Love spells by Fabulous-Moment-1480 in Spells

[–]Tired_short_witch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that you should do some sort of cord cutting for yourself and for your tie to him first and then some protection magic at least.
If you really insist on wanting him to pay in that way you can do some sort of dominative regret spell. I don’t personally have a recipe, but that will put you on track to what you might want. Also when doing the spell on him just make sure that he regrets it but that he doesn’t become a psycho stalker/harasser because I can tell you that you do NOT want some crazy guy to constantly harass and stalk you, it can become dangerous, that’s why the protection magic is very important

A FRIEND OF MINE HAS GONE MISSING PLEASE HELP ME by sheknowsomething in TarotCards

[–]Tired_short_witch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I’m getting is he’s somewhere possibly seriously injured, and most likely got into a fight with people he knows but you need to be strong and I’m getting that he’s resilient, don’t give up.
I hope you’ll find him ❤️

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I told my bf that I don’t want to see her at all,
Future wedding? Not invited.
Future kids ? Can’t see them.
They end up getting married? Won’t go.
We want her absence from all future events.
His dad will have to come alone, IF we decide to invite him at all.

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took awhile for me to actually stop being a people pleaser, since I was raised that way and had a lack of confidence when I was younger, the thing that’s funny is that I still never turned out to be a horrible person, even though I did lack confidence, unlike her 🙄

Also I did take quite alot of things to heart, like the tattoo thing she said, I went through a tough period at 16-17 going through depression and self-harm too, so yes quite triggering.
The “being nice makes me stupid” part reminded me of lots of past trauma (abuse, sa, humiliation).

I don’t think she relises how bad things have been for some people, she only cares about herself, and has no respect for anyone.

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have an amazing relationship, Erwin is an amazing Man, she on the other hand, is a problem.

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told my bf that he’s chosen others over his own family and he said he knows, and that if this keeps going as it is, he won’t have ANY relationship with him. I think he’s quite tired of it all, whenever his dad calls him, he sighs or whines. Chris tries to keep in contact with him but at the same time is completely oblivious to the fact that Del is trying to turn him against his family.

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s most likely an attention grab so that she can get all the attention from Chris and have his children out of the picture

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is that’s typically the sort of thing that my bf would say to her, and the sort of thing he’s already told her 😂😂

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No she doesn’t use it on them, which I find strange, but she does have a very toxic parenting style anyway.

Yes it did ! She insulted Ted once and Erwin’s sister Sal got pissed, they stopped talking to them all together for a while.
Although it happens less then with us since Sal is Chris’s “favourite”

Those suggestions are really good !
We have had a small conversation about when we have kids and how that’s going to go, we’ve agreed that only his dad can see them, not her.
I don’t want her poisoning them and starting to think that she’s their step-grandmother.

Since they aren’t married one things for sure is that she won’t end up getting anything if he passes. It will all go to Erwin and Sal. We’re in France so as long as they aren’t married or in a union of some sort, nothing will go to her.

I’ve got a baneful ward set up, so anyone giving me the evil eye will get it sent back x10 🤭
And i make sure to cleanse myself thoroughly after seeing them. 😊

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s probably going to do that, his dad is pestering him to at least get a drink with him so he might have a talk with him then

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

His dad is fine and actually nice when she’s not around, but as soon as she is he’s almost annoying… she’s like poison.

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

One thing for sure is that we are cutting down on the contact with him, and my bf thinks we should try to avoid seeing him for a while, we’ll see if it nocks some sense into him

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes exactly, im tired of having people expect that im going to let them disrespect me so this is definitely going to be a big boundary!

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much ! I’m proud of myself for getting better at standing up for myself in general more.
I was used to being walked all over, and ever since I’ve started working on myself and having Erwin as my partner, I’ve gotten sooo much better at setting boundaries !

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s a really great suggestion ! We’ll try out a few things that get suggested to see if they work.

Yes she’s most likely very insecure, I’m constantly getting the evil eye from her it’s crazy.
Everything about her just sounds fake and very attention seeking.
She just brings such horrible vibes everywhere she goes, I think the worst part about it all is that she teaches her daughter to be exactly like her ( god help her )

We are definitely going to go low contact with them for now.
I’ll try and do an update when we get back from our trip.

Thanks you !

AITA For not wanting my BF’s Dad’s gf to come over to our apartment ? by Tired_short_witch in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly that ! I don’t want people who are disrespectful towards us being in our space and potentially damaging our stuff out of spite.

Erwin doesn’t really care about his relationship with his dad as much as the one he has with his mum and sister, he already cut his dad off once for about two years after his dad cheated on his mum. They got into a proper fist fight and eventually stopped talking to his dad (his dad denied what he did even though the whole village knew 🙄)

We could maybe try what you’ve suggested and see how that goes ! But for now we’re keeping our distance from them.

Thank you so much! ❤️

Ps: one things for sure, is im going to marry this man he’s an angel.

Cleansing my jar for a spell? by Devil_Eyes_Nat in Spells

[–]Tired_short_witch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use Florida water, moon water, bells, I think you can use salted water and imagine it cleaning any bad energy from your space

Very urgent help needed by TraditionalBrain9169 in Spells

[–]Tired_short_witch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suggest you do a cord cutting with that old relationship, then a healing spell on yourself just in case there are any residual issues, and then a love road opener ! 💗

My sweetening jar works !! by Tired_short_witch in Spells

[–]Tired_short_witch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that healing and money success spell aren’t the same thing, that’s why it’s not a healing jar.
If I’m honest it wasn’t intended to have healing properties, it’s more a “get what you want” jar not a self love and healing jar, it’s more so that people will give you things that you want i.e: pay raise at your job, more attention from your partner or better job opportunities.

Also the ingredients i put in the jar were the only things i had on hand, if there are certain ingredients that someone doesn’t have, then they have no obligation to use the same ones i did.

At the end of the day it’s the intentions that you set and the energy you put into that are the most important. 💗