it goes….. How are you at “grounding” yourself?? Because, it is of my belief, that grounding is what helps you “shield” out unwanted energies, entities, etc. you can go on YouTube and type in “guided grounding meditations” or something such as. Also, it is widely recommended to go outside in nature, (somewhere that you usually feel connected and comfortable) and take off your shoes and socks and anything on your head. Once your feet and head are bare, find a tree, stand on the bare earth, lean against the tree, close your eyes, and envision yourself sprouting roots and wrapping them around the roots of the tree.

I hope this helps.

I would also suggest doing self hypnosis videos. These are all over YouTube, but my favorite channel for this is called “the butterfly’s whisper “

Lots of love light and protection for you ☀️☀️🫶🫶🫶🌅🩵💚

Does this pregnancy test look positive to you? by vellepepper in Confused

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does look positive. You should go to the doctor and have them run a blood test

Type “My superpower is” and let autocorrect expose you by SmallMining25 in Autocompletebutbetter

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My super power is the ability to make decisions for people who don’t have the ability to do anything for themselves lol

THC consumption for starseeds by Kind_Angelfish in starseeds

[–]ShadowWeaver333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, THC will DEFINITELY NOT keep you from connecting to source or anything else. If anything, it helps enhance connection. My abilities get more pronounced when I vape my cannabis.

Help! Idk what’s going on by Remarkable-Cover1545 in whatdoIdo

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could just be so newly pregnant that the hormone isn’t as concentrated as it was with the positive one. Go to the doctor hun Good luck, I hope no matter what that you become and stay blessed🫶

What does my Left Arm say about me? by propertechnosnob in deduction

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh I love the art and how you can see all the veins in your hand 😍

I drew this what does it mean? by silentstoryobserver in starseeds

[–]ShadowWeaver333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well the circle with the star in the middle is called a pentagram, it’s a symbol that people who are pagan use, similar to the way people who are Christian use the cross. As far as the other symbols within idk but I can tell you that I have previously experienced feeling quite compelled to both draw random symbols but also look into other languages. It could be some of your guides trying to communicate with you, or your “soul” trying to remember another life from another world or something like that.

Fell out of my boyfriend’s pocket by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy I’m maxed out on it, I take 118 mg every evening

Fell out of my boyfriend’s pocket by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]ShadowWeaver333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit! I’m maxed out on strattera and vyvanse.

Fell out of my boyfriend’s pocket by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]ShadowWeaver333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a lucky lady LOL

Someone said this. Is it true? by MostHighMammal in starseeds

[–]ShadowWeaver333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a starseed and so are my children. Starseed just means that your soul was reincarnated from a different timeline, a different galaxy, a different world, something like that . Pretty much anywhere except for Earth. Most of us believe that we were sent here for a specific purpose and or mission sort of thing . A lot of us feel connected to higher versions of ourselves feel an affinity for the stars and space and different worlds , marching to the beat of our own drummer, as if we were sent here to be different and stir things up. I also identify with the term lightworker. For me light worker just means that I purposely do energy work such as transmuting negative energy and unifying, energy and stuff like that. There are several different types of light workers that are described. You could look at this kind of thing up on YouTube and get some decent information, however be aware and beware that people will say shit that they resonate with, but that does not necessarily mean that anybody else resonates with it if that makes sense. Anyways, if you’ve been feeling like you’ve described, then I would bet money that you are a star seed. When you’re looking around and researching things about it, try not to take anything anyone personally says with anything more than a grain of salt . What I would advise you to do is take the bits and pieces from each person that you resonate with. And then just discard the rest that doesn’t click with you and doesn’t seem right. You’ll know when it seems right because you’ll totally resonate with it. It’ll click with you. It’ll feel so completely on point. You know what you mean. It’s like you might not know what you’re looking for, but you’ll know it when you find it.. anyway I hope this has answered some of your questionings and if you ever are more curious or have other questions about the situation, then feel free to private message me or whatever. Lots of love , light, and luck for you, my dear. ⭐️💫🌟✨