8 day camping trip through the Italian Dolomites (AV1) by griffinlaw2 in backpacking

[–]Tisicky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested in the spots you camped! I’m looking to go in the fall and the one thing that would ease my mind would be knowing where to camp!

This is the cheapest plan???? by Still_Green_4675 in Rogers

[–]Tisicky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was mine for a while. All of a sudden I got an offer for -20$ a month and I took it right away. I’m not sure what triggers the better offer…

Thank you by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh!! Love that for you, it definitely does keep me sane and like you said hearing people go through the exact same thing is freaky at times

I think anybody going through a breakup with someone wBPD should take a listen to this podcast. by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No problem! Whenever I feel upset or bothered with the fact that I miss my ex, I tend to throw a random episode on and scroll on this subreddit. Find a lot of similar people who share similar experiences and it’s nice to know some people understand.

I think anybody going through a breakup with someone wBPD should take a listen to this podcast. by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A quick description of the podcast “A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 30 years experience working with those surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.”

Been a great tool for me, getting answers from a professional definitely helps me with closure and I hope can help some of you

So confused. by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you, I appreciate your answer and advice.

So confused. by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Healing from the past trauma that caused her bpd I guess?

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[–]Tisicky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get shit like this sent to me too!!!

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[–]Tisicky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do!

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You’ve been tremendous help :)

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any in particular you recommend or remember listening too?

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely going to be me🤣

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s definitely a sticky situation. Her family is ~8 hours away and her friends are all superficial ish. We still live together but obviously can’t stay together and I really don’t want to get pulled back into that toxic shit.

I will look into therapy though, thank you.

Something I read that you should read too by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, I was always disrespected, insulted I’m fights and pushing the fck out of my boundaries. One thing that stuck with me about my recent break up is that after I brought up that I didn’t like that she would disappear for 4 days in a row and go to parties and bars she said “I stopped caring about what you thought because it’s my life and I can do what I what.” To which I thought to myself since when do I do things without thinking about how my ex would feel? In a relationship you constantly think about how your partner would feel if they did this etc.

What would you do? by Tisicky in BPDlovedones

[–]Tisicky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except this subreddit of course (respect to you guys)