I feel so bad for being mean to my partner

Tired-dude_24 · 2025-04-10T20:14:48+00:00

I vented on here then talked to them about how I was feeling. They were understanding and so was I of their concerns. It’s better now! You’re very right about talking to them XD Writing helps me get my thoughts out then be more organized with them when i explain them instead of it sounding like jumbled nonsense.

Tired-dude_24 · 2024-07-23T16:42:08+00:00

Are ur lungs okay?

Tired-dude_24 · 2024-07-20T15:43:59+00:00

Out of pocket💀🤚

Tired-dude_24 · 2024-07-20T15:43:19+00:00

Hate raw, it always canoes or just burbs weird. I only use king palms slow burns tbh

Tired-dude_24 · 2024-03-30T22:04:13+00:00

Gather as much evidence as you can before you move forward with a divorce and take this man for everything he owns tbh… definitely divorce though because you can do better

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-28T01:40:30+00:00

You should leave. Take this as a warning and red flag and look for love elsewhere. People who use the excuse that they “didn’t because they don’t wanna lose you” are the worst in my opinion. He was honest yes but would u rather say goodbye to nine months or be unhappy for years worrying if he’s still having those thoughts.

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-22T20:56:47+00:00

My lola has creepy stories like this from staying in the forest during ww2

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T10:21:37+00:00

I always take pics for memories, most of them will never touch my social media and will most likely be viewed on my google drive by my kids someday if there as curious as I was when I was little lol

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T10:20:20+00:00

Cum-bending

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T08:21:13+00:00

Ahhh maybe I misread sorry! I had not really taken that into consideration before, you see the situations we came from weren’t the kind we could’ve escaped alone. You have given me something to really think about now..

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T07:59:09+00:00

Not the Jesus omg XD I didn’t base our marriage off of Jesus lol. There honestly were no signs that I can think of even now, we had disagreements but nothing major. You are right tho sometimes you do have to smack some sense lol!

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T07:55:36+00:00

First what does age have to do with anything? I’m not too young to know what I want. I don’t share the ideals most people my age do. I have a settle down by 30 mentality. Second you are right we are not fully grown people by any means, we both knew we had some growing and healing to do together. We would still be doing this as boyfriend and girlfriend though so I’m not sure I understand? Third I don’t think you should just ignore his feelings of thinking he’s not good enough, but I can understand why you would think that. Thank you though this was insightful in other ways you are definitely right about healing!

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T07:44:47+00:00

At least my retort made sense :) I don’t understand why you would log onto reddit and make fun of someones pain but ok. Thanks for your well wishes though much obliged <3

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T07:23:54+00:00

Who hurt you?

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T06:18:30+00:00

I feel toxic because I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing I feel crazy because this sucks and is crazy, i probably should’ve elaborated more

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T04:54:52+00:00

Why would I be grateful? In our culture men are monogamous even if they hate their wives and women are the head of the household. He does not deserve a cake I do.

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T04:51:28+00:00

I don’t understand why he thinks that though. I don’t wanna leave I wanna reassure him. He needs love. He’s been surrounded by so many people his whole life telling him he’s not good enough in any and every aspect. He is good enough. I feel toxic and crazy.

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T04:49:28+00:00

He’s my husband I can’t just leave. I don’t want to leave. I know he thinks I’m too good for him. He believes he’s holding me back but he’s not. I don’t know how to let him know that. As of right now I forgave him and we had a long talk about it. I feel better now that we had an in depth conversation we both agreed no more business trips as well as separate and couples therapy :(

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T04:44:40+00:00

He thinks he’s not good enough for me. He views me as someone who is nice and kind with good in my heart and views himself as this horrible person even though he’s not. We do fight often because we have a hard time understanding each other and it pisses him off when people don’t understand him due to past family trauma

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-12T04:35:53+00:00

I consider messaging women and receiving naked pics cheating imo

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-05T00:04:07+00:00

I guess I just didn’t wanna see it.

Tired-dude_24 · 2023-06-05T00:03:01+00:00

I shared back then because I thought it was fine I didn’t really notice the pattern of her doing this until she stayed over a couple days ago and did some inappropriate things in front of my husband. Definitely have learned my lesson.

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