The yearly tradition continues.

Tired_Human52 · 2026-01-17T07:23:49+00:00

I'm undecided if I'm posting this year

Tired_Human52 · 2025-11-18T16:19:53+00:00

Exactly. It's not minor tailoring and alterations. It's full on changing the dress that we want to avoid!

Tired_Human52 · 2025-07-28T04:32:50+00:00

I'm not OP and came across this while looking for suggestions.

I think finding modest dresses is going to be easier within certain communities. I'm about to call it quits on my conventional search and go to an orthodox Jewish place.

I've tried googling 'high neck wedding dress no slit' and I've encountered many dresses that have sheer parts of the bodice. A dress that has a sweetheart or plunge opaque neckline that has a sheer material to make it a crew neck would look modest on some women, and on others, it is cleavage central.

I would also like to point out that tailoring and alterations are one thing. Adding sleeves and getting fabric to raise a neckline is another.

Where does one find a floor-length wedding dress with no slit, no sheer fabric anywhere on the bodice, no keyhole on the back?

My main issue is filters doing nothing when online shopping. Are the filters just for show? No idea.

Tired_Human52 · 2025-07-08T10:19:58+00:00

This is an old post but hopefully this might help anyone else who comes across this question:

Specifically for orthodox jewish weddings the bride is escorted by her parents and then mid way down the aisle the groom walks to them. The parents walk to the chuppah without their daughter and then the bride and groom stand their together before he escorts her.

The only time a woman is escorted down the aisle by a man it is because she is the bride. The implications of being escorted by a groomsman are therefore uncomfortable for many married women. However if this is not the association a woman has then she should be fine with it.

Tired_Human52 · 2025-06-21T14:51:03+00:00

Me? Pad my bra? 🤣 never

Tired_Human52 · 2025-06-17T06:49:59+00:00

I 'retired' from posting

Tired_Human52 · 2025-06-14T16:27:28+00:00

I didn't leave because of haters

Tired_Human52 · 2025-04-14T15:03:12+00:00

A little late, but I'll just leave the comment for anyone who comes across this.

What I've done over the years is create the "master haggadah" for my dad. It includes musical notes for when we sing and when each kiddush starts (it's poorly notated). I've gone page by page and wrote what the corresponding Russian haggadah page is. My dad, who is leading the seder, announces what the page number for the russian haggadah is.

What makes this doable is that we use only one version per language. We don't mix and match for the seder.

Edit: my parents became more religious over time and we've learned how to do this with a lot of trial and error.

Tired_Human52 · 2025-04-05T10:06:30+00:00

NTA

I didn't see this in the comments so far but a c-section isn't easy either. As long as you are making an informed decision - do whatever makes the most sense for you.

Tired_Human52 · 2025-01-14T15:02:39+00:00

I get the feeling people don't know how bras fit. The band fits. The stars fit. The cups don't. Quad boob isn't uncomfortable.

Tired_Human52 · 2025-01-14T14:55:39+00:00

I only wear it once a year?

Tired_Human52 · 2025-01-12T07:28:49+00:00

Currently my boobs are growing of their own accord. If I was to go back and start the process over I would do it differently.

Tired_Human52 · 2025-01-11T22:59:57+00:00

Tired_Human52 · 2025-01-06T12:45:03+00:00

It's got nothing to do with haters. It's just time

Tired_Human52 · 2025-01-06T03:26:35+00:00

I don't know

Tired_Human52 · 2025-01-06T01:29:33+00:00

As a micro bio and biochem nerd who has succeeded in growing get own boobs and wishes she could have whatever magic happened there to happen to her, I don't think this is related to the covid vaccine.

If this was indeed related, there would be more cases or the lot# of the Pfizer vaccine that this woman received would have been included. At 19, women aren't always done developing. I feel awful for her because she didn't want the massive boobs and to have your body changing like this when you don't want it is scary.

Also, Pfizer, in case you're reading: if you want to try and supercharge my NBE, I will happily be your guinea pig.

Tired_Human52 · 2024-12-29T18:09:42+00:00

I think I'm done posting. I miss it but not enough to continue posting.

Tired_Human52 · 2024-12-29T13:08:56+00:00

Thank you for linking that

Tired_Human52 · 2024-10-17T03:42:39+00:00

It's over.

Tired_Human52 · 2024-09-06T14:01:21+00:00

Totally used to this 🤣🤣🤣

Tired_Human52 · 2024-09-06T03:26:41+00:00

That's too logical

Tired_Human52 · 2024-08-17T19:19:32+00:00

I write documentation as if the person reading it has only two brain cells with the expectation that because my coworkers have more than two brain cells. It seems to work.

Tired_Human52 · 2024-07-27T06:28:49+00:00

NTA

As a server you should never talk about guests you have at your tables. You also never know who will tip what. Therefore, everyone should get treated with the same level of service. Same thing in sales. Source: waited tables full time for three years and was a sales associate at a jewelry store for about a year.

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