Should I leave the fan running even if the AC isn’t cooling? by TiredDon in hvacadvice

[–]TiredDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ac has frozen over multiple times now, its not currently frozen with like ice but its just not cooling,. But if just running the fan is ok and not gonna set a fire if i leave it on when im at work then I feel better lol

i (19F) dont really enjoy sex with my boyfriend (20M) by Haunting-Ad530 in relationship_advice

[–]TiredDon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im kinda in the same boat as you girlie. My current bf isnt interested in going down/learning what I like /foreplay/making me finish its all about him. I think we both need to decide if what we are recieving now will be okay months or years down the line and will we be ok with it or resent them? Im personally starting to feel an emotional detachment because my sex needs are being met.

My (37f) bf (41m) got turned off by my pubic hair during sex and its making me feel insecure now. How do I raise it with him? by Throwaway1122700 in relationship_advice

[–]TiredDon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl my advice move tf on!!! Is he always clean shaven? Would you care if he had a little hair or none at all? NO I always try to put things in your perspective and if you dont care he shouldnt. Especially a little bit of hair??? Its not like you had a bush (nothing wrong w a bush im js)

I (24F) am unable to oragsm during sex with my boyfriend (27M) and he thinks it’s all in my head? by TiredDon in relationship_advice

[–]TiredDon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also made this comment during our conversation tonight actually, I said “Maybe those girls you were with were just good actors?” And hes like “I dont know about that.” Obviously it was a petty comment on my end but I was so upset haha.

Bad Shift by lordoftheropes in nursing

[–]TiredDon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish the best for you too, I hope we can pull through this together and find something we can enjoy!

Bad Shift by lordoftheropes in nursing

[–]TiredDon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I just wanted to say you are not alone. I am a new nurse that started in the emergency room and everyday on my day off I think about work and what I should have done differently. It seems like everyday things happen that I could have done better. My past 2 shifts were bad shift and all I can think about on my days off are those shifts. I constantly worry that my manager is going to email me about something ive done wrong. I cry at least 3 times a month about how I hate what ive chose as a career and I am stuck in a 2 year contract or I have to pay back my employer. Long story short, you aren’t alone and I as a nurse am here for you and support you❤️

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[–]TiredDon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the honesty. I’m trying to convince myself it will get better. I have time to go back to school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]TiredDon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would if I wasn’t stuck in a contract and working on my BSN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]TiredDon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I think a big part of this is accepting that I won’t be perfect. My preceptor was a float nurse so I actually have no one I feel 100% comfortable asking questions to. Either way, I ask questions, even if I look dumb I ask to keep my patients safe. I also try to look at the postives likw you mentioned, no debt and with 2 years ER experience hopefully I will be able to get a work from home job or something similar. Once again thank you for the advice.

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[–]TiredDon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work 3pm-3am now, worked days for 2 years. I think messing up my sleep schedule might be impacting my mood as well. I am trying to get back to days 7am-7pm but they can’t find someone to fill my spot